Fuck It: Refux

[Justadesperatewifeandmom]

Hey you swamp people are my kinda normal. Wresting gators and shooting swamp rats is classy shit, you all just need to start wearing shoes.

aw hell, I am all fancy in my crocs.

Still intrigued by how your experimentalist can be 80%, but you're 79% vanilla

Vanilla isn't trying everything at least once...

I swear it must be there are a couple of questions used only to determine vanilla percent.

 

[Saltfountain]

aw hell, I am all fancy in my crocs.

I swear it must be there are a couple of questions used only to determine vanilla percent.

Not convinced...

 

[Saltfountain]

Because I had already done the test it gave me different questions to the first time. I was surprised that my Exhibitionist had droped down , but I think there were less question relating to this.
Not surprised it put Dom/ sub closer together, me learning more about this.
The top 8 seems about right to me.

Are you sure? I've done the test multiple times and I'm sure it's the same questions...

 

[barefootgirl69]

I swear it must be there are a couple of questions used only to determine vanilla percent.

There was only ONE that asked about dressing younger, coloring, etc. I like to color with colored pencils, not crayons in a Barbie book. But, that's how they determined "a*e play". @ToPleaseHim Can I say it like this or change it? Or delete altogether?

 

[Justadesperatewifeandmom]

There was only ONE that asked about dressing younger, coloring, etc. I like to color with colored pencils, not crayons in a Barbie book. But, that's how they determined "a*e play". @ToPleaseHim Can I say it like this or change it? Or delete altogether?

oh is that why I scored that kinda high. Sometimes I like to be crafty. children's crafty things are about my skill level.

 

[positiveflirt]

Can I say it like this or change it? Or delete altogether?

oh you can try and disguise it all you want, but we all know your pirate-themed depraved gatherings are famous for ale play. BARKEEP!

 

[barefootgirl69]

oh you can try and disguise it all you want, but we all know your pirate-themed depraved gatherings are famous for ale play. BARKEEP!

Hmmm which one of us will be tied to the mast?

Me! Me! Pick me!

 

[tolyk]

I am very flexible. I tend to gravitate to dick/cock,

For some reason I stopped reading right there.

 

[Mtnmike]

First time I've ever heard a woman complain of too much foreplay....

Unfortunately not me, wife said it was one of the reasons she stopped having sex, that and tired of marathon sex. Told her first I heard a woman complain about such and sorry there was nothing I could do about it, that was 14 year's ago and evidently she meant it.

 

[hopeful_wife]

Guys, I only missed a day... You've talked about SO much!

See I got a much higher than expected brat score and I'm not at all. Maybe I get playful when I'm "little" but I never push back.

My brat score was sort of high, too. It seems my playful banter can read as a bratty challenge.

I have only ever told 2 or 3 other about this, and now I publish this to the world

Good for you, being brave to share. There shouldn't be shame around stuff like this. We're all finding our way.

Ever swallowed a guy's cum?

Now I'm curious: have you?

Totally tasted my own jizz. Not even gonna lie, I taste really good.

Well, hi there.

I think the idea of protecting her, and her allowing herself to be vulnerable with me... ya.

This is a huge part of why I like being submissive. I'm in charge of everything, all the time. And I'm a tall, strong, confident woman, who doesn't put up with a lot of bullshit in daily life (thanks to my daddy for raising me to be as tough as any son would have been)... But that means I don't ever feel protected in my real life... It's never safe to let down my guard. I crave that safety in a relationship. Maybe someday.

Though gobbler does make me think of a turkey.

Are there cupcakes on this turkey?

First time I've ever heard a woman complain of too much foreplay....

If I'm tired, you'd better not take too long warming me up, or I'll fall asleep before the good stuff starts.

hey, sometimes life is busy. I got things to do.

Exactly.

I may be a pervert (I mean, I totally am), but I try to be a respectful pervert. It costs nothing and hopefully makes the world a slightly better place

I happen to think, Salty, that your prioritizing consent, even in the harsher scenes you've shared with us, and your desire to help others feel safe talking about their kinks both make the world a much better place.

 

[Saltfountain]

Now I'm curious: have you?

Nope, kinda clashes with my one cock policy (mine's not detachable so it's always 1)
Also, my experimentalist score is low. If I find something I like by accident, that's awesome, but I don't feel the burning need to try everything (for science)

thanks to my daddy for raising me to be as tough as any son would have been

I find this phrase not exactly troubling, but sad (and I've heard quite a few say it)
In a world where we aim for more equality, the concept of male = tough, female = not tough grinds a bit.
I know plenty of incredibly strong women, especially mentally, but I know a fair few who could kick the shit out of me physically...

