First time swingers club advice

[Medicalman13152]

It seems that quite a few have been keeping up with our journey and were aware that we were due to attend the club so a second time this weekend gone.

To give a quick update before finding time to write a full account - we did go to the club Saturday night. We had another very successful evening, that resulted in us both playing extensively with another couple.

We also did a bit more than that but I’ll try and write it up fully this weekend. We’re still processing everything ourselves .

Real life unfortunately comes around very quickly

Very Happy to hear you had a second successful visit to the club. Looking forward to you sharing details of your experience with the followers of your posts.

 

[Dakotacpl]

On our first visit we just decided WTF and let it ride! No regrets at all.

 

[Live4themoments]

It seems that quite a few have been keeping up with our journey and were aware that we were due to attend the club so a second time this weekend gone.

To give a quick update before finding time to write a full account - we did go to the club Saturday night. We had another very successful evening, that resulted in us both playing extensively with another couple.

We also did a bit more than that but I’ll try and write it up fully this weekend. We’re still processing everything ourselves .

Real life unfortunately comes around very quickly

Is the weekend tomorrow?

 

[Live4themoments]

Keep in mind if you go to a club anywhere near where you live you could run into people you know and they're gonna want to play. It's always the ones you least expect too lol
Happened to us several times.

Couldn't agree more. I wasn't too worried since I didn't live in the city/state the clubs were at. However my GF at the time did so she did confess she was "worried" she might run into someone she knew. We went probably 7 or 8 times and luckily it never happened. I remember one time we were walking around a casino looking for a place to grab a bit to eat. She did run into someone she knew and was a little awkward. We prepared in advance if this was to ever happen with a brief intro who I was, which I guess sounded plausible since nothing became of it.
As for the swinger's club, the people you may run into are probably just as embarrassed as you seeing them. I think the swingers know how to keep things quiet and not cause a problem with other swingers, jmo.

 

[Michael_Keaton]

As for the swinger's club, the people you may run into are probably just as embarrassed as you seeing them. I think the swingers know how to keep things quiet and not cause a problem with other swingers, jmo.

Only a slightly different topic, my wife was always very reserved about sex but one time I did manage to get her into a 'toy store'. I finally convinced her to go there by telling her that anyone she sees there is there for the same reason we are and may be as embarrassed as she is.

 

[LittleGreene]

Hey, Little Greene, hubby and I often fantasise about this but you two seem to have taken it further! We are wanting to do it but still nervous!

It’s a big step so far get the nerves. As long as you talk it through openly and take it slow I can only say positive things about it at this point.

 

[LittleGreene]

Is the weekend tomorrow?

Ha ha.
I’ll try and write it up sooner.

 

[LittleGreene]

Keep in mind if you go to a club anywhere near where you live you could run into people you know and they're gonna want to play. It's always the ones you least expect too lol
Happened to us several times.

I don’t get this argument - if you bump into someone you know - then you’re both in the same situation.

I have been reading about your journey with interest and I loved the way your first night panned out. An experience like that would be right up my street and hubby’s too. Obviously I don’t know you but your feelings about the whole thing really leap off the page so to speak. I/we have found reading your thoughts so helpful.

We are talking about it very openly and honestly together and weighing all sorts of things up. We are probably 75% there. Your positivity has been great to hear!

S xx

thats very kind. And im so happy anything I’ve written has resonated with you and your partner.

My happy to answer any questions you have, we’re still new obviously but we’ve learnt a lot over the past few months, about us as a couple, and the lifestyle

 

[LittleGreene]

Thank you! I can assure you hubby and I have avidly read your journey - the whole lot! While in bed

Ha ha.
Good.
Then I hope when I do a full update you take your time to read it together

 

[LittleGreene]

Ok- sorry it’s taken a few days to write up our weekend adventure.

I haven’t spell checked this so apologies if there are blatant mistakes.

So for those that haven’t been following this was our second visit to the same swingers club in London. The first experience was fantastic so we felt emboldened to go back with expanded boundaries. Essentially we felt ready to full Swap if we met the right people.



We felt sommuch less anxious this time in the lead up, I think mainly as we had a much better understanding of how the club worked, the type of people we knew we’d meet. It’s made the build up during the day much more of excitement than anything



We arrived later than we had the first time, one thing we learn was that these type of clubs only really get going later in the night.



It was busy when we got which was a great sign, as it meant there were lots of people to meet and chat to. We felt confident in approaching people this time, last time we kind of sat back and let people come to us, which is probably standard for newbies.



I had worn the same black dress as the first visit. (yes I know, a bit boring but I felt comfortable in it) and different heels, and I had new lingerie for the play area.



We actually settled into a group chat quite quickly with 3 other couples.it was very pleasant and some light flirting all around. One couple left to explore the play areas after a short while. And then another couple got into a side chat which left us chatting to one couple.



They were both my age, late 30s, (if you don’t know, I’m 38, my husband is 48) they had moved to London 18 months ago from the north of England where they had been in the lifestyle scene up there for a couple of years . They said they had struggled to find the right crowd in London, they had a group that played privately up north so they’d been coming to the club every few months to play. For this posts purpose he is called Andrew and she is Kate.



