it's hard to say for sure, but over a weekend regularly. or moving in and out of it for a week without much of a break.
it changed how i perceived myself and understood there was no clear depth to how far it could go, or for how long with the right encouragement
Probably a couple times a week. We had been together 15 years and married for almost 12. We’ve been apart for 13 years now. We parted amicably, but it was still very, very painful for me.
Answer: One of the common mistakes I see (and come across, especially in newer dominants) is an almost overbearing expectation of immediate submission from someone they are engaging with, even in the earliest stages. It is an "approach" that I'm not particularly fond of, and can be a red flag to any fledgling submissive (or anyone who may be interested in the dynamic).
Answer: Hmm, I mentioned this in a another thread awhile back (I forgot which one), but someone once asked if they could fuck my elbow crease; it was an interesting experience, and highly ridiculous LOL