Fuck It: Refux

Ok a girl orgy sounds fun actually. You know the ladies would be prepared. Comfy cushions and blankets, snacks & drinks. Hydration is important when doing prolonged physical activity 🤭

Wondering if my invite got lost somewhere though šŸ¤”
Is it actually on your list Rosie?
 
So I rewatched Death on the Nile the other day (David Suchet version) and now I want a super hot cruise ship romance.
This is different to @MrsPassion s Spectacular Spectacular Lit Cruise and Fuck FestTM in that I want to dress up in the 20's glam, drink martinis and be oh so civilised and then be swept off my feet by a beautiful stranger who then does unspeakably delicious things to me.

Anyone else have a overblown and yet super specific fantasy to share?
 
Another week, another challenge

I'm visiting family for a few days and another of my good friends has decided I need to be kept occupied. I have 3 things to do and will be keeping a tally just incase I don't have time to post

1 - whenever I'm alone I have to pinch a nipple hard enough to gasp

2 - every time someone says my name I have to gently touch my arm, face or neck so it feels like it's from a lover

3 - When I actually have some real privacy I have to squeeze my cunt. Through my clothes is okay but naked is preferred.

The only information I can offer during my challenge is my tally. Not how I feel or any other details.

Once it's done and I've debriefed my friend I can then write an update if anyone wants one ā¤ļø
 
Another week, another challenge

I'm visiting family for a few days and another of my good friends has decided I need to be kept occupied. I have 3 things to do and will be keeping a tally just incase I don't have time to post

1 - whenever I'm alone I have to pinch a nipple hard enough to gasp

2 - every time someone says my name I have to gently touch my arm, face or neck so it feels like it's from a lover

3 - When I actually have some real privacy I have to squeeze my cunt. Through my clothes is okay but naked is preferred.

The only information I can offer during my challenge is my tally. Not how I feel or any other details.

Once it's done and I've debriefed my friend I can then write an update if anyone wants one ā¤ļø
Best of luck! šŸ˜‰šŸ˜‹šŸ˜Š
 
Another week, another challenge

I'm visiting family for a few days and another of my good friends has decided I need to be kept occupied. I have 3 things to do and will be keeping a tally just incase I don't have time to post

1 - whenever I'm alone I have to pinch a nipple hard enough to gasp

2 - every time someone says my name I have to gently touch my arm, face or neck so it feels like it's from a lover

3 - When I actually have some real privacy I have to squeeze my cunt. Through my clothes is okay but naked is preferred.

The only information I can offer during my challenge is my tally. Not how I feel or any other details.

Once it's done and I've debriefed my friend I can then write an update if anyone wants one ā¤ļø
Love these challenges your taking up. Hope you have fun!
 
How did you perverts manage to take a whole day off?!

Let's talk droughts.
The ugly: what's your longest going without?
The bad: how you've tried, unsuccessfully, to interest a partner into helping you break it?
The good: how you finally got your groove back?
The best: what's your fantasy of a permanent solution?

Only want to answer part? That's okay. But for those of us who've prayed for a metaphorical sex-rain, this topic might be of interest.

Mine-- ugly: I think we're pushing a decade of dead bedroom in my marriage (he's asexual, I haven't cheated);

bad: toys, long talks, porn, begging, fighting, mostly blaming myself, eventually hiding my masturbation;

good: well, sort of, because I'm getting off, even if WE still aren't having sex-- joining Lit has been life-changing and I have had lots of orgasms, realized I'm not alone in this kind of marriage, and met some great friends who are able to help me out with dirty talk and creative fantasies;

best: since our marriage will never be whole in this way, I guess my permanent solution would be after a decision to open it, or after its demise-- I'm not ready for either of those things quite, yet, but if they happen, then I'd love to have a friend (or twelve) who can occasionally meet those needs in person, instead of just online.
 
How did you perverts manage to take a whole day off?!

Let's talk droughts.
The ugly: what's your longest going without?
The bad: how you've tried, unsuccessfully, to interest a partner into helping you break it?
The good: how you finally got your groove back?
The best: what's your fantasy of a permanent solution?

Only want to answer part? That's okay. But for those of us who've prayed for a metaphorical sex-rain, this topic might be of interest.

Mine-- ugly: I think we're pushing a decade of dead bedroom in my marriage (he's asexual, I haven't cheated);

bad: toys, long talks, porn, begging, fighting, mostly blaming myself, eventually hiding my masturbation;

good: well, sort of, because I'm getting off, even if WE still aren't having sex-- joining Lit has been life-changing and I have had lots of orgasms, realized I'm not alone in this kind of marriage, and met some great friends who are able to help me out with dirty talk and creative fantasies;

best: since our marriage will never be whole in this way, I guess my permanent solution would be after a decision to open it, or after its demise-- I'm not ready for either of those things quite, yet, but if they happen, then I'd love to have a friend (or twelve) who can occasionally meet those needs in person, instead of just online.
Triggers ahead

Ugly - 7 years. After a nasty break up to a worse relationship where I ended up in a refuge and with ptsd I never wanted to be touched again.