There was an attraction. I wouldn’t say he was the type of guy I’d normally be drawn to but he was good company and had a good sense of humour. He was about 5’10, stocky build, brown hair. She was exactly my husband’s type, very bubbly, brown hair shoulder length, very tactile when chatting. We continued chatting as a foursome after the other couples had moved on. We weren’t confident enough to make the next step but they asked if we’d like to go to the play areas to get to know one another better. They knew that this was still only our second visit.



It was at that point that my husand and I needed to check in with each other. We had already sorted out signals to say if we were happy or not to go forward and both of us indicated we were.



So once that slightly awkward part had passed we all changed (stripped) and put our clothes in the lockers and went upstairs.



Kate was curvy but not in an overweight way at all, she had a Great figure and was wearing black bra and thong. I was wearing a black lace bra top and thong and thigh high hold ups (a mistake in hindsight with the hold ups). The boys were in brief shorts and boxers.



We wandered upstairs to the play areas (downstairs is more bondage orientated - more on that later). It was already busy in the big play area. Lots of action, sounds. We stood and watched for a few minutes, it’s incredibly arousing seeing other people having sex. Charlie (my husband ) was already hard and I was teasing him over his underwear.



All four of us were chatting, and then Andrew asked if we should try and find a private space or find a spot in the main room. I was definitely not ready to be in the main group so we said let’s try and find a room. We finally managed to find a space where a couple were just leaving so we quickly claimed that, essentially a simple room, a large mattressed area in the middle.



We all laid on the bed, next to our own partners but things started almost immediately. They started to make out with each other but with one eye on us. It felt odd to just watch them so Charlie and I did the same. He took my bra top off quite quickly and Andrew commented on my boobs. Kate was on top pf Andrew and was working her way down his body and i watched her as she got his cock out and started to suck it. We were still just making out when she leant over and asked if I wanted to join her sucking his cock.



I looked at Charlie and he just said it’s up to me. So I crawled the short distance and joined her. She had his cock in her hand and essentially handed it to me. I knelt and started to suck him. She stayed next me and was kissing him for about a minute and then checked I was on, and left me with her husband. I watched her move over to Charlie and she started to blow him almost immediately.



I didn’t feel jealous at all. In fact I was so aroused seeing his face when she started to suck him. But I quickly got back to sucking Andres cock, and he was making the sounds like I was doing a good job. His hands were in my hair, on my back and was exploring my body. He stopped me suddenly, he said he needed to slow down with a little laugh. Then he asked if he could go down on me. So this was a big step for me. But I wanted it. So I laid on my back and he helped off my thong and then went down between my legs. It. Was . Heaven. Ha ha. I was so turned on. It felt like electricity on each stroke of his tongue.



I looked over at Charlie and he reached out and held my hand as he was still getting blown. I loved that. But we let go fairly quickly as I had to hold on to the mattress. I orgasmed really quickly. It was amazing. Andrew then asked if we could fuck. And I was really ready to. He grabbed a condom and put it on. He wanted me to get on all fours but I’m not always comfortable in that position so I asked if we could fuck on my back to start.



Charlie and Kate were now doing oral but he was watching as Andrew moved between my legs and put them on his shoulders. He entered slowly but very easily.



And that’s the story of how I fucked another guy for the first time in 17 years



We changed position after a while and I went on top. Which is my absolute fave position and i orgasmed again before he came.



Charlie and Kate also fucked but they were still going after we had finished.



It was hot and sweaty. Very sexy. Very satisfying. It wasn’t as hard as I thought it may be psychologically. It felt perfectly natural and fun. Which I think sex should be.



After they had finished we were all lying there chatting but another group wanted the room so we grabbed our clothes and towels and moved out.



We grabbed a drink with them afterwards. It was so nice and relaxed, no weirdness at all.



They wanted to go back up but we stayed in the social area for a while. It was nice for us just to be a couple for a while.



It was about 1:30am and we started to have a second wind so we actually went downstairs to walk the ‘dungeon’. There were quite a few people down there. We at he’d a few couples having sex , there was a sex swing with a woman in it. And then we saw the ‘glory hole’ which is essentially a big cupboard. Now that’s something we saw the first time and we had been talking about it. No one was in it so Charlie told me to go in as a dare. I went in and immediately he put his cock through. So I got on my knees and started to suck him. The room is only big enough really for one person. But there were 3 holes.



I then heard Charlie talking to someone. I couldn’t quite hear what was being said but I did catch him saying “it’s my wife”. And that’s when another cock appeared. I obviously knew this was a possibility but I wasn’t prepared for the sudden arrival. It was limp, not hard at all. So I reach with my right hand and started to touch it. It responded really quickly, stiffening. And then I start to suck it. It had the taste of condoms so I assume it had already had some action. I spent the next few minutes desperately trying to coordinate both cocks, until Charlie removed his. I Knew he wanted me to concentrate on the other one. So. Alternated between stroking and sucking. I got the sense that the guy might be close so I told him to tell me if he was going to cum through the wall. A minute later he said he was about to cum and he ejaculates over my hand as I stroked him. Thankfully there were towels inside so I wiped off most of the cum before exiting. Charlie pointed out the guy I’d just relieved and kissed me. That was our night over.



