Fuck It: Refux

So what's the joy in someone trampling on you? And would you genuinely prefer it if they were in stilettos?
I’ve never been with a Domme who liked to step on me so I can’t attest to how it would feel with stilettos…but I’ve enjoyed a tender/loving boot on my head while licking…fluids off the ground. I like degradation in the right setting..and those shoes🥵
 
I’ve never been with a Domme who liked to step on me so I can’t attest to how it would feel with stilettos…but I’ve enjoyed a tender/loving boot on my head while licking…fluids off the ground. I like degradation in the right setting..and those shoes🥵
What feelings does being degraded release on you that make you feel so good?
 
What feelings does being degraded release on you that make you feel so good?
Salty with the deep questions today.
Full honesty: because it’s the exact opposite of how I know I deserve to be treated. In no way shape or form in my daily life would anyone I know or who knows me think to degrade or humiliate me. I’m also not a 24/7 lifestyle person. I get a lot of satisfaction from…I don’t know how to say this correctly so I’m just riffing; being made to look a mess and behave in an unbecoming fashion. I think because I spend so much time being “on” either through work or just conforming in day to day life expectations it’s a huge and cathartic release to be made to lick cum off a floor or be called a “dirty slut”. It appeases my inner most personality traits. And embarrassment is only that if you get stuck there, i can find joy and amusement in the absurd and shocking and from there arousal is quick to follow. If I’m laughing I’m turned on, and my natural response to embarrassment is laughter 🫣
 
Salty with the deep questions today.
Full honesty: because it’s the exact opposite of how I know I deserve to be treated. In no way shape or form in my daily life would anyone I know or who knows me think to degrade or humiliate me. I’m also not a 24/7 lifestyle person. I get a lot of satisfaction from…I don’t know how to say this correctly so I’m just riffing; being made to look a mess and behave in an unbecoming fashion. I think because I spend so much time being “on” either through work or just conforming in day to day life expectations it’s a huge and cathartic release to be made to lick cum off a floor or be called a “dirty slut”. It appeases my inner most personality traits. And embarrassment is only that if you get stuck there, i can find joy and amusement in the absurd and shocking and from there arousal is quick to follow. If I’m laughing I’m turned on, and my natural response to embarrassment is laughter 🫣
This is just one of those things I'll never understand but I love.

I can't imagine any joy from being made to do that, but I've made people lick the floors of public toilets and worse, and been immensely turned on by their being turned on by it.

I love the differences, but it's why I have so many questions
 
This is just one of those things I'll never understand but I love.

I can't imagine any joy from being made to do that, but I've made people lick the floors of public toilets and worse, and been immensely turned on by their being turned on by it.

I love the differences, but it's why I have so many questions
I would never lick a toilet lol (NMK) but I’m comfortable looking closely at the things that turn me on, and admittedly sometimes not. Just taking it as face value that what x is, it does it for me. I think part of the joy comes from “you think I won’t, just watch me!” It’s an arousal that is amplified by my bratty behavior and enjoyment of funishment. I’m not supposed to giggle while licking the floor but you better believe I will and throw in a wink for good measure 😂
 
This is just one of those things I'll never understand but I love.

I can't imagine any joy from being made to do that, but I've made people lick the floors of public toilets and worse, and been immensely turned on by their being turned on by it.

I love the differences, but it's why I have so many questions
You're a little freak, but I love you anyway.
 
I would never lick a toilet lol (NMK) but I’m comfortable looking closely at the things that turn me on, and admittedly sometimes not. Just taking it as face value that what x is, it does it for me. I think part of the joy comes from “you think I won’t, just watch me!” It’s an arousal that is amplified by my bratty behavior and enjoyment of funishment. I’m not supposed to giggle while licking the floor but you better believe I will and throw in a wink for good measure 😂
I'd never make anyone do stuff that isn't their kink. But I would take your kink and push you to explore your limits, to see where your boundaries really are. Not in an "I'm gonna ignore you" way, but in a way that allows you to explore safely.
The more extreme the things you ask someone to do are, the more you have to be in tune with what they say and do, and how they're reacting. The more you have to be aware of what they're enjoying. And that sometimes takes you directions you don't expect to go
 
I'd never make anyone do stuff that isn't their kink. But I would take your kink and push you to explore your limits, to see where your boundaries really are. Not in an "I'm gonna ignore you" way, but in a way that allows you to explore safely.
The more extreme the things you ask someone to do are, the more you have to be in tune with what they say and do, and how they're reacting. The more you have to be aware of what they're enjoying. And that sometimes takes you directions you don't expect to go
So what for you is exciting about pushing someone to explore their limits? Even if someone told me "Please make me lick this public toilet!!" I'd be hard pressed to do it. The same way you have some confusion over how I could enjoy erotic humiliation I can't quite wrap my head around being the person choosing how that plays out.
 
