Girls and romanticism

[A Desert Rose]

None of this makes any sense to me.

I don't ask for anything and I don't tell what I want... UNLESS I'm asked to express it. Otherwise, none of it is about me.

I'm a submissive.

What am I missing here?

 

[CutieMouse]

*****

 

[Little_Kitten]

None of this makes any sense to me.

I don't ask for anything and I don't tell what I want... UNLESS I'm asked to express it. Otherwise, none of it is about me.

I'm a submissive.

What am I missing here?

Well all relationships are different... o.o

If I'm not happy, keeping it to myself would only do me harm.

But then again, we aren't as strict as most D/s relationships... But it will come. Once we get established physically.

 

[A Desert Rose]

Not a lot.

okay. That's kinda what I thought...

;-)

 

[Kajira Callista]

None of this makes any sense to me.

I don't ask for anything and I don't tell what I want... UNLESS I'm asked to express it. Otherwise, none of it is about me.

I'm a submissive.

What am I missing here?

I heart you

 

[A Desert Rose]

I heart you

I heart you a kazillion times more!!!

 

[Kajira Callista]

I heart you a kazillion times more!!!

awww shucks

 

[Little_Kitten]

Hm... I'm beginning to feel small here ._.

Its not like we're in a strict, strict relationship like most of you guys. I talk pretty freely with him... As I said... We're both pretty new to this relationshipy serious stuff... He not much older than me.
So we aren't like.... fully into the mastery stuff yet.

Blah... Maybe I should just stop posting in this thread >.<

 

[A Desert Rose]

Hm... I'm beginning to feel small here ._.

Its not like we're in a strict, strict relationship like most of you guys. I talk pretty freely with him... As I said... We're both pretty new to this relationshipy serious stuff... He not much older than me.
So we aren't like.... fully into the mastery stuff yet.

Blah... Maybe I should just stop posting in this thread >.<

Know what?

Never mind my post. I'm not going to be responsible for pushing you away from posting your opinions.

I'll just keep mine to myself. My apologies for making you feel small.

 

[EmpressFi]

I find .. if I hint.. and this goes for Master and Malin.. all I end up with is frustration.

Dont get me wrong.. both of the men in my life give me plenty of moments that are chick-flick worthy of "awwwwwwwwwwwww"... and the neither two that come to mind right of the bat were things I hinted at or even dreamed of receiving..but were expressions where they HAD listened to something I'd said in one of our many conversations and thought.. "I love her, she'll love this.. I'll do 'x' "

I used to hint at things I wanted or thought I needed.. but when they didnt read my mind to figure out what I wanted.. I'd get angry.. frustrated and well frankly.. pissed off.. pissed off that they couldnt just "know" what I wanted.. I mean..they love me dont they.. they MUST know what I want..

but now.. honestly ... now we talk.. alot..and I just dont have the patience for the mind games.. We're not in a strict relationship either... Master and I have our moments where we're best friends..and lovers.. even with the D/s relationship there all the time, underneath... he encourages me to tell him what I need from us.. what I want..from us.. my needs ..what I feel my needs are.. are important for him to know.. and what better way to find out..than to ask..

 

[intothewoods]

You don't ask for anything or tell what you want...ever??? Or just in some areas of your relationship?

I asked him if he could bring me a glass of wine tonight, since he was up and in the kitchen. He was happy too.

I still think I'm submissive. But whatever ... what's in a name, eh?

 

[EmpressFi]

You don't ask for anything or tell what you want...ever??? Or just in some areas of your relationship?

I asked him if he could bring me a glass of wine tonight, since he was up and in the kitchen. He was happy too.

I still think I'm submissive. But whatever ... what's in a name, eh?

I U

 

[A Desert Rose]

You don't ask for anything or tell what you want...ever??? Or just in some areas of your relationship?

I asked him if he could bring me a glass of wine tonight, since he was up and in the kitchen. He was happy too.

I still think I'm submissive. But whatever ... what's in a name, eh?

I never said you werern't. I never said anyone is or isn't anything.

It's obvious that my opinions are not the correct ones.

I apologize for offending you and everyone else.

 

[intothewoods]

I U

I don't love me. I used the wrong "too." But thanks anyway.

 

[Kajira Callista]

I never said you werern't. I never said anyone is or isn't anything.

It's obvious that my opinions are not the correct ones.

I apologize for offending you and everyone else.

You havent offended me.
Maybe someone can explain to me why only certain opinions and thoughts on how D/s M/s or bdsm are supposed to be are allowed on these boards.
ADR is entitled to her thoughts and opinions and she is allowed to express em any way she pleases...just like everyone else here is.

