Edging/orgasm control - what is your experience and tips?

[jessie002828]

I was wondering im new to allot of this but sometime like just a while ago a older ssbbw taught me edging and there were alllot of nights then where she was just keeping me really really hard all night and i really needed to cumm and then,finally exploding in her or on her really really hard while i was shaking alllot and telling her how good it felt. And she was riding me so I came in her or doing 69 and then making sure i cummed all over her body while she kept telling me that’s why she has to control me the whole night so that it feels so good when she finally lets me spray.but I have a question to i, which is that now lately i just do allot of stroking myself and that’s it,and,is it still edging when cum is gushing out really slow for a long time,or is that like milking cause i saw stuff in here about milking and it makes me hard thinking about it

 

[eric_erosfan]

I was wondering im new to allot of this but sometime like just a while ago a older ssbbw taught me edging and there were alllot of nights then where she was just keeping me really really hard all night and i really needed to cumm and then,finally exploding in her or on her really really hard while i was shaking alllot and telling her how good it felt. And she was riding me so I came in her or doing 69 and then making sure i cummed all over her body while she kept telling me that’s why she has to control me the whole night so that it feels so good when she finally lets me spray.but I have a question to i, which is that now lately i just do allot of stroking myself and that’s it,and,is it still edging when cum is gushing out really slow for a long time,or is that like milking cause i saw stuff in here about milking and it makes me hard thinking about it

Edging is when you get right to when you feel like you are going to cum and you stop. I sometimes have to squeeze my cockhead tight to stop the orgasm. Then when you can you stroke more and keep doing that. You can edge for hours or days if you want.

 

[sweettalk4u]

I’m still interested too.
Link?

https://m.soundcloud.com/allysub69/sets/bambi-bimbodoll-conditioning

 

[sweettalk4u]

I was wondering im new to allot of this but sometime like just a while ago a older ssbbw taught me edging and there were alllot of nights then where she was just keeping me really really hard all night and i really needed to cumm and then,finally exploding in her or on her really really hard while i was shaking alllot and telling her how good it felt. And she was riding me so I came in her or doing 69 and then making sure i cummed all over her body while she kept telling me that’s why she has to control me the whole night so that it feels so good when she finally lets me spray.but I have a question to i, which is that now lately i just do allot of stroking myself and that’s it,and,is it still edging when cum is gushing out really slow for a long time,or is that like milking cause i saw stuff in here about milking and it makes me hard thinking about it

 

[sweettalk4u]

Milking is usually done with prostate massage and simply takes away your orgasm

 

[jessie002828]

Milking is usually done with prostate massage and simply takes away your orgasm

ok’ thanks so but it still feels good though?i don’t understand how it works out why that would feel good

 

[sweettalk4u]

ok’ thanks so but it still feels good though?i don’t understand how it works out why that would feel good

Different for different people

 

[InUorOnU]

Different for different people

Yeah certainly at different experience.
I have had prostate stimulation many times, but are yet to find that girl that can actually milk me…I mean it’s a matter of then buying in and being skilled…not always that easy. But I would love to know what a proper milking is like for me.

 

[sweettalk4u]

Yeah certainly at different experience.
I have had prostate stimulation many times, but are yet to find that girl that can actually milk me…I mean it’s a matter of then buying in and being skilled…not always that easy. But I would love to know what a proper milking is like for me.

It also may not be the same each time

 

[MaggieTheUnicorn]

I love to edge.... there is definitely some good advice in here about going slow. Take your time and gradually build things up. Orgasm control and edging, holding back from cumming, does take some muscles. That's also part of what makes it so good though. Stronger orgasm muscles = stronger orgasms.

I'll often enough find myself spending all day edging on and off, and I really like to hold myself as close as possible for as long as possible. For me at least, I love the tease, the building of tension, and the desire. I want to want to cum. Being right at the edge and the intensity of it feels so good. I've yet to go several days without release, certainly thinking about doing so though.

It's hot reading about other people's experiences so I have enjoyed this thread I like edging myself, but I also really enjoy other people's edging. I just find it to be such a turn-on.

 

[InUorOnU]

I love to edge.... there is definitely some good advice in here about going slow. Take your time and gradually build things up. Orgasm control and edging, holding back from cumming, does take some muscles. That's also part of what makes it so good though. Stronger orgasm muscles = stronger orgasms.

I'll often enough find myself spending all day edging on and off, and I really like to hold myself as close as possible for as long as possible. For me at least, I love the tease, the building of tension, and the desire. I want to want to cum. Being right at the edge and the intensity of it feels so good. I've yet to go several days without release, certainly thinking about doing so though.

It's hot reading about other people's experiences so I have enjoyed this thread I like edging myself, but I also really enjoy other people's edging. I just find it to be such a turn-on.

Interesting how you used the word ‘tease’. When was watching this thread more closely and posted previously, it did sort of cross my mind edging is a sexual act that’s prolonged or without climax…but being teased or in a prolonged state of arousal is for some thrilling and for others frustrating…or in my case often both. That prolonged state of continued arousal is something that I have found it almost like edging. Especially if I’m at work like now and I chat a bit and sit at my desk hard but without ability to release or even touch.
It’s something that, like edging is a large part of the build up of desire and ‘need’ to cum.

 

[Lady2020]

I don't like edging, but I know a lot of people do. To each their own.