We didn’t see Andrew and Kate again, but we have actually got their contact details. Kate has already messaged me to thank us for a nice evening.



So we’ve really been making sense of how we feel the past couple of days. And I have to say absolutely no regrets, no concerns, just a big high. It’s a big step after so many years of discussion . And I don’t think it could have gone any better.

 

[deft]

This is sooooo horny! I'm so glad it was a success for you both.

Thank you for your frankness, openness and sexiness. I am now fully engaged in experiencing this for myself!

 

[LittleGreene]

This is sooooo horny! I'm so glad it was a success for you both.

Thank you for your frankness, openness and sexiness. I am now fully engaged in experiencing this for myself!

Good luck!

 

[BDA73]

What an amazing turn on reading this...hope you dont mind one enjoying oneself imagining replacing Andrew with oneself

 

[tugger1987]

Ok- sorry it’s taken a few days to write up our weekend adventure.

I haven’t spell checked this so apologies if there are blatant mistakes.

So for those that haven’t been following this was our second visit to the same swingers club in London. The first experience was fantastic so we felt emboldened to go back with expanded boundaries. Essentially we felt ready to full Swap if we met the right people.



We felt sommuch less anxious this time in the lead up, I think mainly as we had a much better understanding of how the club worked, the type of people we knew we’d meet. It’s made the build up during the day much more of excitement than anything



We arrived later than we had the first time, one thing we learn was that these type of clubs only really get going later in the night.



It was busy when we got which was a great sign, as it meant there were lots of people to meet and chat to. We felt confident in approaching people this time, last time we kind of sat back and let people come to us, which is probably standard for newbies.



I had worn the same black dress as the first visit. (yes I know, a bit boring but I felt comfortable in it) and different heels, and I had new lingerie for the play area.



We actually settled into a group chat quite quickly with 3 other couples.it was very pleasant and some light flirting all around. One couple left to explore the play areas after a short while. And then another couple got into a side chat which left us chatting to one couple.



They were both my age, late 30s, (if you don’t know, I’m 38, my husband is 48) they had moved to London 18 months ago from the north of England where they had been in the lifestyle scene up there for a couple of years . They said they had struggled to find the right crowd in London, they had a group that played privately up north so they’d been coming to the club every few months to play. For this posts purpose he is called Andrew and she is Kate.



There was an attraction. I wouldn’t say he was the type of guy I’d normally be drawn to but he was good company and had a good sense of humour. He was about 5’10, stocky build, brown hair. She was exactly my husband’s type, very bubbly, brown hair shoulder length, very tactile when chatting. We continued chatting as a foursome after the other couples had moved on. We weren’t confident enough to make the next step but they asked if we’d like to go to the play areas to get to know one another better. They knew that this was still only our second visit.



It was at that point that my husand and I needed to check in with each other. We had already sorted out signals to say if we were happy or not to go forward and both of us indicated we were.



So once that slightly awkward part had passed we all changed (stripped) and put our clothes in the lockers and went upstairs.



Kate was curvy but not in an overweight way at all, she had a Great figure and was wearing black bra and thong. I was wearing a black lace bra top and thong and thigh high hold ups (a mistake in hindsight with the hold ups). The boys were in brief shorts and boxers.



We wandered upstairs to the play areas (downstairs is more bondage orientated - more on that later). It was already busy in the big play area. Lots of action, sounds. We stood and watched for a few minutes, it’s incredibly arousing seeing other people having sex. Charlie (my husband ) was already hard and I was teasing him over his underwear.



All four of us were chatting, and then Andrew asked if we should try and find a private space or find a spot in the main room. I was definitely not ready to be in the main group so we said let’s try and find a room. We finally managed to find a space where a couple were just leaving so we quickly claimed that, essentially a simple room, a large mattressed area in the middle.



We all laid on the bed, next to our own partners but things started almost immediately. They started to make out with each other but with one eye on us. It felt odd to just watch them so Charlie and I did the same. He took my bra top off quite quickly and Andrew commented on my boobs. Kate was on top pf Andrew and was working her way down his body and i watched her as she got his cock out and started to suck it. We were still just making out when she leant over and asked if I wanted to join her sucking his cock.



I looked at Charlie and he just said it’s up to me. So I crawled the short distance and joined her. She had his cock in her hand and essentially handed it to me. I knelt and started to suck him. She stayed next me and was kissing him for about a minute and then checked I was on, and left me with her husband. I watched her move over to Charlie and she started to blow him almost immediately.



I didn’t feel jealous at all. In fact I was so aroused seeing his face when she started to suck him. But I quickly got back to sucking Andres cock, and he was making the sounds like I was doing a good job. His hands were in my hair, on my back and was exploring my body. He stopped me suddenly, he said he needed to slow down with a little laugh. Then he asked if he could go down on me. So this was a big step for me. But I wanted it. So I laid on my back and he helped off my thong and then went down between my legs. It. Was . Heaven. Ha ha. I was so turned on. It felt like electricity on each stroke of his tongue.



