Escorts, prostitutes and paying for sex.

[human_male]

Thanks everyone. Yeah that's in Auckland, Victor but not exactly near me. There's a parlour much closer and I went once but was a bit put off. You go in, and they bring the girls out and you have to sort of choose one on the spot, then off you go to the room. That's a bit daunting being on the shy side (that's why I thought it'd be easier with a private escort). A place like the Whitehouse where you can just go in, sit down and have a drink and see what happens would be a lot better.

 

[Sir Victor]

How about this one, a bit far I suppose: http://www.crazyhorse.com.au/about.htm

I've only heard about it, a bit far.

 

[infinity706]

Thanks everyone. Yeah that's in Auckland, Victor but not exactly near me. There's a parlour much closer and I went once but was a bit put off. You go in, and they bring the girls out and you have to sort of choose one on the spot, then off you go to the room. That's a bit daunting being on the shy side (that's why I thought it'd be easier with a private escort). A place like the Whitehouse where you can just go in, sit down and have a drink and see what happens would be a lot better.

I wouldn't feel too bad about not liking the lineup thing. That would bother me and I've slutted my way into triple digits.

 

[hotel_guy]

Don't know if this was on here, but......

What's your attitude on working with couples?

 

[human_male]

I decided to have another go at the club I went to a few months ago. The last time I went there I never even met any of the girls, I left because I was told none of them were into kissing. This time I resolved to actually meet them. So I went down there today and the girls come out (one at a time which was a relief, but they hung around after meeting me while I waited for the next one to come out and I had to make chit-chat with them which was like a stress test frankly I was so nervous) but I didn't like any of them, so again I left without a result.

This has actually been a bit of a blow because I'd pinned all my hopes on this. I'd told myself I would at least do something, so finally something was going to happen. It never occured to me that I wouldn't even like any of them and again leave with no result. You should have seen these women. Where the hell were all the hotties from the club's website I've been drooling over for months? I think those were probably fake.

So now I don't know what to do. There were three things I'd pinned my hopes on, the club (the only one near me) is a bust. Private escorts, but there aren't any in my area (mine is the only area without any by the way, and Auckland is huge so if you don't have a car it's really hard and takes forever to get around), and I even placed an add on a singles website in the Seeking Intimate Encounters section asking if any ladies would be interested in an intimate encounter for money, but not actually sex (even though prostitution's legal here). But the only reply I got was someone warning me I was in violation of the site rules. So I took the add down.

What do I do now?

 

[human_male]

How about this one, a bit far I suppose: http://www.crazyhorse.com.au/about.htm

I've only heard about it, a bit far.

That's in another country. A bit far, yes.

 

[human_male]

I actually found another place near me, tucked away in a industrial area of town. It looked like a dump outside but I went and had a look today. It wasn't as nice as the other place but the girl who greeted me was very attractive and friendly. She introduced me to two other ladies, but I didn't like them. I asked if they were alright with kissing, two did but the hot one didn't. But I said I'd like to go with her anyway because in all honesty she had the best personality. She smiled and was very friendly whereas the other two didn't smile once. I tried to talk to them and they just mumbled something incoherent.

So I went with the first one. She said no kissing, and I said ok. She warned me she was the get-down-to-it girl, but foolishly I failed to heed her warning. I didn't intend to have sex, I thought it would be worth it to just touch her and spend a little time with her. So in we go.

I'd tried to imagine how this would go, when I actually did it. I pictured us sitting down, getting to know each other, me asking all sorts of insightful questions about her and her work before having a massage and going from there. Well it didn't go like that at all. Not at all. I said I'd be more comfortable with my shorts on but she whipped them off. The rest is a bit of a blur but I believe there was some groping, a brief blow job before she informed me "I'm going to fuck you now." She climbed onto me and went to town... just went seriously, right to town. I begged her to slow down and take it easy but she wouldn't. And I'm not a porn star so it was all over pretty quick. Then she disappeared to take a shower and left me laying there feeling rather bewildered and overwhelmed. When she came back there was a bit more cuddling then she gave me a peck on the forehead and started straightening the bed. I figured that was my que to go.