 

[ecstaticsub]

If I want something, or there is a need that isn't being met I will ask for permission to discuss a concern. When given permission (which I always am, maybe not always immediately but eventually) than I am free to discuss whatever repectfully. Every time he said he was glad I talked to him.

That's just us..

 

[intothewoods]

I never said you werern't. I never said anyone is or isn't anything.

It's obvious that my opinions are not the correct ones.

I apologize for offending you and everyone else.

Can you do me a favor and chill? I'm not offended. Genocide offends me. Your posts don't. It's just a discussion.

You said I don't ask for anything. I'm a submissive. Soooo, I'm just wondering if that's what you think? And if you do think it, say it loud, say it proud. I don't give a shit. Actually, I do give a shit, because it's nice to hear other opinions around here! I come here for interesting discussion, not to write isolated blurts about how horny I am.

I meant it when I said, what's in a name. Maybe I'm a bottom. Maybe you're wrong. Maybe I'm a slave and I don't know it yet. But it woul be great to have the conversation.

 

[intothewoods]

You havent offended me.
Maybe someone can explain to me why only certain opinions and thoughts on how D/s M/s or bdsm are supposed to be are allowed on these boards.
ADR is entitled to her thoughts and opinions and she is allowed to express em any way she pleases...just like everyone else here is.

As I just stated, the more opinions the better.

 

[EmpressFi]

You havent offended me.
Maybe someone can explain to me why only certain opinions and thoughts on how D/s M/s or bdsm are supposed to be are allowed on these boards.
ADR is entitled to her thoughts and opinions and she is allowed to express em any way she pleases...just like everyone else here is.

You're right.. I apologize for my "I U".

Perhaps it's this feeling at seems to come out.. maybe we're just catty little subs.. I dunno..but it seems like people are out to prove that they're MORE.. more dominant, more submissive... someone asks a question about hinting about romantic needs... and then some are aghast that we'd ask about our needs.. with a seemingly (granted text doesnt have tone... ) but seemingly very sarcastic

I don't ask for anything and I don't tell what I want... UNLESS I'm asked to express it. Otherwise, none of it is about me.

I'm a submissive.

What am I missing here?

that statement implies that somehow.. the OP isnt submissive or isnt the right kind or isnt submissive enough...and it was a statement that was agreed upon enough to warrant a "not a lot" and a "I heart u"...

We live on the fringe of what people call "normal".. we fight with the "vanilla's" to have them not see us as crazy or abused/abusive.. for the way we want to live.. but yet all we do is pick at each other.. I dont think we're any different than how they see us and judge us and criticize us...

 

[Kajira Callista]

You're right.. I apologize for my "I U".

Perhaps it's this feeling at seems to come out.. maybe we're just catty little subs.. I dunno..but it seems like people are out to prove that they're MORE.. more dominant, more submissive... someone asks a question about hinting about romantic needs... and then some are aghast that we'd ask about our needs.. with a seemingly (granted text doesnt have tone... ) but seemingly very sarcastic

I don't ask for anything and I don't tell what I want... UNLESS I'm asked to express it. Otherwise, none of it is about me.

I'm a submissive.

What am I missing here?

that statement implies that somehow.. the OP isnt submissive or isnt the right kind or isnt submissive enough...and it was a statement that was agreed upon enough to warrant a "not a lot" and a "I heart u"...

We live on the fringe of what people call "normal".. we fight with the "vanilla's" to have them not see us as crazy or abused/abusive.. for the way we want to live.. but yet all we do is pick at each other.. I dont think we're any different than how they see us and judge us and criticize us...

You read into a post a tone that you chose. Too many people around here do that, sadly. That is why I don't post anything of substance anymore(besides the fact that according to 90 percent of the people who post here I am a mindless slave incapable of thinking for herself) and i actually applaud adr for doing so. Read her words again...change the tone in your mind...and take a look see if the posts that followed were warranted.

 

[intothewoods]

You read into a post a tone that you chose. Too many people around here do that, sadly. That is why I don't post anything of substance anymore(besides the fact that according to 90 percent of the people who post here I am a mindless slave incapable of thinking for herself) and i actually applaud adr for doing so. Read her words again...change the tone in your mind...and take a look see if the posts that followed were warranted.

Color me confused. Maybe this will make sense in the morning.

 

[BiBunny]

Color me confused. Maybe this will make sense in the morning.

Maybe it'll make sense to me, too.

 

[Kajira Callista]

somehow i doubt it

 

[intothewoods]

somehow i doubt it

Well, that's too bad. Communication is kind of why we're here, after all.

 

[Kajira Callista]

Well, that's too bad. Communication is kind of why we're here, after all.

somehow i doubt that also.