I looked over at Charlie and he reached out and held my hand as he was still getting blown. I loved that. But we let go fairly quickly as I had to hold on to the mattress. I orgasmed really quickly. It was amazing. Andrew then asked if we could fuck. And I was really ready to. He grabbed a condom and put it on. He wanted me to get on all fours but I’m not always comfortable in that position so I asked if we could fuck on my back to start.



Charlie and Kate were now doing oral but he was watching as Andrew moved between my legs and put them on his shoulders. He entered slowly but very easily.



And that’s the story of how I fucked another guy for the first time in 17 years



We changed position after a while and I went on top. Which is my absolute fave position and i orgasmed again before he came.



Charlie and Kate also fucked but they were still going after we had finished.



It was hot and sweaty. Very sexy. Very satisfying. It wasn’t as hard as I thought it may be psychologically. It felt perfectly natural and fun. Which I think sex should be.



After they had finished we were all lying there chatting but another group wanted the room so we grabbed our clothes and towels and moved out.



We grabbed a drink with them afterwards. It was so nice and relaxed, no weirdness at all.



They wanted to go back up but we stayed in the social area for a while. It was nice for us just to be a couple for a while.



It was about 1:30am and we started to have a second wind so we actually went downstairs to walk the ‘dungeon’. There were quite a few people down there. We at he’d a few couples having sex , there was a sex swing with a woman in it. And then we saw the ‘glory hole’ which is essentially a big cupboard. Now that’s something we saw the first time and we had been talking about it. No one was in it so Charlie told me to go in as a dare. I went in and immediately he put his cock through. So I got on my knees and started to suck him. The room is only big enough really for one person. But there were 3 holes.



I then heard Charlie talking to someone. I couldn’t quite hear what was being said but I did catch him saying “it’s my wife”. And that’s when another cock appeared. I obviously knew this was a possibility but I wasn’t prepared for the sudden arrival. It was limp, not hard at all. So I reach with my right hand and started to touch it. It responded really quickly, stiffening. And then I start to suck it. It had the taste of condoms so I assume it had already had some action. I spent the next few minutes desperately trying to coordinate both cocks, until Charlie removed his. I Knew he wanted me to concentrate on the other one. So. Alternated between stroking and sucking. I got the sense that the guy might be close so I told him to tell me if he was going to cum through the wall. A minute later he said he was about to cum and he ejaculates over my hand as I stroked him. Thankfully there were towels inside so I wiped off most of the cum before exiting. Charlie pointed out the guy I’d just relieved and kissed me. That was our night over.



We didn’t see Andrew and Kate again, but we have actually got their contact details. Kate has already messaged me to thank us for a nice evening.



So we’ve really been making sense of how we feel the past couple of days. And I have to say absolutely no regrets, no concerns, just a big high. It’s a big step after so many years of discussion . And I don’t think it could have gone any better.

Sounds amazing LG, glad you had such a good time!

 

[Jimmy119_190]

Wow, you had a wonderful time then!

Sounds fantastic

 

[spawnofdavey]

Sounds like you had a fantastic time! Happy for both of you.

 

[Fire_starter01]

Ok- sorry it’s taken a few days to write up our weekend adventure.

I haven’t spell checked this so apologies if there are blatant mistakes.

So for those that haven’t been following this was our second visit to the same swingers club in London. The first experience was fantastic so we felt emboldened to go back with expanded boundaries. Essentially we felt ready to full Swap if we met the right people.



We felt sommuch less anxious this time in the lead up, I think mainly as we had a much better understanding of how the club worked, the type of people we knew we’d meet. It’s made the build up during the day much more of excitement than anything



We arrived later than we had the first time, one thing we learn was that these type of clubs only really get going later in the night.



It was busy when we got which was a great sign, as it meant there were lots of people to meet and chat to. We felt confident in approaching people this time, last time we kind of sat back and let people come to us, which is probably standard for newbies.



I had worn the same black dress as the first visit. (yes I know, a bit boring but I felt comfortable in it) and different heels, and I had new lingerie for the play area.



We actually settled into a group chat quite quickly with 3 other couples.it was very pleasant and some light flirting all around. One couple left to explore the play areas after a short while. And then another couple got into a side chat which left us chatting to one couple.



They were both my age, late 30s, (if you don’t know, I’m 38, my husband is 48) they had moved to London 18 months ago from the north of England where they had been in the lifestyle scene up there for a couple of years . They said they had struggled to find the right crowd in London, they had a group that played privately up north so they’d been coming to the club every few months to play. For this posts purpose he is called Andrew and she is Kate.



There was an attraction. I wouldn’t say he was the type of guy I’d normally be drawn to but he was good company and had a good sense of humour. He was about 5’10, stocky build, brown hair. She was exactly my husband’s type, very bubbly, brown hair shoulder length, very tactile when chatting. We continued chatting as a foursome after the other couples had moved on. We weren’t confident enough to make the next step but they asked if we’d like to go to the play areas to get to know one another better. They knew that this was still only our second visit.



It was at that point that my husand and I needed to check in with each other. We had already sorted out signals to say if we were happy or not to go forward and both of us indicated we were.



So once that slightly awkward part had passed we all changed (stripped) and put our clothes in the lockers and went upstairs.