When I left I really didn't know how I felt about the whole thing. Part of me has always dreamed of getting fucked like that, but I really didn't intend to have sex, or even take my shorts off! She just went right ahead, like a steamroller. It was kind of awesome and dreadful at the same time.

So I'm wondering if I should go back once more. I'd only planned on doing this once, or maybe once a year or so. But maybe I'd enjoy it more the second time, and got the full hour this time and asked her to just take it easy. She was the only girl I've met so far that was attracted to, and I certainly enjoyed getting my hands on some boobage at long last, some awesome boobage. Dear god, some awesome boobage. But I really don't know if she would take her time with me. She seemed to have a practiced routine that she just set about doing, remorselessly. Maybe she was just too much woman for me to handle.

I just wanted to get this out because I don't have anyone to talk to about this kind of thing. And I'd also like to ask a question I'm a bit too embarrassed to ask in public. So I wondered if someone wouldn't mind me asking them, could you drop me a PM?

Thanks.

Edit: A worrying thought occured to me today while I was thinking about it, which is nearly all the time. She used quite a lot of oil (or something). She put some on my hand and masturbated herself with my hand so it was all over her. Then she put the condom on and we had sex. Well, as you know getting oil on condoms is a bad idea. At first I couldn't believe a professional could be that ignorant, but I noticed she put the condom on incorrectly. You're supposed to pinch the end to give the ejaculate somewhere to go but she didn't.

The condom didn't appear to break from what I could tell. And it was only a couple of minutes from when she put it on to when she got off. But maybe that's all it takes, and maybe if they do break it can be a small hole, which is all it would take.

Should I be worried? Should I contact her and ask what she used, or would that be weird?

Thanks.

 

[bobinks2]

So I'm wondering if I should go back once more. ... But maybe I'd enjoy it more the second time, and got the full hour this time and asked her to just take it easy. Thanks.

Since no one else has responded, I think you should go for it a second time. Years ago, a friend told me that she'd try anything twice. Up to that point, I'd heard a number of people say they'd try anything once. If you think about it, with something like this that you've been looking forward to and building up in your mind for so long, it's hard to enjoy it the first time because you don't really know what to expect. You'll be able to go back with a more realistic idea of what will take place.

Do not 'ASK her to just take it easy'. You are the paying customer. TELL her what you want. Man up! I would get the full hour and take your time. Remember that as soon as you ejaculate, you're going to lose your erection and go to sleep. Try to think of other things to do so that you're ejaculating after 50 or 55 minutes, not after 5 minutes. She sounds like a pro who doesn't like to work very hard. She'll most likely be trying to get you off early. Take control. Massage her. Feel her awesome boobs. Have her massage you...

As far as the oil on the condom, petroleum based oils (and possibly some others) cause condoms to break. There are many kinds of oils that don't cause condoms to break. You say that prostitution is legal in your area. I assume that it's regulated by health officials. I would assume that she knows what she's doing in the condom/oil department.

Good Luck

 

[human_male]

Since no one else has responded, I think you should go for it a second time. Years ago, a friend told me that she'd try anything twice. Up to that point, I'd heard a number of people say they'd try anything once. If you think about it, with something like this that you've been looking forward to and building up in your mind for so long, it's hard to enjoy it the first time because you don't really know what to expect. You'll be able to go back with a more realistic idea of what will take place.

Do not 'ASK her to just take it easy'. You are the paying customer. TELL her what you want. Man up! I would get the full hour and take your time. Remember that as soon as you ejaculate, you're going to lose your erection and go to sleep. Try to think of other things to do so that you're ejaculating after 50 or 55 minutes, not after 5 minutes. She sounds like a pro who doesn't like to work very hard. She'll most likely be trying to get you off early. Take control. Massage her. Feel her awesome boobs. Have her massage you...

