Edging Your Woman

[Eilan]

Besides, you might not like to admit it, but there is a certain cock-carving in most women, too.

Best. Typo. Ever.

Oddly enough, I agree with it.

 

[MadeYaLook]

whoops do you agree with the typo-version or with what it was supposed to mean?

 

[StrayKat]

So I asked her where she wanted to eat. She said she didn't know.

I have exactly the same thing with my husband. I ask him what he wants for lunch and he never knows. He only knows hes hungry and I should fix something asap and if he doesnt like it I am going to get nagging for desert.

Also, you want to cuddle after sex. I'm perfectly fine sleeping alone

Not me. I am not just perfectly fine sleeping alone, I would never sleep with someone even in the same room again. I need my space and strange noises keep me awake. Cuddling after sex? No, it irritates the hell out of me. I could cuddle my kids and my cat if I had to cuddle someone.

So please dont generalize "you women". I am a woman and I definitely know what and where I want to eat and how to kick you out of my bed soon you stop being sexually useful.

 

[MadeYaLook]

I am a woman and I definitely know [...] how to kick you out of my bed soon you stop being sexually useful.

ouch

obviously, generalising is never good and I apologize for having done that. The whole "let your man tell you what you want" thing just got me going about that escapade last weekend.

 

[Leon_k]

When the delivery guy said it'd take him an hour because they had a busy night, I took my jogging shoes out of my gym bag and went for a run to pass the time.

The million dollar question is: did you get laid that night with her or not? or did your act of ordering Chinese, ruined everything?

 

[StrayKat]

ouch

obviously, generalising is never good and I apologize for having done that. The whole "let your man tell you what you want" thing just got me going about that escapade last weekend.

Apology accepted
I find the idea of anyone telling me what I want not just stupid but annoying. Trying to get me into my melting submissive mood that way can just turn me into the worst sadist bitch you ever met instantly.
We are all different people..... and to get back on topic, I get extremely pissed off if somebody tries to prolong or deny my orgasms. That is the best thing to do if you never want to see me again.

 

[MadeYaLook]

The million dollar question is: did you get laid that night with her or not? or did your act of ordering Chinese, ruined everything?

I didn't get laid that night with her that night, nor am I planning to have a sexual encounter with her in the future. But for the record: I think not the fact that I ordered take-out just for myself was the deal-breaker, but the fact that I went for a run to pass the time Like I said: five fingers on my right hand. I refuse to be a slave to the female sex.

I have no problem courting a woman, in fact it's something I enjoy, including most of the human "mating game". I have no problem in taking "no" for an answer either. But if she's just being bitchy for no reason, if she tries to be high maintenance because she feels like being high maintenance, I "abort mission" very quickly. There is "play hard to get" and there's "I just like giving him a task he cannot solve", and I don't tolerate the latter

We are all different people..... and to get back on topic, I get extremely pissed off if somebody tries to prolong or deny my orgasms. That is the best thing to do if you never want to see me again.

Personally I wouldn't edge my woman either unless she asked me to. I guess for a multi-orgasmic woman, it doesn't make much sense to be edged (unless it can increase the sensation?). For the kind of women who needs a longer break after an orgasm, it might be a bit cruel to seek relief as quickly as possible and then leave your man unsatisfied. On the other hand, my gender has done exactly that for a very, very long time, and a large chunk of the population might still be doing it. Maybe we deserve a little retaliation

 

[mynameisben]

It definitely requires a delicate touch to keep your woman exhilarated without taking her over the brink too soon. Trust your fingertips when she's precariously close. Don't rely on power tools. It's not like edging your lawn.

 

[NikkiBastion]

I've had three kids so I can definitely help you on the wishy washy, can't figure out what you want thing.

You: I'm starved. What do you feel like having for dinner?
Them: *siiigh* I don't know...um...uh...
You: Chicken?
Them: ehhh, not really
You: Seafood?
Them: ummm. Nah
You: Steak?
Them: Uhh...*whining* I don't knooowwww*

You: Me neither, so when you figure it out, you can eat. I'm going to have [insert choice here]

And they don't get to eat.


Returning Thread To Original Topic

It's quite an edgy thread...kept me on edge for 2 pages now.

It tends to make it more intense if I'm really turned on. Other times it's just annoying.

 

[Rob1514]

I like being edged (repeatedly brought to the brink of orgasm with or without release), but my wife prefers to just get me off. In an effort to show her the joys of being teased, I've edged her a few times. It's hot for me to watch her squirm and she seems to be incredibly turned on by it, but after a few minutes, she just gets really pissed off and demands that I get her over the edge. Have other women or their partners experienced this and did you/she like it? For men, these leads to a much more intense orgasm and heavier semen production. For the women, has your orgasm been more intense after being edged?

Hey, don't you work at the mall?

Edging huh? I didn't know it had a name

I've done this thing with my gf .. it's kind of a self-challenge ... I try to make her cum without actually touching her (and she can't touch either). With my face just over her pussy, I talk to her. I tell her how much I want to lick her and taste her, etc, and I'm so close she can feel my breath ... I'm sure you get the picture. It drives her a little crazy and her hips push toward me.

It's a risky game. You had better read her signals well and take care of her before she gets pissed.

I haven't succeeded yet ... but I'm no quitter

 

[CatBrown]

Agree with most of the women

For a rather hyper-sexual woman, I have seldom been able to have multiple orgasms, and almost never have I remained interested if taken to the edge and then dropped back. My body just doesn't work that way (and before you say it is in my head, believe me, I've wanted to be MO, and can even feel really good continuing past the first, I just can't seem to get to the second orgasm more than a handful of times in 28 years of varied sexual activity.)

I believe our brains are our biggest sex organs, but the other parts have a say as well. I like teasing early in the game, but not once I'm panting and speeding up., then I want satisfaction.

 

[nayia]

I thought this would be more popular. I really love when my boyfriend does this, I let him control everything every once in a while and sometimes he decides not to let me cum. It makes me feel so submissive and it just feels really good. I couldn't imagine getting pissed off.

 

[emipet]

When I get edged and it happens a lot, the orgasms are very intense for me. Sometimes TOO intense even as I have fainted dead away more than a few times. But they also are the orgasms where I squirt. My Partner loves to show this off.