Kate was curvy but not in an overweight way at all, she had a Great figure and was wearing black bra and thong. I was wearing a black lace bra top and thong and thigh high hold ups (a mistake in hindsight with the hold ups). The boys were in brief shorts and boxers.



We wandered upstairs to the play areas (downstairs is more bondage orientated - more on that later). It was already busy in the big play area. Lots of action, sounds. We stood and watched for a few minutes, it’s incredibly arousing seeing other people having sex. Charlie (my husband ) was already hard and I was teasing him over his underwear.



All four of us were chatting, and then Andrew asked if we should try and find a private space or find a spot in the main room. I was definitely not ready to be in the main group so we said let’s try and find a room. We finally managed to find a space where a couple were just leaving so we quickly claimed that, essentially a simple room, a large mattressed area in the middle.



We all laid on the bed, next to our own partners but things started almost immediately. They started to make out with each other but with one eye on us. It felt odd to just watch them so Charlie and I did the same. He took my bra top off quite quickly and Andrew commented on my boobs. Kate was on top pf Andrew and was working her way down his body and i watched her as she got his cock out and started to suck it. We were still just making out when she leant over and asked if I wanted to join her sucking his cock.



I looked at Charlie and he just said it’s up to me. So I crawled the short distance and joined her. She had his cock in her hand and essentially handed it to me. I knelt and started to suck him. She stayed next me and was kissing him for about a minute and then checked I was on, and left me with her husband. I watched her move over to Charlie and she started to blow him almost immediately.



I didn’t feel jealous at all. In fact I was so aroused seeing his face when she started to suck him. But I quickly got back to sucking Andres cock, and he was making the sounds like I was doing a good job. His hands were in my hair, on my back and was exploring my body. He stopped me suddenly, he said he needed to slow down with a little laugh. Then he asked if he could go down on me. So this was a big step for me. But I wanted it. So I laid on my back and he helped off my thong and then went down between my legs. It. Was . Heaven. Ha ha. I was so turned on. It felt like electricity on each stroke of his tongue.



I looked over at Charlie and he reached out and held my hand as he was still getting blown. I loved that. But we let go fairly quickly as I had to hold on to the mattress. I orgasmed really quickly. It was amazing. Andrew then asked if we could fuck. And I was really ready to. He grabbed a condom and put it on. He wanted me to get on all fours but I’m not always comfortable in that position so I asked if we could fuck on my back to start.



Charlie and Kate were now doing oral but he was watching as Andrew moved between my legs and put them on his shoulders. He entered slowly but very easily.



And that’s the story of how I fucked another guy for the first time in 17 years



We changed position after a while and I went on top. Which is my absolute fave position and i orgasmed again before he came.



Charlie and Kate also fucked but they were still going after we had finished.



It was hot and sweaty. Very sexy. Very satisfying. It wasn’t as hard as I thought it may be psychologically. It felt perfectly natural and fun. Which I think sex should be.



After they had finished we were all lying there chatting but another group wanted the room so we grabbed our clothes and towels and moved out.



We grabbed a drink with them afterwards. It was so nice and relaxed, no weirdness at all.



They wanted to go back up but we stayed in the social area for a while. It was nice for us just to be a couple for a while.



It was about 1:30am and we started to have a second wind so we actually went downstairs to walk the ‘dungeon’. There were quite a few people down there. We at he’d a few couples having sex , there was a sex swing with a woman in it. And then we saw the ‘glory hole’ which is essentially a big cupboard. Now that’s something we saw the first time and we had been talking about it. No one was in it so Charlie told me to go in as a dare. I went in and immediately he put his cock through. So I got on my knees and started to suck him. The room is only big enough really for one person. But there were 3 holes.



I then heard Charlie talking to someone. I couldn’t quite hear what was being said but I did catch him saying “it’s my wife”. And that’s when another cock appeared. I obviously knew this was a possibility but I wasn’t prepared for the sudden arrival. It was limp, not hard at all. So I reach with my right hand and started to touch it. It responded really quickly, stiffening. And then I start to suck it. It had the taste of condoms so I assume it had already had some action. I spent the next few minutes desperately trying to coordinate both cocks, until Charlie removed his. I Knew he wanted me to concentrate on the other one. So. Alternated between stroking and sucking. I got the sense that the guy might be close so I told him to tell me if he was going to cum through the wall. A minute later he said he was about to cum and he ejaculates over my hand as I stroked him. Thankfully there were towels inside so I wiped off most of the cum before exiting. Charlie pointed out the guy I’d just relieved and kissed me. That was our night over.



We didn’t see Andrew and Kate again, but we have actually got their contact details. Kate has already messaged me to thank us for a nice evening.



So we’ve really been making sense of how we feel the past couple of days. And I have to say absolutely no regrets, no concerns, just a big high. It’s a big step after so many years of discussion . And I don’t think it could have gone any better.

That was incredible to read! So hot and I’m glad it went well for you both!! Guessing you’ll be going back?

 

[Artfan2]

Thanks for sharing your adventure here. And it's great that you and your husband both wanted each other to enjoy sexual experiences with new people.