As far as the oil on the condom, petroleum based oils (and possibly some others) cause condoms to break. There are many kinds of oils that don't cause condoms to break. You say that prostitution is legal in your area. I assume that it's regulated by health officials. I would assume that she knows what she's doing in the condom/oil department.

Good Luck

Thanks for replying bobinks. I think everyone is bored to death of me banging on and on about this. But I don't have anyone to talk to so I'm using the board to vent.

I hope you're right about the oil thing.

 

[rosco rathbone]

Glad you finally got it on, human male. That wasn't so bad, was it?

 

[littlebabyclit]

Working Girl, this thread (and you) have been a fascinating read. Are you still around reading this thread because, if so, I'd like to ask a few questions of you myself.

Thanks.

 

[Honeygirl]

Hey H_M - I know that I owe you a PM (well, maybe not after the last attempt...but aye well). I just wanted to add a few comments. I'm glad that you went - it takes courage to do something like that, and confront something that you've wanted to `deal with' for a while. Sometimes, you've just got to take the plunge I guess - so good job on that front. Secondly, I am pissed off (on your behalf) that you - as a customer, didn't get the experience that you wanted and indeed, paid for. That pisses me right off! Not so much that I'd go to Fair Go or anything ( ), but it just does. They needed to listen to you and see if their services fitted your needs and either alter it, or send you elsewhere.

Anyway - all the best to you and I hope that this doesn't put you off or anything. If you need someone to buddy up with you and be the negotiator/mouth piece whatever, give me a shout. I'm serious too. They can just slow the fuck down and do what you want them to do. And yes, I do have my Tony Soprano face on!

Good luck to you matey - .

 

[human_male]

Hey H_M - I know that I owe you a PM (well, maybe not after the last attempt...but aye well). I just wanted to add a few comments. I'm glad that you went - it takes courage to do something like that, and confront something that you've wanted to `deal with' for a while. Sometimes, you've just got to take the plunge I guess - so good job on that front. Secondly, I am pissed off (on your behalf) that you - as a customer, didn't get the experience that you wanted and indeed, paid for. That pisses me right off! Not so much that I'd go to Fair Go or anything ( ), but it just does. They needed to listen to you and see if their services fitted your needs and either alter it, or send you elsewhere.

Anyway - all the best to you and I hope that this doesn't put you off or anything. If you need someone to buddy up with you and be the negotiator/mouth piece whatever, give me a shout. I'm serious too. They can just slow the fuck down and do what you want them to do. And yes, I do have my Tony Soprano face on!

Good luck to you matey - .

Hi. I was kinda worried that you'd be disappointed in me or something, so thanks for dropping me a line.

Yeah I'd totally love to have you along! That'd be awesome. I bet you'd put her right in her place. But bobinks's suggestion that I should "man up" is ringing in my ears, and I doubt bringing a friend along to negotiate for me would qualify.

 

[horgasm]

I've got a question for you, Working Girl:

How's the sex? I've always wondered if escorts or prostitutes or porn stars really enjoy it, come, etc, or if it's all business. I'm sure that there are times when you're not super-excited to go to work, just as with any other job. So, I guess my question is, is the sex good, or is it business?

 

[infinity706]

I've got a question for you, Working Girl:

How's the sex? I've always wondered if escorts or prostitutes or porn stars really enjoy it, come, etc, or if it's all business. I'm sure that there are times when you're not super-excited to go to work, just as with any other job. So, I guess my question is, is the sex good, or is it business?

If you read the thread, you'd see that she said sometimes the sex is great. Of course, I have a feeling, it's not that different than the sex that would probably happen if it weren't for pay. With that being said, there's quite a lot of mediocre sex out there.

 

[fenghuang]

And sadly she seems to have left Literotica. So you probably won't get an answer form her.

 

[Firebrain]

You know what the world needs more of?