 

[hopeful_wife]

Nope, kinda clashes with my one cock policy (mine's not detachable so it's always 1)

So, have you tasted your own? Sorry for being so curious... Like, I guess I always assumed everyone did taste themselves, but I've found out that some don't, and I'm curious now about why that is?

Also, speaking of a detachable penis...

In a world where we aim for more equality, the concept of male = tough, female = not tough grinds a bit.

Poor phrasing. I should have used quotation marks to denote that he saw the world the way we should see it, not that he thought men were tougher. He wanted to raise strong, independent, confident children. When he had two daughters and no sons, he saw no need to force us into having soft, obedient edges.

 

[Saltfountain]

So, have you tasted your own? Sorry for being so curious... Like, I guess I always assumed everyone did taste themselves, but I've found out that some don't, and I'm curious now about why that is?

Tasted my precum, not my cum

Don't know why, but tasting my cum never appealed to me

 

[RosewoodTulip]

Also, speaking of a detachable penis.

I have never heard this before
Weird but catchy haha. Just my style

 

[Saltfountain]

A long time ago I had a man perform anal on me

So if a guy asked you to perform anal on them, would you?*

I'm curious as to how many people who are ostensibly straight have had experiences with the same gender, or have it on their fuck it lists.

I'm a boring old cunt, so this has never been a list item for me, but it seems to be pretty common



*Yeah, I'm not asking for me before you say it...

 

[RosewoodTulip]

I know I commented yesterday about the new direction my sexuality has shifted towards.
I've never done anything at all with a woman. No "kissed a girl and I liked it". No curious sleepovers. Not even any drunken play flirting with my friends. My solidly straight friends all apparently experimented a little bit but I've always been (disgustingly) boring.
I would like to change that though. But not messing around, a real connection.

 

[barefootgirl69]

Still intrigued by how your experimentalist can be 80%, but you're 79% vanilla

Vanilla isn't trying everything at least once...

I'm still trying to figure out why my vanilla was so high. I'm definitely not vanilla.

This is a huge part of why I like being submissive. I'm in charge of everything, all the time. <snip>.. But that means I don't ever feel protected in my real life... It's never safe to let down my guard. I crave that safety in a relationship. Maybe someday.

^ exactly

 

[Saltfountain]

I'm still trying to figure out why my vanilla was so high. I'm definitely not vanilla.


^ exactly

Laughing at the idea of you being vanilla

 

[barefootgirl69]

Laughing at the idea of you being vanilla

Many moons ago, when I was a baby Litster, I told someone I was vanilla because of that score. They laughed and laughed and laughed, too. Then, started going down a list of things of "do you like and have you done". I'm thoroughly convinced - I'm not vanilla.

 

[RosewoodTulip]

See my real life experiences have all been vanilla. But I've never fully been satisfied. It's only since joining here and chatting to you wonderful people that I've realised all of the things I've missed and that I'd love the chance to try

 

[Radiantcurves87]

See my real life experiences have all been vanilla. But I've never fully been satisfied. It's only since joining here and chatting to you wonderful people that I've realised all of the things I've missed and that I'd love the chance to try

I hear you, between chatting on here, with individuals and reading stories. It helped me sway my hubs into trying not to be vanilla.

 

[RosewoodTulip]

I hear you, between chatting on here, with individuals and reading stories. It helped me sway my hubs into trying not to be vanilla.

And how did that go if you don't mind me asking. Did he like the things he tried?

 

[Saltfountain]

I hear you, between chatting on here, with individuals and reading stories. It helped me sway my hubs into trying not to be vanilla.

That's fucking awesome!

 

[Radiantcurves87]

And how did that go if you don't mind me asking. Did he like the things he tried?

No I don't mind. It has worked out very well. He learned I am a bit of an exhibitionist, and when he takes control, I become very relaxed and enjoy it. Just took us talking about our fantasies and what we want to take pleasure in.

Will note, we have been married for over 7 years, have tried for so long without success of children yet. Between his work schedules, sex became routine or planned. It lacked romance. It took both of us to change from vanilla or what I felt like was a procedure to enjoy what should be love.

 

[RosewoodTulip]

No I don't mind. It has worked out very well. He learned I am a bit of an exhibitionist, and when he takes control, I become very relaxed and enjoy it. Just took us talking about our fantasies and what we want to take pleasure in.

Will note, we have been married for over 7 years, have tried for so long without success of children yet. Between his work schedules, sex became routine or planned. It lacked romance. It took both of us to change from vanilla or what I felt like was a procedure to enjoy what should be love.

That's wonderful that you've found your spark again.

I'm sorry for the struggles you're having with trying for a child