 

[OneEyedSteve]

That's outstanding. It's brilliant you had such a positive experience, and in my home city (I don't live near London any more, but it'll always be home). Look forwards to hearing more of your adventures.

 

[TravisAW]

Good luck!

Thank you for another fantastic account. Shame it's down in London, sounds like it would be a perfect first club for us if I can ever convince Mrs AW to take the next step. Were you both curious at the same pace originally or did one lead the other?

 

[sexfest2016]

Ok- sorry it’s taken a few days to write up our weekend adventure.

I haven’t spell checked this so apologies if there are blatant mistakes.

So for those that haven’t been following this was our second visit to the same swingers club in London. The first experience was fantastic so we felt emboldened to go back with expanded boundaries. Essentially we felt ready to full Swap if we met the right people.



We felt sommuch less anxious this time in the lead up, I think mainly as we had a much better understanding of how the club worked, the type of people we knew we’d meet. It’s made the build up during the day much more of excitement than anything



We arrived later than we had the first time, one thing we learn was that these type of clubs only really get going later in the night.



It was busy when we got which was a great sign, as it meant there were lots of people to meet and chat to. We felt confident in approaching people this time, last time we kind of sat back and let people come to us, which is probably standard for newbies.



I had worn the same black dress as the first visit. (yes I know, a bit boring but I felt comfortable in it) and different heels, and I had new lingerie for the play area.



We actually settled into a group chat quite quickly with 3 other couples.it was very pleasant and some light flirting all around. One couple left to explore the play areas after a short while. And then another couple got into a side chat which left us chatting to one couple.



They were both my age, late 30s, (if you don’t know, I’m 38, my husband is 48) they had moved to London 18 months ago from the north of England where they had been in the lifestyle scene up there for a couple of years . They said they had struggled to find the right crowd in London, they had a group that played privately up north so they’d been coming to the club every few months to play. For this posts purpose he is called Andrew and she is Kate.



There was an attraction. I wouldn’t say he was the type of guy I’d normally be drawn to but he was good company and had a good sense of humour. He was about 5’10, stocky build, brown hair. She was exactly my husband’s type, very bubbly, brown hair shoulder length, very tactile when chatting. We continued chatting as a foursome after the other couples had moved on. We weren’t confident enough to make the next step but they asked if we’d like to go to the play areas to get to know one another better. They knew that this was still only our second visit.



It was at that point that my husand and I needed to check in with each other. We had already sorted out signals to say if we were happy or not to go forward and both of us indicated we were.



So once that slightly awkward part had passed we all changed (stripped) and put our clothes in the lockers and went upstairs.



Kate was curvy but not in an overweight way at all, she had a Great figure and was wearing black bra and thong. I was wearing a black lace bra top and thong and thigh high hold ups (a mistake in hindsight with the hold ups). The boys were in brief shorts and boxers.



We wandered upstairs to the play areas (downstairs is more bondage orientated - more on that later). It was already busy in the big play area. Lots of action, sounds. We stood and watched for a few minutes, it’s incredibly arousing seeing other people having sex. Charlie (my husband ) was already hard and I was teasing him over his underwear.



All four of us were chatting, and then Andrew asked if we should try and find a private space or find a spot in the main room. I was definitely not ready to be in the main group so we said let’s try and find a room. We finally managed to find a space where a couple were just leaving so we quickly claimed that, essentially a simple room, a large mattressed area in the middle.



We all laid on the bed, next to our own partners but things started almost immediately. They started to make out with each other but with one eye on us. It felt odd to just watch them so Charlie and I did the same. He took my bra top off quite quickly and Andrew commented on my boobs. Kate was on top pf Andrew and was working her way down his body and i watched her as she got his cock out and started to suck it. We were still just making out when she leant over and asked if I wanted to join her sucking his cock.



I looked at Charlie and he just said it’s up to me. So I crawled the short distance and joined her. She had his cock in her hand and essentially handed it to me. I knelt and started to suck him. She stayed next me and was kissing him for about a minute and then checked I was on, and left me with her husband. I watched her move over to Charlie and she started to blow him almost immediately.



I didn’t feel jealous at all. In fact I was so aroused seeing his face when she started to suck him. But I quickly got back to sucking Andres cock, and he was making the sounds like I was doing a good job. His hands were in my hair, on my back and was exploring my body. He stopped me suddenly, he said he needed to slow down with a little laugh. Then he asked if he could go down on me. So this was a big step for me. But I wanted it. So I laid on my back and he helped off my thong and then went down between my legs. It. Was . Heaven. Ha ha. I was so turned on. It felt like electricity on each stroke of his tongue.



I looked over at Charlie and he reached out and held my hand as he was still getting blown. I loved that. But we let go fairly quickly as I had to hold on to the mattress. I orgasmed really quickly. It was amazing. Andrew then asked if we could fuck. And I was really ready to. He grabbed a condom and put it on. He wanted me to get on all fours but I’m not always comfortable in that position so I asked if we could fuck on my back to start.



Charlie and Kate were now doing oral but he was watching as Andrew moved between my legs and put them on his shoulders. He entered slowly but very easily.



And that’s the story of how I fucked another guy for the first time in 17 years



We changed position after a while and I went on top. Which is my absolute fave position and i orgasmed again before he came.



