Your wife wouldn't be into that sort of thing?
Yeah, it's difficult to find the right person. Everyone has their own motives. =/
No she wouldn't though I have dropped hints. She will sometimes stick her finger up my ass while giving me a blowjob and she once said that it would be hot to see another man hump me doggie style. That said, I believe that was just hot talk and in reality would not like to see that happen.
Again, I just want the cock and balls to do as I wish without any emotional attachment to a man. A nice abdomen, cock, balls and ass on a guy are appealing but I'd never seek out another guy to have sex with. To see the face and all that goes with that; I get 100% of that from women. It needs to be anonymous but again, the fear of disease is what stops me.