Game - private question, public answer

[SusanHoward]

One evening I stopped by The House to pick up my rain jacket, when I noticed several guys were in the semi-private boardroom that had official photographs of myself and the fraternity officers on the wall. As I got closer I saw on the conference table several other up skirt pictures of me obviously but unknowingly taken at the Grand Staircase. I remember the brothers around the table were all stroking with some calling out my name.

I don’t think anyone saw me there, but I always wondered if that was what you guys call a "circle jerk"?

 

[SpicyBean99]

I know I’ve answered quite a few but if anyone wants to throw any random questions at me I’m all ears

 

[CJamarous]

Answer 1: Well…my Spotify wrapped told me that my listening age was 70, so if that’s enough to go by… yes .

Answer 2: Fantastic question and also incredibly hard to answer in a short format, I think I could write an entire dissertation on this topic. I also believe that everyone perceives souls mates differently… the answer would reflect their life experiences, where they are in the world, social conditioning, their environment. For me I don’t think we have one specific soul mate, I think they come in different forms at different times, sexually or platonically. For me personally, I think the idea and labelling of a soulmate is something people use to make sense of unusually strong or meaningful connections built over a long time.

The “purpose,” if there is one, is that they help to accelerate your self-awareness, reshape expectations… maybe even force you to confront parts of yourself you’d otherwise avoid. That can feel “rare” enough that people label it as something special or “fated”, even.

I’ve met people I thought were my “soul mates” before. And they never were. It’s such a good question!

Didn't ask the question which prompted your response here (thank you to whoever did) but I couldn't have explained this better myself! Especially regarding your take on soul mates....really hits home! Very insightful, Ma'am!

 

[cocokittysurprise]

I'm down to clown. Ask away!

 

[Catepillar_glacier]

Sure, I’m up for a question.

 

[SpicyBean99]

Answer 1: South east Asia. Backpacking and also breaks from the hustle and bustle in small remote villas.

Answer 2: I have given not received. (opposite sex.)

Answer 3: one of my best friends has both a vore fetish and a foot fetish. He requested I write the story for him!

Answer 4: To be entirely under the submission and control of a Dom, giving myself over to my “master.” (Something I have never had the chance to experience in its most “abundant” form? (Weird wording, sorry.)

 

[Qky75]

Ok...let 'er rip

 

[Orwellian69]

I'll take another if anyone is in the mood.

 

[Japansurfer]

Answer 1: South east Asia. Backpacking and also breaks from the hustle and bustle in small remote villas.

Answer 2: I have given not received. (opposite sex.)

Answer 3: one of my best friends has both a vore fetish and a foot fetish. He requested I write the story for him!

Answer 4: To be entirely under the submission and control of a Dom, giving myself over to my “master.” (Something I have never had the chance to experience in its most “abundant” form? (Weird wording, sorry.)

Can only guess the questions.
Answer 4… is hot as fuck. Also a little fantasy of mine - had a light dom in the past but was nowhere near complete submission - not sure I can completely do that if I’m honest

 

[PageWriter2]

I’ll give it a go.

 

[Qky75]

1. I want to be alone with her listening to the rain outside and buried under a mountain of blankets and just explore and play the entire day away.

2. I can be incredibly intuitive and often have a deep internal dialogue with myself. It has both gotten me into trouble and served me well at different times.

3. A "green flag" for me would be interpersonal engagement. I want to be seen and give/take.

The biggest red flag for me is the "emotional vampire" ...always in crisis, always a worse experience than you, never accepting a solution or growth.

 

[Catepillar_glacier]

1. Maldives. I would do a combination of exploring, and absolutely nothing. Someone funny, kind, patient, and strong, with an exquisitely functioning dick.

2. A fwb of a few months. We had been at it all night. I was in his lap while he was sitting up against the headboard. From my toes to my nose, every part of our bodies were in contact with one another. We were spent and sweaty, so it was slow and deep. Something about having gotten the frenetic fucking out of the way led to the best orgasm. It was the first time sex ever brought me to tears.

 

[cocokittysurprise]

Answer: This is a boring answer, but my skincare routine. I like taking the time to pamper myself, so if I have to rush through it, it makes for a sad Coco.

 

[cocokittysurprise]

Answer: You cheeky bugger...... but yes, there is

 

[cocokittysurprise]

Answer: There isn't one thing or experience I can single out, because my method of approach is tailored to the person it's targeted towards and they are all rewarding. Some preferred a bit of sternness while speaking to them, while others preferred a more playful approach. A few would deliberately act in a way to provoke that "meanness" in me. I generally knew when they would do it, and depending on my mood, I'd either play along with it, or withhold it as a punishment, because I knew they were attempting to elicit a specific response.

My gratification comes from their trust in me to wield that power over them. I can make them whine/cum from a few strategically placed words; seeing their desperation is the reward.

 

[RDM97756]

I have been in a very struggling marriage, due to personal upbringing and beliefs i have always said divorce is non negotiable… the last couple years have changed my view on that, and i am working (slowly) to change my status.