Charlie and Kate also fucked but they were still going after we had finished.



It was hot and sweaty. Very sexy. Very satisfying. It wasn’t as hard as I thought it may be psychologically. It felt perfectly natural and fun. Which I think sex should be.



After they had finished we were all lying there chatting but another group wanted the room so we grabbed our clothes and towels and moved out.



We grabbed a drink with them afterwards. It was so nice and relaxed, no weirdness at all.



They wanted to go back up but we stayed in the social area for a while. It was nice for us just to be a couple for a while.



It was about 1:30am and we started to have a second wind so we actually went downstairs to walk the ‘dungeon’. There were quite a few people down there. We at he’d a few couples having sex , there was a sex swing with a woman in it. And then we saw the ‘glory hole’ which is essentially a big cupboard. Now that’s something we saw the first time and we had been talking about it. No one was in it so Charlie told me to go in as a dare. I went in and immediately he put his cock through. So I got on my knees and started to suck him. The room is only big enough really for one person. But there were 3 holes.



I then heard Charlie talking to someone. I couldn’t quite hear what was being said but I did catch him saying “it’s my wife”. And that’s when another cock appeared. I obviously knew this was a possibility but I wasn’t prepared for the sudden arrival. It was limp, not hard at all. So I reach with my right hand and started to touch it. It responded really quickly, stiffening. And then I start to suck it. It had the taste of condoms so I assume it had already had some action. I spent the next few minutes desperately trying to coordinate both cocks, until Charlie removed his. I Knew he wanted me to concentrate on the other one. So. Alternated between stroking and sucking. I got the sense that the guy might be close so I told him to tell me if he was going to cum through the wall. A minute later he said he was about to cum and he ejaculates over my hand as I stroked him. Thankfully there were towels inside so I wiped off most of the cum before exiting. Charlie pointed out the guy I’d just relieved and kissed me. That was our night over.



We didn’t see Andrew and Kate again, but we have actually got their contact details. Kate has already messaged me to thank us for a nice evening.



So we’ve really been making sense of how we feel the past couple of days. And I have to say absolutely no regrets, no concerns, just a big high. It’s a big step after so many years of discussion . And I don’t think it could have gone any better.

So glad to hear the night went well! Well written and well done. This seems to be the start of an exciting new chapter for you and Charlie as a couple. I’m excited to follow along on your journey…

Now I need to re-read your post and take care of a developing… situation.

 

[deft]

Thank you for another fantastic account. Shame it's down in London, sounds like it would be a perfect first club for us if I can ever convince Mrs AW to take the next step. Were you both curious at the same pace originally or did one lead the other?

The Townhouse is what you seek.

 

[LittleGreene]

Thank you for another fantastic account. Shame it's down in London, sounds like it would be a perfect first club for us if I can ever convince Mrs AW to take the next step. Were you both curious at the same pace originally or did one lead the other?

It had been something he mentioned first. I liked the idea in fantasy initially but we moved at the same pace when I realised I wanted to experience it as well.

 

[LittleGreene]

The Townhouse is what you seek.

That gets very good review and Andrew and Kate had been there. But they are from the NE and found all the scousers at the Townhouse too much! Ha ha

 

[jonnoback]

Ok- sorry it’s taken a few days to write up our weekend adventure.

I haven’t spell checked this so apologies if there are blatant mistakes.

So for those that haven’t been following this was our second visit to the same swingers club in London. The first experience was fantastic so we felt emboldened to go back with expanded boundaries. Essentially we felt ready to full Swap if we met the right people.



We felt sommuch less anxious this time in the lead up, I think mainly as we had a much better understanding of how the club worked, the type of people we knew we’d meet. It’s made the build up during the day much more of excitement than anything



We arrived later than we had the first time, one thing we learn was that these type of clubs only really get going later in the night.



It was busy when we got which was a great sign, as it meant there were lots of people to meet and chat to. We felt confident in approaching people this time, last time we kind of sat back and let people come to us, which is probably standard for newbies.



I had worn the same black dress as the first visit. (yes I know, a bit boring but I felt comfortable in it) and different heels, and I had new lingerie for the play area.



We actually settled into a group chat quite quickly with 3 other couples.it was very pleasant and some light flirting all around. One couple left to explore the play areas after a short while. And then another couple got into a side chat which left us chatting to one couple.



They were both my age, late 30s, (if you don’t know, I’m 38, my husband is 48) they had moved to London 18 months ago from the north of England where they had been in the lifestyle scene up there for a couple of years . They said they had struggled to find the right crowd in London, they had a group that played privately up north so they’d been coming to the club every few months to play. For this posts purpose he is called Andrew and she is Kate.



There was an attraction. I wouldn’t say he was the type of guy I’d normally be drawn to but he was good company and had a good sense of humour. He was about 5’10, stocky build, brown hair. She was exactly my husband’s type, very bubbly, brown hair shoulder length, very tactile when chatting. We continued chatting as a foursome after the other couples had moved on. We weren’t confident enough to make the next step but they asked if we’d like to go to the play areas to get to know one another better. They knew that this was still only our second visit.



