Fuck It: Refux

[Saltfountain]

Nothing wrong with a bit of denial haha
I love edging and let things build until I just can't stand it anymore. The pay off is amazing. I know its not for everyone though

It's not for me

I go through long enough dry seasons without actually denying myself at other times

 

[RosewoodTulip]

So men. A question.

Obviously multiples aren't that common for you, although I've heard it's certainly possible.
What about how many times you can orgasm in a certain time period? Are you one and done? Can you recharge and go again (and again)?

No shaming at all for whatever you say. I'm just genuinely curious

 

[RosewoodTulip]

It's not for me

I go through long enough dry seasons without actually denying myself at other times

Totally understand that. I have dry spells (months, years) too. This is a way for me to mix it up. Like if I know I've got a busy week ahead and won't have the time to take care of myself I'll have little edging sessions so when the time comes it'll be that much more intense

 

[Saltfountain]

So men. A question.

Obviously multiples aren't that common for you, although I've heard it's certainly possible.
What about how many times you can orgasm in a certain time period? Are you one and done? Can you recharge and go again (and again)?

No shaming at all for whatever you say. I'm just genuinely curious

I'm generally one, then my horny levels drop to zero pretty instantly, as does my dick hardness.

I can manage multiple in a day, but it becomes painful, and I produce a lot less cum each time. Give me at least an hour...

 

[hopeful_wife]

It's not for me

I go through long enough dry seasons without actually denying myself at other times

Nor me. I have been gifted with a high libido and a body that can keep up. Fuck denial.

 

[Deleted member 6607120]

Sometimes a new one starts just as the last one is ending, sometimes, it's one long one...)

When this happens it is usually preceded by an initial mind melting orgasm, then this neverending one follows. That's when I start whining that it won't stop but in my mind I'm like aaaahhh yeah let's do this! I have to really focus on relaxing and letting those take over so it eventually sends me over the edge of the constant up and down.

Something I realised last night after I commented is that I can't usually have multiples on my own. I need to be given permission to. I'm trained like Pavlovs dog now haha - a particular voice saying a particular word and I go off like a rocket.
On my own it's very rare I can go higher than 2 before I get sensory overload and have to stop

I can relate to this. It's rare to give myself multiples with no guidance and I usually stop after one. Encouragement to keep going with a certain voice in my ear is like a switch being flipped and I'm ready to let it all out over and over lol.

 

[Bbl87]

Last night, I was made to cum 3 times. I've never cum three times before

What are your experiences of multiple orgasms?

Do they get more intense the more you have?

What’s your maximum?

Any tips?

I've orgasmed twice in a single continous session once. Once when she was giving me a blowjob where I didn't ejaculate, and then again during sex where I did. That was about 16 or 17 years ago. Her head game was strong, haha. It took me awhile to figure out that was what happened, as a guy orgasm almost always = ejaculation.

Last night, I came twice within an hour which I was quite proud of, especially with not being a spring chicken anymore. I came the first round, she hadn't but she'd gotten a charlie horse during and said she was good, I could get her next time. A little while later, I offered to "pamper" her breasts for awhile because neither of us was sleepy. It tends to relax her, and we're on our first trip without kids in almost 6 years, so I figured why not offer. Well she accepted and that really got her going again, and after a little light hair pulling and dirty talk she climbed on. I came when she did, which was awesome. Probably some of the best sex we've had in years, and it was pretty vanilla by our standards.

 

[RosewoodTulip]

I've orgasmed twice in a single continous session once. Once when she was giving be a blowjob where I didn't ejaculate, and then again during sex where I did. That was about 16 or 17 years ago. Her head game was strong, haha. It took me awhile to figure out that was what happened, as a guy orgasm almost always = ejaculation.

Last night, I came twice within an hour which I was quite proud of, especially with not being a spring chicken anymore. I came the first round, she hadn't but she'd gotten a charlie horse during and said she was good, I could get her next time. A little while later, I offered to "pamper" her breasts for awhile because neither of us was sleepy. It tends to relax her, and we're on our first trip without kids in almost 6 years, so I figured why not offer. Well she accapted and that really got her going again, and after a little light hair pulling and dirty talk she climbed on. I came when she did, which was awesome. Probably some of the best sex we've had in years, and it was pretty vanilla by our standards.

Sometimes going back to basics can be a great way to reconnect. No kids or other distractions must have helped too. I'm so glad you and your wife enjoyed such a good time together

Oh god getting cramp during sex is the worst

 

[Saltfountain]

Help...

Argument with a friend... Is choking and gagging on a dick as you're deep throated vanilla sex?

 

[Lindi37]

Help...

Argument with a friend... Is choking and gagging on a dick as you're deep throated vanilla sex?

Umm, no. Who’s your friend and where can I get some of this

 

[MrsPassion]

Help...

Argument with a friend... Is choking and gagging on a dick as you're deep throated vanilla sex?

Yes it is you little shit

 

[Saltfountain]

Umm, no. Who’s your friend and where can I get some of this

See, I said it's not, but they're adamant it is, if you're good at sucking cock

 

[Bbl87]

Umm, no. Who’s your friend and where can I get some of this

Pm inbound...

 

[MrsPassion]

See, I said it's not, but they're adamant it is, if you're good at sucking cock

 

[Bbl87]

Help...

Argument with a friend... Is choking and gagging on a dick as you're deep throated vanilla sex?

I don't think deepthroating is inherently not vanilla myself.

 

[MrsPassion]

I don't think deepthroating is inherently not vanilla myself.

Thank you! And a little choking and eyes watering is non kinky as well

 

[Saltfountain]

I don't think deepthroating is inherently not vanilla myself.

Even if the intention is to be choked and gag?

 

[Saltfountain]

Thank you! And a little choking and eyes watering is non kinky as well

Yeah, you're as vanilla as my parents...

 

[MrsPassion]

Umm, no. Who’s your friend and where can I get some of this

I’m happy to send you the video in question of me and my dildo

 

[Lindi37]

See, I said it's not, but they're adamant it is, if you're good at sucking cock

I’d consider myself amazing (humble brag) but it’s not vanilla! Maybe hubs wont let me often enough but I can’t wait to do this one day.

(Tears are mandatory right?)

 

[MrsPassion]

Yeah, you're as vanilla as my parents...

Double churned baby

 

[Saltfountain]

(Tears are mandatory right?)

If I'm doing it right

 

[Bbl87]

Even if the intention is to be choked and gag?

Eh, I dunno. It's kind of a fine line. Because to me deepthroating is a skill, and one that I don't inherently associate with a kink. Now, choking and gagging, you're flirting with D/s stuff but I dunno.

 

[LupineOne]

Umm, no. Who’s your friend and where can I get some of this

Ahem

 

[MrsPassion]

Eh, I dunno. It's kind of a fine line. Because to me deepthroating is a skill, and one that I don't inherently associate with a kink. Now, choking and gagging, you're flirting with D/s stuff but I dunno.

Oh cmon! Surely a little gag doesn’t equate to kinky