Game - private question, public answer

[Alexxx90]

I’m up for a question

 

[SpicyBean99]

I would love a question!

 

[Orwellian69]

I'll take one

 

[Alexxx90]

Answer: I’ve always been drawn to user-generated text -based smut and Lit is an amazing resource for that! But it was the forum that prompted me to actually create an account again… I like the playfulness and the old-skool internet vibes, reminds me of a simpler time

 

[Orwellian69]

Great question.

I'm a simple noodle.

I'd get up late, go record shopping, take friends and family for an amazing meal, drinks, etc. I'd just want to spend the day with good people, good music and good food.

 

[SpicyBean99]

Answer: I would really like for there to be a way (this is so unrealistic) to stop bot accounts and catfish accounts. It won’t ever happen and like I say it’s super duper unrealistic, but it would be relieve a shit tonne of stress here for many users. Including those the write stories and have jealous alts that knock down their ratings just to spite them. I also think that specifically just for those that post images of themselves that there should be a way for them to securely and anonymously (again SO unrealistic), have to scan their ID or something that proves identity to stop people using images that don’t belong to them. I want this place to feel more positive and I have to say catfish and bots make the experience less than (at times).

 

[Japansurfer]

Happy to take a question or two

 

[SpicyBean99]

Answer 1: As a user that thrives off intellectual conversations, real user to user engagement and praise from posting pictures when using Lit rather than using Lit to jerk off, I was intrigued to know how other users use this space and whether or not the same things that matter to me, matter to others. Basically testing the waters and figuring out if I should stay here. It opened a really nuanced conversation.

Answer 2: Camden. We wake up super early and I put my favourite playlist on to get ready whilst you have a shower and sort yourself out. We book an uber to the train station, still sleepy eyed and find the first spot for a takeaway coffee. On the way there we listen to some podcasts or read together, people watching and talking. Once we arrive in the city we make our way on the busy (and overstimulating) tube to Camden Town. It’s always super chaotic there, even mid week everything is happening all at once but it’s a part of what makes it so ALIVE! We would wonder through the markets, the record stores, the antiques shops, the clothes pop ups! The food stalls are what I’m really looking forward too, though. It would take us a while to figure out what we want so we get a few different things and share them! We sit by Regents canal eating, away from the bustle of the main road and then spot a man selling a cheap ride on a narrow boat which we of course, take. The rest of the day is spent people watching, ending the evening in a low lit bar drinking incredibly over priced cocktails.

 

[Lost_Writer01]

I’ll play if anyone wants to send me a question while I have an early lunch.

 

[SpicyBean99]

I’ll play if anyone wants to send me a question while I have an early lunch.

Well I asked you and you answered me privately, are you sure you know how to play, Sir.

 

[Lost_Writer01]

Well I asked you and you answered me privately, are you sure you know how to play, Sir.

You didn’t make clear it was in relation to this game. All your fault

 

[SpicyBean99]

You didn’t make clear it was in relation to this game. All your fault

I’m ready for a question which I shall answer in the correct format should someone like to ask me

 

[SpicyBean99]

Answer:

At the beginning, it was mostly about sharing myself and enjoying the attention that came with it. That need hasn’t completely disappeared of course, but it’s not the main draw for me anymore.

I didn’t expect to value the conversations as much as I do… certain interactions, even if they’re brief, have had far more impact than I thought they would.

I think now it’s more about understanding myself better, especially in ways I probably wouldn’t have explored otherwise and I’m still very much in the process of learning new things.

So I’d be pretty annoyed if today was my last day. I don’t feel like I’ve finished getting what I want from this space… yet… and I certainly don’t like leaving things unfinished.

 

[mickyp123]

I’m ready for a question which I shall answer in the correct format should someone like to ask me

Lol, a tis a tad difficult when messages are turned off.

 

[SpicyBean99]

Lol, a tis a tad difficult when messages are turned off.

Oopsieeeee

I’ve changed it heheh

 

[Blueeyes4u100]

Always up for a private question about whatever you want to ask

 

[Japansurfer]

I have a deep rooted fantasy where I go out for a date ….. it starts with a walk in the forest to the local shops where we find a Victoria secret or similar that sells sex toys, having a little shop you select some sexy clothes, nipple rings and remote controlled vibrator. As we leave you run to the bathroom and meet me in the bar a few minutes later.

Passing me your phone I see the app open and a smile on your face….. we spen and hour or so chatting drinking, laughing and controlling. As you get more excited and aroused I play with your toy more and more - until the waitress comes over, sees how flushed you are, makes a comment about are you ok…. Stumbling with your words you mutter some water please. The waitress returns with your water as I ramp up the dildo to make you orgasm right in front of us both. The waitress look at you, then me and says fucking hell that’s hot.

We pay up, go home, you look at me and say ok time for you to pay … strapping me to your bed you then tease me until finally you are riding me. Nails pinching my nipples you pump me until I cum so hard, my dick softens as my cum starts dripping out of your pussy. I think it’s over …
You turn around and move up… your wet dripping pussy on my mouth you order me to make you cum. As I tongue your clit you build up to another orgasm - your juice and my juice mixing together and drip all over my drenched face.

 

[Lipstickdiary]

I'm good for a question

 

[Lipstickdiary]

I've never met anyone in person from Lit, but there are one or two I would if they lived closer

 

[Lipstickdiary]

Dominican Republic, sun, sand and lots of cute guys

 

[Lipstickdiary]

Yes, a few times and I absolutely love it

 

[Lost_Writer01]

Here’s my answer to what is basically three questions in one.

The kind of dynamic that I seek is centred on trust and care. It’s about giving a lot in some ways and getting a lot in return in other ways. That means getting to know someone - really getting to know them - which can be intense. Rules and structure come with that, along with consequences and plenty of fun.
I have high expectations, particularly about honesty and someone being who they really are - good and bad parts. So that is what I would demand if it got to that stage. Be who we really are as that is the only way a proper dynamic can work and nourish.

Oh, my favourite colour is orange

 

[SpicyBean99]

Answer 1: Well…my Spotify wrapped told me that my listening age was 70, so if that’s enough to go by… yes .

Answer 2: Fantastic question and also incredibly hard to answer in a short format, I think I could write an entire dissertation on this topic. I also believe that everyone perceives souls mates differently… the answer would reflect their life experiences, where they are in the world, social conditioning, their environment. For me I don’t think we have one specific soul mate, I think they come in different forms at different times, sexually or platonically. For me personally, I think the idea and labelling of a soulmate is something people use to make sense of unusually strong or meaningful connections built over a long time.

The “purpose,” if there is one, is that they help to accelerate your self-awareness, reshape expectations… maybe even force you to confront parts of yourself you’d otherwise avoid. That can feel “rare” enough that people label it as something special or “fated”, even.

I’ve met people I thought were my “soul mates” before. And they never were. It’s such a good question!

 

[Lipstickdiary]

I've been known to do it a lot.

 

[Lipstickdiary]

Everything leads to dirty lol