Game - private question, public answer

[Magesthicc]

I've always been very straightforward when telling someone I'm attracted to them.

If I had to show it without saying it I'd change my usual expression () and smile more when I talk to her (), I'd ask questions to find out what she likes and dislikes, and I'd leave a treat for her to discover when she arrives. I'd show interest in the things she likes to read or watch so we could talk more. And I would always look her in the eyes whenever I talk to her; they can say so much without a sound.

On Lit is....different, we have only words, and sometimes we can use audio records, but that also implies the use of words forming sentences. If I want to show interest without saying "I like you", the "showing" gets complicated.

 

[Ratchetman1982]

So, I wouldn't really change anything. I'm not huge in looking backwards. I wouldn't be right where I am if I had done something different

 

[cocokittysurprise]

Answer: Hoo boy, I've had people assume numerous things: that I'm ditzy, mean, conceited/stuck up, etc. I had someone tell me that they thought I would be a bitch (until they got to know me), which is crazy because this was a perception they had about me without knowing me. I've had people question how I got my job

People make plenty of assumptions about me because of the way I look, my interests, etc. I generally let it roll off my back, but it does suck when people who don't even know you make snap judgements about you or your personality.

 

[cocokittysurprise]

Answer: Intellectual stimulation. I'm a nerd (particularly a science/space nerd), so I love having conversations about new discoveries or "what-ifs"; a person that can keep up and also engage in those types of conversation in terms of their own special interests makes my radar ping.

I love seeing someone ramble on about their love of botany or their interest in a niche topic (I follow a guy on social media that only talks about the history of menswear, and it is fascinating). I also love a good debate; someone that can argue their point on a given topic and make me see their point of view, even if I don't agree with it, makes my brain happy.

 

[bobbykialla]

Answer : The most interesting also became the weirdest, I worked for an international company doing business development across central Europe and sub Saharan Africa. I traveled to amazing places, did interesting work that would never be repeated or even needed now, but some of the situations I found myself in were odd, dangerous, absurd or just plain...weird...much fodder for writing in those years.

 

[cocokittysurprise]

Answer: Hoo boy x 2
I had someone ask me if they could tell me about their obsession with their BBW mother (why they singled me out for this, I have no clue). I've had someone ask me if I could clamp their balls in a vice. I've had someone ask me if they could take pictures of the creases of my elbow and knee so they could cum to them

All that to say, people are weird LOL

 

[vibes]

@cocokittysurprise , if I may, your answers are so good and fun to read ... it seems almost impossible that there are litsters who can come up with such intelligent questions

 

[RDM97756]

I am down for some questions today!

 

[cocokittysurprise]

@cocokittysurprise , if I may, your answers are so good and fun to read ... it seems almost impossible that there are litsters who can come up with such intelligent questions

I've gotten lucky this go round; the questions have been so good!
I hope my questions to others have been even half as interesting.

 

[bobbykialla]

Answer : A good tease is such an individual thing, once i know what pushes someones edgy buttons its all about moving from the power of suggesting that that is building, all the way to the desired mix of denial, tie and tease, or just making them listen without being able to do anything about it....teasing is such fun..

 

[Magesthicc]

Answer:
In a friendship: realizing (I usually suspect it but find it hard to accept) that I'm being used, that I'm always the one who has to reach out, that people talk behind my back without having enough trust to tell me to my face.

In a relationship: if it's serious, it should be something I can't recover from—abuse, violence, abandonment (physical and mental)—and only that after having tried everything to save it.

I'm stubborn and find it hard to accept that I've failed at something.

 

[Mewalkabout]

I'm down for one

 

[Zumbamami_69]

Answer: The sexiest thing anyone has ever said to me… honestly, I don’t know. I don’t think it has happened, yet.

Since, I do not see myself as particularly “sexy,” it is a pleasant surprise if someone finds me physically attractive – not to mention, sexy. I have no problem accepting compliments about my intellect, quick wit and sarcastic/snarky quips, but hearing compliments about my appearance (other than “you look cute”) makes me break out in hives.

