Gentle/ caring/ Daddy Dom

[mentalmaven]

I was talking about pushing past emotional barriers too, all the vulnerability and such.

Completely agree…my thoughts are applicable to physical and emotional barriers. Finding that balance so both people can delve deeper is key.

 

[cascadiabound]

And does pushing the boundaries, exploring the limits lead to deeper care and mutual trust or does it remain at the same level? Asking for a friend - really, that's not a joke

In my experience pushing boundaries within a framework of trust does lead to deeper care, deeper submission, increased trust, more powerful dynamic, yes.

 

[Biglibido99]

In my experience pushing boundaries within a framework of trust does lead to deeper care, deeper submission, increased trust, more powerful dynamic, yes.

Thank you. How many subs fall into "love" with their caring Dom as a result of this deeper dynamic & trust?

 

[cascadiabound]

Thank you. How many subs fall into "love" with their caring Dom as a result of this deeper dynamic & trust?

*shrugs*

Frankly, I can't submit to someone unless I am already well on my way to being in love with them or more. But everyone is different.

 

[desire30]

Daddydom/subdaughter role play!!
In BDSM things are not white or black it is always grey!! all depends!! let us say The Iron hand in silky Glove, honey and piment!! A sub is not looking for a gentile-Dom but some one who understand her needs. Some subs are pain-sluts it does not mean to be crual out limits with!! where you define your needs?

Please make me your pain-slut...clamp my nipples...spank my pussy...jam the vibrator deeper . make the anal plug bigger........Make me hurt but in a very special way...

 

[tpsmps]

Please make me your pain-slut...clamp my nipples...spank my pussy...jam the vibrator deeper . make the anal plug bigger........Make me hurt but in a very special way...

it is great to bring you where you want to be!!

 

[MikeForYourWife]

Please make me your pain-slut...clamp my nipples...spank my pussy...jam the vibrator deeper . make the anal plug bigger........Make me hurt but in a very special way...

A woman after my own heart. I would love to see how much hurt you could take!

 

[~Elizabeth~]

Thank you. How many subs fall into "love" with their caring Dom as a result of this deeper dynamic & trust?

*shrugs*

Frankly, I can't submit to someone unless I am already well on my way to being in love with them or more. But everyone is different.

I agree, I'm like that, too. I have to develop a deep trust and bond with someone, most of the time, before submitting.

 

[Samantha47]

I was talking about pushing past emotional barriers too, all the vulnerability and such.

Oh yes

 

[Samantha47]

A woman after my own heart. I would love to see how much hurt you could take!

I'd love pain too

 

[MikeForYourWife]

I'd love pain too

Seems they are lining up to have their asses spanked.

 

[Samantha47]

Seems they are lining up to have their asses spanked.

Oh yes

 

[Samantha47]

As a very submissive trans guy, I love a caring Daddy Dom because they make me feel safe and comforted, and like I can be cute and subby and maybe a little feminine where I might not otherwise feel safe doing so.

There's something very erotic for me about an older, more experienced man wanting to take care of me and make me feel good, and knowing he gets off on making me feel good is like a positive feedback loop.
And, well, being told I'm a good boy or that I'm doing a good job for him.....oooougghhh it makes my pussy gush. Service with immediate positive vocal feedback feels so pleasurable!

I'm submissive outside the bedroom too, and while I have my own opinions and ways of doing things, having a gentle, caring Dom around to take care of me and make sure I look after myself would probably really help keep me a little more mentally organized hehe. And the potential for cuddling! I like intimate nonsexual physicality too, and having a big, warm Daddy to hug and cuddle with is sooo comforting.

I like Doms that are gentle and caring, obviously, but ones that can also be firm and put me in my place if need be while still caring for me. I love ceding control and being told what to do to pleasure my Dom, and actively hearing that he enjoys my submission will only reinforce my desire to submit. But he has to have my trust completely, or I struggle to fully submit!

At the end of the day, I just want to be respected as a person and not just a sex object despite wanting to submit deeply and regularly.

You sound wonderful

 

[Samantha47]

This is me also very much so.

Would be so nice