 

[Binubnrj]

I am always been edged to the limit everytime. Then my hard and totally erect tool is made to become limp and soft again by the application of things or tricks, a bit painful those processes are. Just after completion of this whole procedure it is again been caged for the next time to come and my hands are freed by my, whom I can say, any of my owners.
I do get permission from the said person to empty my balls occasionally and have sexual satisfaction but that depends on situations and not before I endure the uneasiness for atleast a month.

I'm 20 M...

 

[DevotedHusband1]

I haven't posted in a while and thought I'd give an update. I mentioned that my queen extended my time between ejaculations from 3-4 days to 5-7 days at the beginning of the year. This was really difficult at first. Several times I made it to six days and then came during sex because the arousal was just too much. (In my defense, I think a lot of guys would lose control if they were on day six of denial while pounding a petite Nicole Kidman lookalike with a vicious dominant streak.) Madam disciplined me very harshly for these infractions. On the day following she would ignore me for the entire day, which drives me crazy. In the evening I got a harsh lecture followed by a spanking with her heavy wooden hairbrush. She really laid into me too. But as she explained, the consequences needed to be severe or else I just wouldn't comply. After a few weeks I finally made it to seven days, and my queen was very pleased.

Days 5-7 are interesting and REALLY intense. The erections I have are beyond insane. She loves how big and hard they are and wants to have sex constantly. She also likes to keep me naked so that she can watch me walk around with an erection. By days 6 and 7 I am so bonkers with lust and adoration for her that I struggle to think about anything else for any length of time. On these days I will often go into her home office where she works and beg her to just let me kiss her feet under her desk all day. Sometimes she lets me, but it usually leads to sex so on days when she's busy I can't. She has had to remind me that I need to find a way to focus on my own work on days 6 and 7 (as well as my household chores) and has said that if I don't I won't be allowed to come on day 7 even if my behavior and attitude have otherwise been acceptable.

The overall effect of the new regime has been to make me even more adoring and worshipful toward her. I truly do worship her, I live to please her, and I fear her wrath. She is my goddess, and I live to serve her. All hail the queen!

 

[lilmissdarling]

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[Will527]

There's a difference between teasing and edging, obviously. Most men cannot edge themselves because the urge to come is to great; the better it feels the quicker we want to come. But for some reason, we can withstand being edged by a woman and will let her control our orgasm. Edging allows continued pleasure blended with frustration due to lack of release. Denial is wonderful. Edging under any circumstances is best when both partners recognize the "breaking point" and release is necessary for health reasons. However, a good case of "blue balls" can enhance the overall experience.
Regarding teasing, it's generally part of foreplay and only intended to encourage the partner to continue activity. Just my opinons.

 

[Dirtygirlndeer]

When doing this with a guy online .. I always start small and increase the times gradually

My favorite part is to have them stop after the time has expired and write an email to me of everything they were thinking of... and then they can start again and finish .. if they are allowed to finish

I just love being out with friends or maybe with a guy and that email comes in .. it makes me feel incredible

That email also gives me a lot of good info in which way to take things .. that allows me to tighten the screws on him

Sometimes I like to assign small times during the day .. like 5 mins in the bathroom at work ..then the hour long at night

I tell them to go really slow and stop and take breaks as needed

If they keep up with the assignments the relationship keeps growing

Definitely one of our favorite things to do.

 

[LisaMayTurner]

First things first, it's not dominating. How can it be? It's enjoying the eventual explosion of your man through making him incredibly happy for a very long time while enjoying the whole experience yourself. I think this "controlling" perception is just a vibe from porn movie addiction and not a reactive experiential perception based on enjoying the fun done well. It is neither "controlling" or "submissive" unless that is your personal feeling; it is only ever another way of generously and unselfishly giving and taking pleasure, as is all sexy fun.

 

[shewantsmore]

I dont know if many women do it or like it but i didnt do it until lockdown and covid, i always preferred to masturbate and enjoy it quickly 5/10 mins was enough but nothing else to do stuck inside 23 hours a day and a friend recommended i try it
Taking it slow,build up the pressure,the experience, feeling the excitement rise then stop touching ,letting my breathing return, emotions return, then start again, to experiences ,reading stories, watching porn or fantasies, , can be half hour, several hours ,what ever you enjoy, i found it was sudden especially if i edged several hours, i suddenly went over edge, i squirted,saw stars ,like having a convulsion, a fit, my orgasm lasted for mins no stop, and i experienced several one after another couldn't control then, from that minute onwards i was hooked

 

[Treeview]

from that minute onwards i was hooked

CLose enough to my experience too. Well said.

 

[Boat1]

Definitely one of our favorite things to do.

I'll go do that for you right now, Goddess!

 

[N2outdoors]

I'm single and do tease and denial and edging all the time. I love the way I feel when I'm so horny I'd be willing to do anything to cum. I'll play with doms online or read tease and denial stories on here. Right now I'm going on 5 weeks without cumming. I'm so wet...so horny...and I love it!

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[N2outdoors]

I use the videos where there is a timer to tell you how fast or slow you have to stroke.

Now I know that these videos are usually for men, but when there is a timer, I play with the clit in the same manner, on the counts of the beat in the video as I have no scenarios or significant other to communicate with and most of the times, it works fine.

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