My reality is that I’ve become accustomed to being “invisible.” If someone thought I was sexy – and wanted me to know - they would have to be staring me directly in the face for me to believe them.

As for the situation, along the same lines: that he would understand me (and my deeply ingrained insecurities). So, he would do little things every day to let me know he cared, and was continuing to choose me – over the real sexy women.​

 

[cocokittysurprise]

Answer: I can't think of anything off the top of my head. If it's causing a sexual response in me, then in my mind it is not a "non-sexual" activity. I mean, a lot of people don't view being tied up as sexual in nature, but it can cause sexual arousal in others, which makes it a sexual activity for them.

When I wear "sexy" clothes, it typically isn't for me, it's for my subs (or significant other). If I'm in the mood to be turned on, I'm explicitly doing sexual* things to myself to get there.

*in my mind

 

[bobbykialla]

Answer: the most moving and satisfying compliment is a genuine 'thank you' for the trust to take someone into a new space and let them freely and openly enjoy themselves. so often that is subspace

 

[cocokittysurprise]

Answer: My parents, of course, but my grandparents had a major influence on my perspective and approach to life.

Immigrants that forged a successful life for themselves here. Passed on the ethics of working hard, going after what you want, taking a stand when necessary, and treating others with kindness without being a pushover, even when that kindness may not be reciprocated.

 

[Magesthicc]

Answer:
I had the opportunity to visit the land where my family came from, to learn about their origins, the kind of life they led, and the hardships they faced.

I was invited to eat at the homes of strangers, and they showed me their favorite places and customs that are still alive in my country. I experienced them firsthand.

It was an unplanned trip; I was too young to fully appreciate the opportunity.

On a personal level, it was one of my best decisions.

 

[cocokittysurprise]

Answer:
I had the opportunity to visit the land where my family came from, to learn about their origins, the kind of life they led, and the hardships they faced.

I was invited to eat at the homes of strangers, and they showed me their favorite places and customs that are still alive in my country. I experienced them firsthand.

It was an unplanned trip; I was too young to fully appreciate the opportunity.

On a personal level, it was one of my best decisions.

Isn't that always the case? Alas, youth is wasted on the young LOL

 

[fun_tracy]

Yes, I’d love to see him with another woman. As long as I’m there watching and not viewing from afar

 

[fun_tracy]

A couple of months ago, actually. I’d gone out on my own one evening, just for a walk, and ended up drifting off the main path into the woods. I wasn’t planning anything, but I found myself standing still and listening, then slowly realising how much I liked the idea of someone stumbling across me.


I surprised myself by how calm I stayed when I decided to stay where I was instead of turning back. My heart was racing, but there was this quiet little thrill underneath it that I hadn’t expected. I didn’t do anything dramatic—just stood there a while, letting the thought settle. It made me realise how much I still enjoy that edge of being seen, or nearly being seen, even now. I walked home afterwards feeling a bit breathless and more than a little pleased with myself

 

[LadyLascivious1]

I’m up for one

 

[cocokittysurprise]

Answer: This was a difficult question, so I'm going to say something "trite" like end world hunger. Typically, I would not want to make a change that could potentially affect others negatively, so I'll also say "I win a billion dollars" LOL

 

[LadyLascivious1]

Answer: I really wouldn’t change anything because I’m very happy with my life, but if I was “forced” I would get my dad to the hospital before his stroke. Aside from missing one of the best humans I’ve had the privilege to know, his death set a series of sad events in motion that have reverberated for almost a decade.

 

[Trubbycat]

Put me in, coach

 

[LadyLascivious1]

Answer: My answer is the same for both. I’m very confident in my capabilities and accomplishments professionally, but I’m a recovering perfectionist. For me that translates to never feeling fully confident that I’m doing my best. There’s always something new to learn or a different, out of the box thinking that would make me more effective.