It was at that point that my husand and I needed to check in with each other. We had already sorted out signals to say if we were happy or not to go forward and both of us indicated we were.



So once that slightly awkward part had passed we all changed (stripped) and put our clothes in the lockers and went upstairs.



Kate was curvy but not in an overweight way at all, she had a Great figure and was wearing black bra and thong. I was wearing a black lace bra top and thong and thigh high hold ups (a mistake in hindsight with the hold ups). The boys were in brief shorts and boxers.



We wandered upstairs to the play areas (downstairs is more bondage orientated - more on that later). It was already busy in the big play area. Lots of action, sounds. We stood and watched for a few minutes, it’s incredibly arousing seeing other people having sex. Charlie (my husband ) was already hard and I was teasing him over his underwear.



All four of us were chatting, and then Andrew asked if we should try and find a private space or find a spot in the main room. I was definitely not ready to be in the main group so we said let’s try and find a room. We finally managed to find a space where a couple were just leaving so we quickly claimed that, essentially a simple room, a large mattressed area in the middle.



We all laid on the bed, next to our own partners but things started almost immediately. They started to make out with each other but with one eye on us. It felt odd to just watch them so Charlie and I did the same. He took my bra top off quite quickly and Andrew commented on my boobs. Kate was on top pf Andrew and was working her way down his body and i watched her as she got his cock out and started to suck it. We were still just making out when she leant over and asked if I wanted to join her sucking his cock.



I looked at Charlie and he just said it’s up to me. So I crawled the short distance and joined her. She had his cock in her hand and essentially handed it to me. I knelt and started to suck him. She stayed next me and was kissing him for about a minute and then checked I was on, and left me with her husband. I watched her move over to Charlie and she started to blow him almost immediately.



I didn’t feel jealous at all. In fact I was so aroused seeing his face when she started to suck him. But I quickly got back to sucking Andres cock, and he was making the sounds like I was doing a good job. His hands were in my hair, on my back and was exploring my body. He stopped me suddenly, he said he needed to slow down with a little laugh. Then he asked if he could go down on me. So this was a big step for me. But I wanted it. So I laid on my back and he helped off my thong and then went down between my legs. It. Was . Heaven. Ha ha. I was so turned on. It felt like electricity on each stroke of his tongue.



I looked over at Charlie and he reached out and held my hand as he was still getting blown. I loved that. But we let go fairly quickly as I had to hold on to the mattress. I orgasmed really quickly. It was amazing. Andrew then asked if we could fuck. And I was really ready to. He grabbed a condom and put it on. He wanted me to get on all fours but I’m not always comfortable in that position so I asked if we could fuck on my back to start.



Charlie and Kate were now doing oral but he was watching as Andrew moved between my legs and put them on his shoulders. He entered slowly but very easily.



And that’s the story of how I fucked another guy for the first time in 17 years



We changed position after a while and I went on top. Which is my absolute fave position and i orgasmed again before he came.



Charlie and Kate also fucked but they were still going after we had finished.



It was hot and sweaty. Very sexy. Very satisfying. It wasn’t as hard as I thought it may be psychologically. It felt perfectly natural and fun. Which I think sex should be.



After they had finished we were all lying there chatting but another group wanted the room so we grabbed our clothes and towels and moved out.



We grabbed a drink with them afterwards. It was so nice and relaxed, no weirdness at all.



They wanted to go back up but we stayed in the social area for a while. It was nice for us just to be a couple for a while.



It was about 1:30am and we started to have a second wind so we actually went downstairs to walk the ‘dungeon’. There were quite a few people down there. We at he’d a few couples having sex , there was a sex swing with a woman in it. And then we saw the ‘glory hole’ which is essentially a big cupboard. Now that’s something we saw the first time and we had been talking about it. No one was in it so Charlie told me to go in as a dare. I went in and immediately he put his cock through. So I got on my knees and started to suck him. The room is only big enough really for one person. But there were 3 holes.



I then heard Charlie talking to someone. I couldn’t quite hear what was being said but I did catch him saying “it’s my wife”. And that’s when another cock appeared. I obviously knew this was a possibility but I wasn’t prepared for the sudden arrival. It was limp, not hard at all. So I reach with my right hand and started to touch it. It responded really quickly, stiffening. And then I start to suck it. It had the taste of condoms so I assume it had already had some action. I spent the next few minutes desperately trying to coordinate both cocks, until Charlie removed his. I Knew he wanted me to concentrate on the other one. So. Alternated between stroking and sucking. I got the sense that the guy might be close so I told him to tell me if he was going to cum through the wall. A minute later he said he was about to cum and he ejaculates over my hand as I stroked him. Thankfully there were towels inside so I wiped off most of the cum before exiting. Charlie pointed out the guy I’d just relieved and kissed me. That was our night over.



We didn’t see Andrew and Kate again, but we have actually got their contact details. Kate has already messaged me to thank us for a nice evening.



So we’ve really been making sense of how we feel the past couple of days. And I have to say absolutely no regrets, no concerns, just a big high. It’s a big step after so many years of discussion . And I don’t think it could have gone any better.

That's amazing and thanks for the update as I think it will help a lot of people.