So what for you is exciting about pushing someone to explore their limits? Even if someone told me "Please make me lick this public toilet!!" I'd be hard pressed to do it. The same way you have some confusion over how I could enjoy erotic humiliation I can't quite wrap my head around being the person choosing how that plays out.
No, I get that.

Most of what I get people to do excites me but some of the things I make people do don't turn me on at all.
I get turned on by their arousal. Their enjoyment. I like to make people happy. And I'm aware I'll go places others won't. And that also turns me on.

I'm aware I'm freak, and a lot of people will read these posts and reach for the iggy button. But 🤷🏻‍♂️
 
Okay these corsets are pricey but have longer lines and are designed for the curvy gworls 😘

Long torsos (like moi) do really well wearing panties that go up over hips (Brazilian). Again natural waist garter belts, teddy’s and baby dolls are lovely as well. Long line bras can help balance out the look of distance between your bust and hips. I also say embrace the soft rounded parts of you, they are beautiful features, especially when highlighted with strappy lingerie 😘😘😘
and the one that catches my eye is only in an 18inch waist I have questions, mostly how does someone have an 18inch waist and why would they need extra boob room?
I don’t own any heels … but I own 5 different pairs of flip flops. I’m sure that’s someone’s kink.
I appreciate your footwear.
 
and the one that catches my eye is only in an 18inch waist I have questions, mostly how does someone have an 18inch waist and why would they need extra boob room?
People come in all shapes and sizes and was that the final waist measurement or just what was left in stock? They aren't like Victoria secret corsets, these are the kind with steel boning for most of them and so they cinch in really tight, like no sudden movements you might pass out type :ROFLMAO: I've only ever purchased one of these my waist uncinched is 36' fully cinched and strapped in I was at I think27-28" ish inches and my bust was still kicking it at a cool 59":ROFLMAO:. Which one caught your eye?!
 
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No, I get that.

Most of what I get people to do excites me but some of the things I make people do don't turn me on at all.
I get turned on by their arousal. Their enjoyment. I like to make people happy. And I'm aware I'll go places others won't. And that also turns me on.

I'm aware I'm freak, and a lot of people will read these posts and reach for the iggy button. But 🤷🏻‍♂️
I don't think you're a freak at all. Different strokes for different folks and as it's clear you have zero interest in hurting folks outside of what they say they are cool with reaching for the Iggy button seems...well, my ignore button remains untouched on your page is all I will say. :love:
 
People come in all shapes and sizes and was that the final waist measurement or just what was left in stock? They aren't like Victoria secret corsets, these are the kind with steel boning for most of them and so they cinch in really tight, like no sudden movements you might pass out type :ROFLMAO: I've only ever purchased one of these my waist uncinched is 36' fully cinched and strapped in I was at I think27-28" ish inches and my bust was still kicking it at a cool 59":ROFLMAO:. Which one caught your eye?!
it was one with a lace up bust too in this tacky silver. I have found I do appreciate ones with boob ties as I can let them out for extra boob room. and yes they only had the smallest left, which I guess is XXXS. It is pretty shiny in the purple too. I am now just all about the lace up boobs.
 
it was one with a lace up bust too in this tacky silver. I have found I do appreciate ones with boob ties as I can let them out for extra boob room. and yes they only had the smallest left, which I guess is XXXS. It is pretty shiny in the purple too. I am now just all about the lace up boobs.
ohhhh that one is nice...I don't think its tacky at all, its like a sexy Robot vibe which could definitely be my kink :LOL:
The boob ties save lives!! :LOL::ROFLMAO: the quickness that they sell out is my chief complaint. I want this one but it's been sold out forever lol if you get one please post pics!! :ROFLMAO:
 
Apparently i was a very prolific shirt picture taker at one point cause im looking through old pictures satisfy you thirsty fuckers but im not sure which picture yall are talking about. 🤣
 
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