Have you ever had to fake an orgasm?

your right...

meop79 said:


Why? have you perhaps fallen into a sterotypical impression of men? or perhaps did you just never think about it?

Our culture puts a huge burden on men... we're suposed to be the experienced ever virile, "men". We're suposed to have super stamina, and we're suposed to be able to cum at the drop of a hat. Shrug, that's not always easy to do... but it's hard to admit... especially if you don't really have that much trust in your partner or your relationship...

meop79@yahoo.com

Its not that I really expect that a man is supposed to cum, but I just don't understand how they can get away with no mess, but then someone said a condom, but what if the woman takes the condom off, wouldn't they be able to tell that the condom is some what dry. But you are right men have a big name they have to live up too, given to them by society.
 
wildtiger60

Hey sexy two dogs here to hi and hope you are staying good and warm tonight .T.D;) :devil: :kiss:
 
I have faked a few orgasms when I was young but it was before I even had my first proper orgasms. The guys I faked on weren't experienced so didn't know any better. Its not something I would do now but back then it was a boost to their egos.
 
Re: your right...

wildtiger60 said:

Its not that I really expect that a man is supposed to cum, but I just don't understand how they can get away with no mess, but then someone said a condom, but what if the woman takes the condom off, wouldn't they be able to tell that the condom is some what dry. But you are right men have a big name they have to live up too, given to them by society.

All orgasms are not equal there are times I have actually cum and not ejaculated any fluid at all. Besides not all girls pay that much attention to the details anyway...

meop79@yahoo.com
 
I had a few of them...

cherrylips_au said:
I have faked a few orgasms when I was young but it was before I even had my first proper orgasms. The guys I faked on weren't experienced so didn't know any better. Its not something I would do now but back then it was a boost to their egos.

LOL, I had to burst a couple a guys ego bubbles though. They bragged so much, (jock boys) they said they could make me cum with their big dicks in seconds. I said "bring it on". Then I was like "sorry honey, your not all that you are cut out to be" They hate my guts now, and call me everything under the sun, but hey someone had to tell them. Right?
 
wildtiger60

Honey I'm hotter than a pepper sprout right now and don't see a let up in sight but what a'm i going to do with it .?
twodogs:confused: :(
 
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twodogs said:
Honey I'm hotter than a pepper sprout right now and don't see a let up in sight but what a'm i going to do with it .?
twodogs:confused: :(

Put your hot pepper sprout, in a tight oven, and cook up some love broth.
 
wildtiger60 said:
Wow, I would enjoy you so much........most guys don't take their time, and I find thats when i have the most orgasms is when the guy takes the time to actually pleasure her as well as pleasuring yourself

Mmmm.. see my reply to the poll on whether or not I have had/would have sex with someone I met online before you make statements like that, as I might just take you up on it. ;-)
 
*giggles*

Elvenspell said:


Mmmm.. see my reply to the poll on whether or not I have had/would have sex with someone I met online before you make statements like that, as I might just take you up on it. ;-)

Would you?
 
Naughty....

you want it, you gotta give me a good reason to give it:devil:

I'm waiting.........:p
 
meop79 said:


Why? have you perhaps fallen into a sterotypical impression of men? or perhaps did you just never think about it?

Our culture puts a huge burden on men... we're suposed to be the experienced ever virile, "men". We're suposed to have super stamina, and we're suposed to be able to cum at the drop of a hat. Shrug, that's not always easy to do... but it's hard to admit... especially if you don't really have that much trust in your partner or your relationship...

meop79@yahoo.com

My, a bit defensive here.

No, I'm old enough to no longer be naive to think that orgasms for men can always be accomplished easily. The question, had you read above what what was stated, was that it seemed odd that more men than women were responding. Not in defense of the "virile man who can cum at the drop of a hat", but rather that hardly any women were resonding.
 
In common with a few of you, I faked sometimes when I was younger, and didn't feel confident enough to say nothing was happening for me... or, when I was tired and just wanted it over with.... doesn't happen now though!
:kiss:
 
SexyChele said:

My, a bit defensive here.
No, I'm old enough to no longer be naive to think that orgasms for men can always be accomplished easily. The question, had you read above what what was stated, was that it seemed odd that more men than women were responding. Not in defense of the "virile man who can cum at the drop of a hat", but rather that hardly any women were resonding.

Not really defensive, anoid I supose but you have a point where are all the women?

meop79@yahoo.com
 
Well considering I was 28 before I had a real orgasm...I guess you could say I simply didnt know. So if they asked me I assumed I had. After that, yes I did fake in the last year or so of my last relationship. It got to the point where it was no longer making love and those few times (I can count on two hands) that we did have sex it became more of a chore than something to enjoy. So yes, I faked it.
 
married

well what kind of answer is that ,just kidding , i can tell you what
you can do with that married life but i will be good , some are happy so it would not be fair
 
Re: married

twodogs said:
well what kind of answer is that ,just kidding , i can tell you what
you can do with that married life but i will be good , some are happy so it would not be fair

I'm open for some tips even though I am not married twodogs, how are you by the way, long time no talk too.
 
meop79 said:
I think it is really sad that someone who is marriwould need to say something like that...

Meop79@yahoo.com


IT WAS A JOKE!!!!! Come on you being way too serious here. Geez. Are you married Meop79? Yes? No? Cause let me tell you if you were married to my husband........you would understand what I mean. We have been together way too long and he doesnt even try anymore so why should I? I dont do it all the time, dont get me wrong. I want mine too! But when I said that I was kidding. I am sorry if I offended you

Carly
 
krazychick said:

IT WAS A JOKE!!!!! Come on you being way too serious here. Geez. Are you married Meop79? Yes? No? Cause let me tell you if you were married to my husband........you would understand what I mean. We have been together way too long and he doesnt even try anymore so why should I? I dont do it all the time, dont get me wrong. I want mine too! But when I said that I was kidding. I am sorry if I offended you
Carly

It was the kind of joke where you either laugh or you'll ball your eyes out... You see I do understand exactly what you mean... and my heart goes out to you... I'll tell you if you were married to me... well lets just say you never would have made the joke because you would still be just as ecstatic as you were the day you got married...

You didn't offend me... *hugs* just wish the world was a different place...

Meop79@yahoo.com
 
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