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[MissTaken]

Are we talking about biking?

 

[Cheyenne]

*streaking through the thread again...*

 

[MissTaken]

Streaking???

Do you know what could happen to nekkid flesh exposed in this arena?

Oh, for shame!

 

[Cheyenne]

But I'm running fast and all you people tied up over here don't have a chance at catching me.

 

[MissTaken]

Ah, but some of us gave up on being tied up a while back.

 

[P. B. Walker]

Are we talking about biking?

uhhh no

 

[Cleopatra]

But I'm running fast and all you people tied up over here don't have a chance at catching me.

*snicker*

You go, Cheyenne.

 

[FungiUg]

I'm only just starting to get to know the GB people... some interesting people. Not sure I particularly need to see them here, since they are fine in their own environment. Of course, if we were talking about wanting to see some of them over my knee begging to be spanked, that's an ENTIRELY different story!

 

[Cheyenne]

I'm only just starting to get to know the GB people... some interesting people. Not sure I particularly need to see them here, since they are fine in their own environment. Of course, if we were talking about wanting to see some of them over my knee begging to be spanked, that's an ENTIRELY different story!

Nah, I certainly wouldn't be in that group. And you're right, I generally do stay in the GB environment as you people speak a different language over here, one I don't usually understand. That's okay, too. Just because I can't understand someone wanting to be hit doesn't mean it isn't the right thing for someone else.

 

[A Desert Rose]

Nah, I certainly wouldn't be in that group. And you're right, I generally do stay in the GB environment as you people speak a different language over here, one I don't usually understand. That's okay, too. Just because I can't understand someone wanting to be hit doesn't mean it isn't the right thing for someone else.

"wanting to be hit"... LOL. You make me laugh.

Personally, I just don't have the thick skin for the GB. Many people there are simply mean and unkind. Even those of us who want to beat or be beaten, are more gentle with our words and opinions here. ;-D

There is of course, an exception or 2 who are not very nice but by and large, there is much less unkindness here.

 

[Cheyenne]

"wanting to be hit"... LOL. You make me laugh.

Shhhhhhh, don't give away my secrets for starting "discussions."

 

[A Desert Rose]

Shhhhhhh, don't give away my secrets for starting "discussions."

Discussion, you're thinking?

Okay. For most of us it's not about want as much as it is about need ... ;-)

 

[Cheyenne]

Discussion, you're thinking?

Okay. For most of us it's not about want as much as it is about need ... ;-)

There's a difference? You don't want what you need and need what you want?

 

[A Desert Rose]

There's a difference? You don't want what you need and need what you want?

Oh fuck me... you're trying to confuse me now LOL I can tell. I'm quick like that.

 

[Cheyenne]

Oh fuck me... you're trying to confuse me now LOL I can tell. I'm quick like that.

Not guilty, this time. I'm genuinely curious. Do you NEED to be hit but not WANT to be hit?

 

[A Desert Rose]

Not guilty, this time. I'm genuinely curious. Do you NEED to be hit but not WANT to be hit?

Seriously, for me it's a NEED that I WANT to have fulfilled. (And hitting is not really what I personally crave. Some do. I like spankings best, I am not into being beat or hit. I don't mind a belt on occassion, however.)

I'm kind of the lite version of perversion... hey, that would make a great title, dontcha think? Maybe I can write a poem...

;-D

 

[Cheyenne]

Seriously, for me it's a NEED that I WANT to have fulfilled. (And hitting is not really what I personally crave. Some do. I like spankings best, I am not into being beat or hit. I don't mind a belt on occassion, however.)

I'm kind of the lite version of perversion... hey, that would make a great title, dontcha think? Maybe I can write a poem...

;-D

See, there's a difference right there. Spanking IS hitting in my definitions for life. Again, while I'll never understand the actual NEED because I don't have it, I do understand that others need (and want) such things.

I was just curious based on the way the discussion was going if something like spanking/hitting was considered a NEED but not something that was really wanted by some people. Not sure if that makes sense or not, but I hadn't considered before that it could be a NEED but NOT something that was wanted. And now I'm talking in circles. See what you did to me?

 

[A Desert Rose]

See, there's a difference right there. Spanking IS hitting in my definitions for life. Again, while I'll never understand the actual NEED because I don't have it, I do understand that others need (and want) such things.

I was just curious based on the way the discussion was going if something like spanking/hitting was considered a NEED but not something that was really wanted by some people. Not sure if that makes sense or not, but I hadn't considered before that it could be a NEED but NOT something that was wanted. And now I'm talking in circles. See what you did to me?

I love circular conversations. LOL

I can live without having my needs unfulfilled. Is it pleasant? Am I happy? The short answer is NO.

I WANT them fulfilled because I NEED them to make my sex life more satisfying. And if my sex life is better, then the other areas of my life are better, too.

 

[Cheyenne]

I WANT them fulfilled because I NEED them to make my sex life more satisfying. And if my sex life is better, then the other areas of my life are better, too.

I got that part. But are there bdsm people who NEED but don't WANT?

Time for work for me- later, gator.

 

[morninggirl5]

I'm gonna jump in the middle and answer the original question....


There are several people from the GB that i would like to see post here more often. Several of them did post here frequently when the board was first here.


On the other hand, there are several people from the GB that i hope never manage to find their way here and a couple of people that i wish would forget how to find this side of the board.





Cheyenne, i'm gonna think on your question for a while (give me something to do during my conference later this week) and come back with an answer.

 

[A Desert Rose]

I'm gonna jump in the middle and answer the original question....

On the other hand, there are several people from the GB that i hope never manage to find their way here and a couple of people that i wish would forget how to find this side of the board...

I couldn't agree with you more on this point. It's most definately a tougher crowd there and I'm not up to that level of meanness. I haven't forgotten some of the classless insults I got there and I'm sure I won't be forgetting them any time soon.

 

[Cheyenne]

Cheyenne, i'm gonna think on your question for a while (give me something to do during my conference later this week) and come back with an answer.

I thought about it more while driving to work this morning. I don't want to insult anyone here, but the first thing that came to mind as an example was a pedophile. He/she NEEDS kids, but maybe doesn't WANT to need kids. Does that make sense?

And no, I'm not equating bdsm with being a pedo so don't anyone get their undies in a bunch, please.

 

[MissTaken]

I thought about it more while driving to work this morning. I don't want to insult anyone here, but the first thing that came to mind as an example was a pedophile. He/she NEEDS kids, but maybe doesn't WANT to need kids. Does that make sense?

And no, I'm not equating bdsm with being a pedo so don't anyone get their undies in a bunch, please.

Not quite.

Think outside of a sexual context.

I NEED chocolate, rich, dark chocolate at certain times of the month. I will do whatever I have to in order to get that chocolate and if I can't, I don't sleep well and am anxious until I have it.

Now, I know I shouldn't have it. Chocolate isn't good for me or the goals I have set for myself, but damnitall, I have to have chocolate when I am pmsing.

Does that help?

 

[A Desert Rose]

Does that help?

Not at all. But thanks anyway.

 

[Cheyenne]

Not quite.

Think outside of a sexual context.

I NEED chocolate, rich, dark chocolate at certain times of the month. I will do whatever I have to in order to get that chocolate and if I can't, I don't sleep well and am anxious until I have it.

Now, I know I shouldn't have it. Chocolate isn't good for me or the goals I have set for myself, but damnitall, I have to have chocolate when I am pmsing.

Does that help?

So bdsm is something that is bad for you and you really don't want what is bad for you, but you NEED it?