Game - private question, public answer

I didn’t get around to this, in part b/c I’ve been dragging a little the last two days, and in part b/c autocorrect made the question a bit tough to parse the first time through.

So. I’m old enough to have been around the Internet during the Live Journal days, and to have been active enough to have made friends there through the comments sections and stuff like that. This would have been probably, I don‘t know, 2005 or 2006. So I was mid 20s and she was a couple years younger.

And we liked each other a good amount. Sure, I was in Ohio and she was in NY, and this was before we had some of the tech advances we have now, but it was cute. So, we’d flirted and joked around, and we sort of had the ‘well, maybe, but we’re broke and it’s not an easy drive, so it’s more of a ‘what if‘ kind of thing.

Anyway, I’m in Florida that summer with some friends. We’re young and stupid, so it’s a drinking bonanza all the way through. That’s literally the entire point. So, this girl and I are texting during the week, and finally, probably due to dual drunkenness, it turns sexual. We’re going back and forth, being increasingly bad, to the point where it needs to be more than teasing and texting. Now, it’s probably 2AM, and I’m sharing a condo with like 4 other guys.

That leaves the balcony. The one that overlooks the parking lot. We had phone sex. For. A. While.

And that, friends, is how I learned I liked phone sex. And being seen. And potentially being watched.
 
Summer, always has been. Tan skin, sundresses, the beach, mood gets better, longer days. Even food tastes better in the summer :D Living in NJ, we have some of the best produce you’ll ever taste, Jersey tomatoes, Jersey corn, blueberries.

It was long ago, I was about 26. I was at a surprise birthday party for my best friend. Her husband had this friend he played baseball with that liked me and I liked him as well. Halfway through the party, I was talking with my friend and who comes walking in the yard but this beautiful man and we locked eyes. My friend said, “Oh I forgot to tell you, I just found out a few minutes ago he was invited.” We chatted throughout the night and when he had to leave, he asked if I would walk out with him. We were talking quietly by his car, and he pulled me to him and gave me the most delicious kiss I’ve ever had, my knees turned to jelly. I only saw him one other time after that. Turned out to be a player, I dodged a bullet.
 
Summer, always has been. Tan skin, sundresses, the beach, mood gets better, longer days. Even food tastes better in the summer :D Living in NJ, we have some of the best produce you’ll ever taste, Jersey tomatoes, Jersey corn, blueberries.

It was long ago, I was about 26. I was at a surprise birthday party for my best friend. Her husband had this friend he played baseball with that liked me and I liked him as well. Halfway through the party, I was talking with my friend and who comes walking in the yard but this beautiful man and we locked eyes. My friend said, “Oh I forgot to tell you, I just found out a few minutes ago he was invited.” We chatted throughout the night and when he had to leave, he asked if I would walk out with him. We were talking quietly by his car, and he pulled me to him and gave me the most delicious kiss I’ve ever had, my knees turned to jelly. I only saw him one other time after that. Turned out to be a player, I dodged a bullet.
Isn't it amazing how often we are actually confronted with the wisdom "be careful what you wish for, you may get it?"
 
Summer, always has been. Tan skin, sundresses, the beach, mood gets better, longer days. Even food tastes better in the summer :D Living in NJ, we have some of the best produce you’ll ever taste, Jersey tomatoes, Jersey corn, blueberries.

It was long ago, I was about 26. I was at a surprise birthday party for my best friend. Her husband had this friend he played baseball with that liked me and I liked him as well. Halfway through the party, I was talking with my friend and who comes walking in the yard but this beautiful man and we locked eyes. My friend said, “Oh I forgot to tell you, I just found out a few minutes ago he was invited.” We chatted throughout the night and when he had to leave, he asked if I would walk out with him. We were talking quietly by his car, and he pulled me to him and gave me the most delicious kiss I’ve ever had, my knees turned to jelly. I only saw him one other time after that. Turned out to be a player, I dodged a bullet.
Great answers and sad for the second one. He lost out on one very special girl
 
Slow burn:
Very purposeful game of cat and mouse that starts well before the clothes come off. Continuous rising of tension with small releases and indulges, eventually leading to a nearly painful plateau and pleading.
 
Answer: I would try to friend them while online, and get to know that private side of them. If it felt right, I'd reveal enough information for us to "find out" we share a circle.
 
Mix.

There's a card game that asks probing questions to get to know each other better

Groundhog's Day as it is one of those light-hearted, silly movies that most can enjoy.
 
When you first start, you are hit by the smell: "what is that" you might think to yourself. But just like anything initially unfamiliar you become accustomed to it.
There are simply so many ways to enjoy it, the tastes, the sounds, the way your body moves... Without someone experienced to guide you, you might find yourself scrambling and missing out on some of the more enjoyable facets, things not often spoken of; but after a few times you just cant wait to get back there all over again. May leave you sore, and half the time you cant understand words being spoken, but theres nothing quite like the flavors.
 
Regardless of the uneasy feeling heights I go there when I need a break from it all. The best time is when there is a thunderstorm. I put up a tarp as a makeshift shelter, but it's too windy that high up and rain comes in from the sides. The woods are thick with trees, and the rocks in this spot are particular welcoming. They form nearly perfect steps for seating. It's there where I sit and stare into the valley. If the moon is full I can see it all, if it's not then it pitch black. Staring into oblivion.
 
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