Women that actually advertise to help a guy lose his virginity, teach him all about sex and educate him about all kinds of sexual things, and also teach him how to be comfortable around women.

Sort of like a prostitute, but one you go to for multiple "classes" or something like that. A woman who really cares about her clients and wants to help them break out of their shell.

Hell, if I wasn't married I would do it in a second. I always feel such compassion towards guys who are so nervous and shy about women and sex.

I think this should mostly be offered as part of sixth form schooling, but then I doubt that's ever going to happen. Ah well.

WG, I am enjoying this thread, particularly as I'm writing about an escort girl. I use a hell of a lot of artistic license but your thoughts are very interesting nonetheless.

I have been offered money for sex previously and I regret not taking it up in some ways.

 

[rosco rathbone]

I think this should mostly be offered as part of sixth form schooling, but then I doubt that's ever going to happen. Ah well.

WG, I am enjoying this thread, particularly as I'm writing about an escort girl. I use a hell of a lot of artistic license but your thoughts are very interesting nonetheless.

I have been offered money for sex previously and I regret not taking it up in some ways.

http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0158863/

 

[infinity706]

I actually thought about training to be a surrogate, but I decided against it because it would put too many rules on what I could do. I would be questionable ethically if I chose to keep fucking a client after therapy, for example.

 

[al1ce5]

I wonder if there are any male escorts on? I'd love to get their take on things as well - not that the female POV hasn't been very interesting.

 

[infinity706]

Well, I'm sort of an amateur escort. I can't answer any questions related to payment, though, since I just enjoy slutting around.

 

[Luna_Bella]

Well, I'm sort of an amateur escort. I can't answer any questions related to payment, though, since I just enjoy slutting around.

Hehe!!! that just made me smile.

WorkingGirl, Thanks for your insights I am sure you have enlightened quite a few with this thread.

as a relative of a former escort, I am glad that you took some of your time and tried to bring better understanding to the general public, I am sorry that you had to suffer the trolls and ignorants' pm.


Firebrain and Satindesire... I agree 100% but I believe it should be for both guys and gals, lol most of us are uncomfortable for a while with our bodies.

 

[mariyac4]

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[infinity706]

Hehe!!! that just made me smile.

WorkingGirl, Thanks for your insights I am sure you have enlightened quite a few with this thread.

as a relative of a former escort, I am glad that you took some of your time and tried to bring better understanding to the general public, I am sorry that you had to suffer the trolls and ignorants' pm.


Firebrain and Satindesire... I agree 100% but I believe it should be for both guys and gals, lol most of us are uncomfortable for a while with our bodies.

Uncomfortable is an understatement. I've had quite a few women even in the 50+ age range that took 3 months or more to work up the courage to fuck me. Of course, I think part of the problem was that I don't require sex as part of a package deal (yes, I know it's much easier to do when you're already fucking 12 other people ). I actually allow men and women to be good friends with me indepently. If you really want to make some of the more insecure women squirm, though, offer sex as an independent option that they can accept or decline. It doesn't seem to be much of a problem for guys, but even women that have had a huge string of affairs can turn into a shy, insecure virgin at the thought that they actually have to choose sex rather than getting it in the package deal. I really think a lot of the whole thinking with your dick thing comes from many women's own insecurities that they think with their cunts sometimes, too.

Yeah, it really goes both ways. Men and women both can have major perfomance anxiety issues, trouble asking for what they want, body image issues, and all kinds of things. I have a feeling, there wouldn't be so many sexless relationships out there if there were real sex training.

 

[fenghuang]

I have a feeling, there wouldn't be so many sexless relationships out there if there were real sex training.

I agree to an extent, but I suspect a lot of those in sexless relationships would be just as uncomfortable with training. I do however think it's a strong argument against advocating "no sex before marriage". If people got to know what they wanted (though not exclusively) in terms of sexually from a relationship, fewer people would end up in the wrong relationship and there would be less "need" for prostitution. (Though I don't think consentual prostitution should be regarded as a bad think.)