Endless Curiosity

[Wild_Honey_66]

Right?!

Oh hell yes

 

[Lunation]

I'm in the honey/Trekka camp.

It's a good camp.

We have smores.

 

[Endless_Night]

I'm in the honey/Trekka camp.

It's a good camp.

We have smores.

There are smores, too!!!

Holy Cow. Sign me up.

 

[Wild_Honey_66]

Fuck.

Now I want phone sex. And s'mores.

 

[barefootgirl69]

Thanks, Trekka. My calendar tells me my hormones are on the rise.


Good phone chemistry is crucial for me. Something can work online but not in person, but if it works online and on the phone, chances are good it'll make the transition to RL. And honestly, I don't give a shit what they look like. If they can rock my world with their brain and their voice, they're gonna get their dick sucked like nobody's business.

This

 

[Azuldrgon]

My question is this: How well do those situations move to real time?

Does the online spark transfer? Is that fascinating conversationist boring in person? What about sexual chemistry?

I have only met one play partner in person and there was a spark there even though we couldn't act on it.

 

[JennyNo1]

In terms of regular dating sites, I've had mixed results with people I've talked to online - lots of not so hot dates, one disaster "relationship", and one really good one that lasted a couple of years. So, I think it's just like anything else - sometimes things work, sometimes they don't.

As to places like Lit, I've yet to find out; however.....

*snips*
Good phone chemistry is crucial for me. Something can work online but not in person, but if it works online and on the phone, chances are good it'll make the transition to RL. And honestly, I don't give a shit what they look like. If they can rock my world with their brain and their voice, they're gonna get their dick sucked like nobody's business.

I'm hoping this is true in general.

 

[Azuldrgon]

I do like hearing the voice whether phone or Skype......there's something addictive about when a partner cums on the phone....from what we discuss.....

I miss it.....

 

[Wild_Honey_66]

In terms of regular dating sites, I've had mixed results with people I've talked to online - lots of not so hot dates, one disaster "relationship", and one really good one that lasted a couple of years. So, I think it's just like anything else - sometimes things work, sometimes they don't.

As to places like Lit, I've yet to find out; however.....



I'm hoping this is true in general.

Hand that girl a s'more!

 

[JennyNo1]

Hand that girl a s'more!

Mmmm, s'mores & phone sex....orgasms galore!

 

[Wild_Honey_66]

Mmmm, s'mores & phone sex....orgasms galore!

Grocery shopping tomorrow.

Totally buying supplies!

 

[Endless_Night]

In terms of regular dating sites, I've had mixed results with people I've talked to online - lots of not so hot dates, one disaster "relationship", and one really good one that lasted a couple of years. So, I think it's just like anything else - sometimes things work, sometimes they don't. >

Sooooooooo I'm curious.

Online dating sites. Never been on one.

Do they...hmmm. Is there...talking? Before the date? Like...Litlationship style talking? If ya know what I mean?

Or is it all clean and squeaky until you meet?

Not looking to test anything out, you understand. Just...if I happen to ever find myself on a dating site I don't want to embarrass myself.

 

[Wild_Honey_66]

'clean and squeaky'

*chokes on my bagel*

 

[RubenesqueAphrodite]

Sooooooooo I'm curious.

Online dating sites. Never been on one.

Do they...hmmm. Is there...talking? Before the date? Like...Litlationship style talking? If ya know what I mean?

Or is it all clean and squeaky until you meet?

Not looking to test anything out, you understand. Just...if I happen to ever find myself on a dating site I don't want to embarrass myself.

ha.

Your expectations guide your experience in this, as well.

If you want to sext.... You will.
If you don't.....then there's still a 50/50 chance that at least some innuendos will be attempted.

Fight the urge to fuck on the first date.

For some of us, our dates are so few and far between, you might have an unnatural sense of urgency to knock boots right off the bat, just in case you don't get a second opportunity...

Be strong, young Padawan...

 

[LeinadVirgo]

'clean and squeaky'

*chokes on my bagel*

Seconded (but no bagel to choke on, just some grapes)

 

[Endless_Night]

Thank, RA!

I really was curious. Before coming to Lit I lounged around in complete ignorance about what was going on around me. Now, I look at the most mundane situations and...wonder.

One thing I have learned for certain. Always be suspicious of Links.

#Littlesistersurvivor

 

[Endless_Night]

'clean and squeaky'

*chokes on my bagel*

I...am going to take that as a no.

 

[Wild_Honey_66]

Seconded (but no bagel to joke on, just some grapes)

I run them through the mill, I want to know what they're about.

I'd rather have fewer, better dates than a bunch of crappy ones.

 

[Wild_Honey_66]

I...am going to take that as a no.

It's like the man said, you curate your experience.

Sexual compatibility is high on my list, so if I see potential, yes I'm going to bring it up.

 

[LeinadVirgo]

I run them through the mill, I want to know what they're about.

I'd rather have fewer, better dates than a bunch of crappy ones.

I know that. If the excitement dies after a couple sexy conversations, saves time getting bored in person. Plus you know, orgasms are fun and healthy

 

[Endless_Night]

I am starting to feel like I've led a strangely sheltered life....

 

[JennyNo1]

Sooooooooo I'm curious.

Online dating sites. Never been on one.

Do they...hmmm. Is there...talking? Before the date? Like...Litlationship style talking? If ya know what I mean?

Or is it all clean and squeaky until you meet?

Not looking to test anything out, you understand. Just...if I happen to ever find myself on a dating site I don't want to embarrass myself.

*whacks Honey on the back*

I always tried to keep things, er, at least pretty clean, at least the first few conversations, but 99% of the time, guys will push it. Of course it's going to come up, but if they immediately and constantly brought up sex, I ended it. My purpose in being there was not for a hookup, it was to find someone to build a relationship with, with all that implies. (I know, I'm hopelessly out of date. )

 

[Endless_Night]

Sooooooo.....

What you're really saying is guys on dating sites are the same as guys on Lit?

Feel free to correct me, Jenny.

 

[Wild_Honey_66]

I know that. If the excitement dies after a couple sexy conversations, saves time getting bored in person. Plus you know, orgasms are fun and healthy

That's not... exactly... what I meant.

Thanks, Jenny!

 

[RubenesqueAphrodite]

*whacks Honey on the back*

I always tried to keep things, er, at least pretty clean, at least the first few conversations, but 99% of the time, guys will push it. Of course it's going to come up, but if they immediately and constantly brought up sex, I ended it. My purpose in being there was not for a hookup, it was to find someone to build a relationship with, with all that implies. (I know, I'm hopelessly out of date. )

*checks her own birth certificate*

You're in good company, my dear.