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Harastal
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LotRO has inbuilt voice chat in game, and quite a good one too. People use it a lot and seriously you cant do lot of complicated group stuff without voice, typing is not an option lot of times.
I was surprised when I found out my GM in LotRO was a woman, she mostly used her male character. On the other hand her husband had all female toons. We had more than few chuckles with unsuspecting people trying to hit on him![]()
Yeah, that's more my experience. People hit on my husband all the time and call me "Sir" respectfully enough that it's really all about selling an image and nobody questions it. I guess the point is more that you really can only tell the bad roleplayers, and you wouldn't suspect the good ones.
I don't use voice chat, bumps me straight out of any roleplay I'm trying to do. I have negative interest in raiding or gear. I'm there for immersion. Nothing for me is less immersive or more irritating than rolling for gear. So I guess I'm just in a much more gender-ambiguous (if not irrelevant) place. But when the gender of the actual player has become known, I've been surprised enough times to really never assume. Although jokingly I've made up a rule. If you try to call me "sis" - you're probably a guy. Who talks like that?
I think the folks that are the loudest or most obnoxious about cyber or gear or riding other people in game just aren't there for the same reasons I'm there, so we rarely cross paths (other than me putting them on ignore) or get into any depth about anything.
Also, if that's their main interest in the game, I think it would be unfair for me to expect backstory or character development or staying in character, so we just won't have anything in common. But of those people that do value backstory or roleplay ability or capacity, I've found incredibly talented people, male and female.

her.