Gay, Bisexual or Straight?

[Luna_Wolf72]

That's only because they didn't have a "Slut" category!

ACK!!!!

*runs after the woman to beat her ass!!*

 

[SweetCherry]

I choose queer because I can't say I'm bi or lesbian. I've slept with a lot of men in the past. At the time, it was entertaining and I enjoyed myself. But now...I've got an awesome girlfriend and don't care to touch the "outtie bits". Whatever that means...dunno, don't care. I kinda like me as I am, and that's all that matters.

And...after saying all that...I enjoy good gay porn, as well as gay male romance. Don't care too much for hetero smut/porn. But boys kissing...yum!!

 

[bidaddy]

In our society as it is today, if a man sucks another man’s cock, is he automatically considered to be gay or bisexual in every case?

Example: If a husband and wife as a fantasy wanted to experience a MMF sexual encounter, and as part of their fantasy, she wanted to see her husband suck another man’s cock to completion. And to fulfill his wife’s fantasy, the husband sucked another man’s cock to completion without any emotional or sexual attachment to the man: in our society, would the husband be thought of as gay, bisexual or straight.

In other words, are there certain circumstances in our society where a man could engage in homosexual sex, and still be considered straight?

I can only speek as to where i live. Here in the midwest the majority would consider it gay and that is because to them it is more black and white. if you are a guy and suck a dick you are thought of as gay if you dont then you are not. I think it is because of church teachings. so us bi guys do not exist in there eyes. thats not saying if you look around long enough that you cant find people that dont have there head in the sand and see the distinction between gay straight and bi. these are the people i hang with because they are the cool people...Yea!!

 

[MoleskineScribbler]

Bi, though at the moment it's more fantasy than reality.

 

[beachtime]

which?

I remember a comedian said 30 or more years ago;

I have been eating pussy all my life and no one siad anything. But then I sucked one cock and now I am a cock sucker.

And thats the way it is.

 

[Cycle Tom]

I'm Bi curious...never been with another man, but it makes me hard to think about it.

 

[coastguy1]

I answered straight because I don't think it is necessary to classify someone who sucked a cock once, for his wife, as bi or straight. It really depends on how the guy feels. He may identify later as bisexual because he quite enjoyed it and would like to do it again or he may feel no different to how he did before, will to experiment to please his wife but no attraction to men.
In reality thought I think he would most likely to be bi and in denial. Afterall, once you've wrapped your lips around another guys hard cock, how could you not want to do it again? YUM!

 

[chelseabi]

Why do we need labels, we enjoy what we enjoy, do we really need to have names for it, a gay man, can if he wishes have sex with a woman does this make him straight?

Doesn't the term bisexual really apply to us all, we all have had fantasies if not done the act, we all wonder "what if" at some time and those that do get labeled why?

Surely it doesn't matter

As for me, I'm a straight, bi, gay guy who likes it all, just depends on the mood, opportunity and the partner.

Like being an omnivore rather than pure caniviore or veggie

 

[lustatopia]

In our society as it is today, if a man sucks another man’s cock, is he automatically considered to be gay or bisexual in every case?

If you're sucking cock you are a cocksucker, at least during the act. Later you might honestly say, "I have sucked cock, but I am no longer going to suck cock." Just as people who drink wine are wine-drinkers and many people who have drunk wine can honestly claim not to be wine drinkers. What they can longer ever claim again is that they have never drunk wine! And that's the important point here.

Guys sucking dick for whatever reason is queer sex. A guy who sucks dick for the first time, even in secret, has changed his total sexual life experience in an important way that can never be undone. But maybe not his sexual identity.

Of course, a guy could suck cock for all sorts of reasons and even derive pleasure from it and then decide for whatever reason to retain his straight sexual identity. But he could never again honestly claim he had not experienced homosexual sex.

In fact, studies show that about 50% of American men have engaged in some kind of homosexual pleasure at some point in their lives yet the number of men who identify as bi or gay is much lower than that.

The point is that only YOU choose your sexual identity and that identity is flexible and changeable no matter what your sexual history.

 

[leelo_blue]

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[vrosej10]

In our society as it is today, if a man sucks another man’s cock, is he automatically considered to be gay or bisexual in every case?

Example: If a husband and wife as a fantasy wanted to experience a MMF sexual encounter, and as part of their fantasy, she wanted to see her husband suck another man’s cock to completion. And to fulfill his wife’s fantasy, the husband sucked another man’s cock to completion without any emotional or sexual attachment to the man: in our society, would the husband be thought of as gay, bisexual or straight.

In other words, are there certain circumstances in our society where a man could engage in homosexual sex, and still be considered straight?

His orientation is what he says it is. Labeling him bi or gay from a single act follows the same line of stupidity as saying your can't be gay and a virgin. Orientation is in your head.