 

[cocokittysurprise]

Answer: I'm not sure I agree with the premise, and part of it depends on what you mean by "changes". If you mean people tend to make accommodations in their relationships, sure, but that's for any kind of relationship, platonic or not. People do it for friends, parents, etc. all the time. I don't necessarily agree that those changes force someone to "become someone they are not".

I don't like bars, but I will occasionally go to one with friends because they enjoy that environment. That is a small concession I make for the sake of friendship; it doesn't fundamentally change who I am or how I typically behave in any significant way.

 

[PageWriter2]

Answer: The feeling being hated by anyone. Hate is vile emotion.

 

[Winchester3030]

I’d take a question and give an honest answer

 

[CJamarous]

Answer: There are a few things that fall into this response. As I rarely have true time to myself these days, I wish I had more time for these things that follow.

First, and something many people have always thought was weird, is going to see a movie by myself. One of my biggest pet peeves, especially when watching a movie for the first time, is when people aren't paying attention, asking questions, screwing around, etc. I really appreciate character development, slow but deliberate storytelling, the fine details lost if you miss a single line. So it always annoyed me when my friends in high-school wouldn't shut the fuck up during a movie. So I started going alone and I found I enjoyed the movies so much more. Unfortunately, I haven't had the opportunity to go to a movie by myself in probably 10 years or more.

In this phase of life, I like the little things when I have time to myself. I love being able to just sit and drink my hot cup of coffee out on the deck and watch and listen to the birds and ponder anything and everything. I enjoy those quiet moments alone. I relish in sitting in front of a fire (fireplace or campfire) in silence with a cup of coffee or glass of red wine.

Another very important thing I do by myself which is necessary to keeping my sanity and is like therapy for me, is hunting. While I do some hunting with my Dad and my Brother and will eventually do so with my kids, there is still something soothing to the soul and cleansing about being out in the woods, alone, experiencing everything the trees, the animals and the wind have to offer. Taking it all in. Processing it all. Admiring it all. Thinking about all the things that have ever happened in whatever spot I'm sitting in since the beginning of time. Regardless of whether or not I leave the woods with a harvest, its still a win. A harvest is not expected, but earned and appreciated. The reward is being able to spend time in the natural world and relishing in all it's amazing complexity, simplicity and beauty.

One more thing I thought was warranted in mentioning also, since this is Lit, is simply having time to relieve, explore and discuss all the sexual interests, urges, and needs that I do not have the opportunities to in my RL. It's unfortunate, but its the reality at this point in my life. Lit is currently a nice outlet for me when I have time to myself.

Thanks for the question!

 

[Wisconsin1965]

Answer: There are a few things that fall into this response.

First, and something many people have always thought was weird, is going to see a movie by myself. One of my biggest pet peeves, especially when watching a movie for the first time, is when people aren't paying attention, asking questions, screwing around, etc. I really appreciate character development, slow but deliberate storytelling, the fine details lost if you miss a single line. So it always annoyed me when my friends in high-school wouldn't shut the fuck up during a movie. So I started going alone and I found I enjoyed the movies so much more. Unfortunately, I haven't had the opportunity to go to a movie by myself in probably 10 years or more.

In this phase of life, I like the little things when I have time to myself. I love being able to just sit and drink my hot cup of coffee out on the deck and watch and listen to the birds and ponder anything and everything. I enjoy those quiet moments alone. I relish in sitting in front of a fire (fireplace or campfire) in silence with a cup of coffee or glass of red wine.

Another very important thing I do by myself which is necessary to keeping my sanity and is like therapy for me, is hunting. While I do some hunting with my Dad and my Brother and will eventually do with my kids, there is still something soothing to the soul and cleansing about being out in the woods, alone, experiencing everything the trees, the animals and the wind have to offer. Taking it all in. Processing it all. Admiring it all. Thinking about all the things that have ever happened in whatever spot I'm sitting in since the beginning of time. Regardless of whether or not I leave the woods with a harvest, its still a win. A harvest is not expected, but earned and appreciated. The reward is being able to spend time in the natural world and relishing in it's complexity, it's simplicity and its beauty.

One more thing I thought was warranted in mentioning also, since this is Lit, is simply having time to relieve, explore and discuss all the sexual interests, urges, and needs that I do not have the opportunities to in my RL. It's unfortunate, but its the reality at this point in my life. Lit is currently a nice outlet for me when I have time to myself.

Thanks for the question!

Awesome response. Agree

 

[jeff_is_smiling]

I'd appreciate a question or two...

 

[base10]

Game for a question

 

[F1rmHanded]

I'll open for a question.

 

[Blueeyes4u100]

Yes, there have been a few that I have met here inlit that I developed a trust with to talk outside lit with. I am here to play but also enjoy getting to know others and develop a lasting friendship to whatever naughty or platonic level it leads to

Just looking to have fun and goal if to make others smile.