Game - private question, public answer

[RDM97756]

I have been in a very struggling marriage, due to personal upbringing and beliefs i have always said divorce is non negotiable… the last couple years have changed my view on that, and i am working (slowly) to change my status.

 

[cocokittysurprise]

Answer: I'm not sure I agree with the premise, and part of it depends on what you mean by "changes". If you mean people tend to make accommodations in their relationships, sure, but that's for any kind of relationship, platonic or not. People do it for friends, parents, etc. all the time. I don't necessarily agree that those changes force someone to "become someone they are not".

I don't like bars, but I will occasionally go to one with friends because they enjoy that environment. That is a small concession I make for the sake of friendship; it doesn't fundamentally change who I am or how I typically behave in any significant way.

 

[PageWriter2]

Answer: The feeling being hated by anyone. Hate is vile emotion.

 

[Winchester3030]

I’d take a question and give an honest answer

 

[CJamarous]

Answer: There are a few things that fall into this response. As I rarely have true time to myself these days, I wish I had more time for these things that follow.

First, and something many people have always thought was weird, is going to see a movie by myself. One of my biggest pet peeves, especially when watching a movie for the first time, is when people aren't paying attention, asking questions, screwing around, etc. I really appreciate character development, slow but deliberate storytelling, the fine details lost if you miss a single line. So it always annoyed me when my friends in high-school wouldn't shut the fuck up during a movie. So I started going alone and I found I enjoyed the movies so much more. Unfortunately, I haven't had the opportunity to go to a movie by myself in probably 10 years or more.

In this phase of life, I like the little things when I have time to myself. I love being able to just sit and drink my hot cup of coffee out on the deck and watch and listen to the birds and ponder anything and everything. I enjoy those quiet moments alone. I relish in sitting in front of a fire (fireplace or campfire) in silence with a cup of coffee or glass of red wine.

Another very important thing I do by myself which is necessary to keeping my sanity and is like therapy for me, is hunting. While I do some hunting with my Dad and my Brother and will eventually do so with my kids, there is still something soothing to the soul and cleansing about being out in the woods, alone, experiencing everything the trees, the animals and the wind have to offer. Taking it all in. Processing it all. Admiring it all. Thinking about all the things that have ever happened in whatever spot I'm sitting in since the beginning of time. Regardless of whether or not I leave the woods with a harvest, its still a win. A harvest is not expected, but earned and appreciated. The reward is being able to spend time in the natural world and relishing in all it's amazing complexity, simplicity and beauty.

One more thing I thought was warranted in mentioning also, since this is Lit, is simply having time to relieve, explore and discuss all the sexual interests, urges, and needs that I do not have the opportunities to in my RL. It's unfortunate, but its the reality at this point in my life. Lit is currently a nice outlet for me when I have time to myself.

Thanks for the question!

 

[Wisconsin1965]

Answer: There are a few things that fall into this response.

First, and something many people have always thought was weird, is going to see a movie by myself. One of my biggest pet peeves, especially when watching a movie for the first time, is when people aren't paying attention, asking questions, screwing around, etc. I really appreciate character development, slow but deliberate storytelling, the fine details lost if you miss a single line. So it always annoyed me when my friends in high-school wouldn't shut the fuck up during a movie. So I started going alone and I found I enjoyed the movies so much more. Unfortunately, I haven't had the opportunity to go to a movie by myself in probably 10 years or more.

In this phase of life, I like the little things when I have time to myself. I love being able to just sit and drink my hot cup of coffee out on the deck and watch and listen to the birds and ponder anything and everything. I enjoy those quiet moments alone. I relish in sitting in front of a fire (fireplace or campfire) in silence with a cup of coffee or glass of red wine.

Another very important thing I do by myself which is necessary to keeping my sanity and is like therapy for me, is hunting. While I do some hunting with my Dad and my Brother and will eventually do with my kids, there is still something soothing to the soul and cleansing about being out in the woods, alone, experiencing everything the trees, the animals and the wind have to offer. Taking it all in. Processing it all. Admiring it all. Thinking about all the things that have ever happened in whatever spot I'm sitting in since the beginning of time. Regardless of whether or not I leave the woods with a harvest, its still a win. A harvest is not expected, but earned and appreciated. The reward is being able to spend time in the natural world and relishing in it's complexity, it's simplicity and its beauty.

One more thing I thought was warranted in mentioning also, since this is Lit, is simply having time to relieve, explore and discuss all the sexual interests, urges, and needs that I do not have the opportunities to in my RL. It's unfortunate, but its the reality at this point in my life. Lit is currently a nice outlet for me when I have time to myself.

Thanks for the question!

Awesome response. Agree

 

[jeff_is_smiling]

I'd appreciate a question or two...

 

[base10]

Game for a question

 

[F1rmHanded]

I'll open for a question.

 

[Blueeyes4u100]

Yes, there have been a few that I have met here inlit that I developed a trust with to talk outside lit with. I am here to play but also enjoy getting to know others and develop a lasting friendship to whatever naughty or platonic level it leads to

Just looking to have fun and goal if to make others smile.

 

[jizzyjizzy]

i'll take some questions please

 

[Beardedthrow]

Might as well pop a pm cherry. Haven’t been here in over a decade. Would love to have a question

 

[jeff_is_smiling]

If you're interested in knowing something about me, just ask...

 

[rick_j21]

I am game

 

[CJamarous]

Go ahead, shoot!

 

[jizzyjizzy]

i have practiced before, often by my own initiative but there were also times a dominant partner left me in the corner or somewhere else to practice

 

[jizzyjizzy]

yes i have cleaned up in that way before, and i very much enjoy doing it. the thought of it does make me wet

 

[jizzyjizzy]

when the dynamic and situation calls for it i thank them. of course. it is what good girls do.

 

[Tom197738]

I would like a question or two. TIA

 

[bellakinky]

Open to a question..

 

[keenreplayer]

I am ready. go!

 

[jizzyjizzy]

yes, I have been in relationships where my control/denial was a part of our dynamic. i enjoyed it much more than i thought i would, and i very much enjoyed how it affected my mind and way of thinking, how it made me be a better submissive partner for it.

 

[jizzyjizzy]

given the chance to wear a chastity belt on a first date with the key at home, i would agree to do it. there is something very erotic about submitting and being controlled like that from the very start

 

[jizzyjizzy]

in certain relationships i accept that the decision over whether i cum or not should not be up to me. i think my ideal relationship would be one where i do not make that decision.

 

[jizzyjizzy]

it would be more frustrating to have almost no orgasms but i feel my proper place with a Dominant is that i do not have any orgasms. i accept my place. the appropriate ratio of Dom to sub orgasms depends on the people and the dynamic.