Bad - I was the party that said no cos I didn’t have any trust in the ex. He was hyper sexual and constantly pawed at me and often just took what he wanted.

Good - Friends encouraged me to sign up for apps and I met a nice guy who only wanted something casual. He was very patient with me. After reconnecting with my sexual side I eventually found Lit and it's been really healing.

Best - honestly I don't know. I don't want another 24/7 relationship but I hate being alone. I could potentially join a poly couple or try to find a long term casual arrangement. I'm giving myself time though to continue healing and I'm trying to let myself be open to new opportunities instead of hiding myself away.
 
Triggers ahead

Ugly - 7 years. After a nasty break up to a worse relationship where I ended up in a refuge and with ptsd I never wanted to be touched again.

Bad - I was the party that said no cos I didn’t have any trust in the ex. He was hyper sexual and constantly pawed at me and often just took what he wanted.

Good - Friends encouraged me to sign up for apps and I met a nice guy who only wanted something casual. He was very patient with me. After reconnecting with my sexual side I eventually found Lit and it's been really healing.

Best - honestly I don't know. I don't want another 24/7 relationship but I hate being alone. I could potentially join a poly couple or try to find a long term casual arrangement. I'm giving myself time though to continue healing and I'm trying to let myself be open to new opportunities instead of hiding myself away.
šŸ«‚šŸ¤—šŸ«‚ Thanks for sharing Rosie.

 
Triggers ahead

Ugly - 7 years. After a nasty break up to a worse relationship where I ended up in a refuge and with ptsd I never wanted to be touched again.

Bad - I was the party that said no cos I didn’t have any trust in the ex. He was hyper sexual and constantly pawed at me and often just took what he wanted.

Good - Friends encouraged me to sign up for apps and I met a nice guy who only wanted something casual. He was very patient with me. After reconnecting with my sexual side I eventually found Lit and it's been really healing.

Best - honestly I don't know. I don't want another 24/7 relationship but I hate being alone. I could potentially join a poly couple or try to find a long term casual arrangement. I'm giving myself time though to continue healing and I'm trying to let myself be open to new opportunities instead of hiding myself away.
Sending you hugs my friend! šŸ«‚šŸ«‚šŸ«‚
 
How did you perverts manage to take a whole day off?!

Let's talk droughts.
The ugly: what's your longest going without?
several months
The bad: how you've tried, unsuccessfully, to interest a partner into helping you break it?
asking, lingerie, roleplay, 3some invitations, saying romantic things about their eyes, demanding, and pouting. I am multifaceted.
The good: how you finally got your groove back?
didn't
The best: what's your fantasy of a permanent solution?
I don't fantasize well. Realistic permanent solution is, well in 8 years, our child will be an adult, so I have decision. Either A) I'd likely have started menopause and that may dull me, so I will just be happy grooveless. B)I get a divorce and see if I can make things work better with someone else. C) I find myself better at using an open relationship without having to balance in mom responsibilities.
 
several months

asking, lingerie, roleplay, 3some invitations, saying romantic things about their eyes, demanding, and pouting. I am multifaceted.

didn't

I don't fantasize well. Realistic permanent solution is, well in 8 years, our child will be an adult, so I have decision. Either A) I'd likely have started menopause and that may dull me, so I will just be happy grooveless. B)I get a divorce and see if I can make things work better with someone else. C) I find myself better at using an open relationship without having to balance in mom responsibilities.
WOW! That is one long dry spell, especially for someone who enjoys sex as much as you do. My dry spell has actually been longer than that. In my case, I have to find someone who is actually interested in sex with me LOL.
 
Triggers ahead

Ugly - 7 years. After a nasty break up to a worse relationship where I ended up in a refuge and with ptsd I never wanted to be touched again.

Bad - I was the party that said no cos I didn’t have any trust in the ex. He was hyper sexual and constantly pawed at me and often just took what he wanted.

Good - Friends encouraged me to sign up for apps and I met a nice guy who only wanted something casual. He was very patient with me. After reconnecting with my sexual side I eventually found Lit and it's been really healing.

Best - honestly I don't know. I don't want another 24/7 relationship but I hate being alone. I could potentially join a poly couple or try to find a long term casual arrangement. I'm giving myself time though to continue healing and I'm trying to let myself be open to new opportunities instead of hiding myself away.
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