Have you ever had to fake an orgasm?

I faked a few when I was young. After I had my first 'real' orgasm with a partner, I thought 'so THIS is where we're going'. I haven't faked since. As I learned more about my body, and how ALL my senses combined to help me reach orgasm, it became relatively easy to get there. Very, very seldom do I NOT reach orgasm.
<kisses> Steffy
 
Faking..

I myself have never faked it..Hell I look at it like this, if i were to fake one i'd be more tired moaning and groaning and trying to make him/her feel as if they really broke me off lol I'm trying to be tired from being sexed not faking..I guess some people have had to for certain reasons..Luckily, I have not had to :) (cheesin real big LoL) Take care literotica :)
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steffy said:
I faked a few when I was young. After I had my first 'real' orgasm with a partner, I thought 'so THIS is where we're going'. I haven't faked since. As I learned more about my body, and how ALL my senses combined to help me reach orgasm, it became relatively easy to get there. Very, very seldom do I NOT reach orgasm.
<kisses> Steffy

Thats how I somewhat tried to explain it before, I communicate with my partner and tell him whats good and not good which somewhat leads to knowing your own body, which gets him to know whats good and not good, but you get some of those really talented men and have you cumming before you can say BOO!
 
Never, never, never:devil: have I ever faked an orgasm:devil:


Unfortunately I have faked an orgasm or two in my lifetime. It wasn't to be dishonest, I just wasn't able to get there for one reason or another (and no I am not pointing fingers or casting blame) and instead of hurting their feelings I just pretended I did. Chaulk it up to being an incredible, caring, and self depreciating woman.
 
I used to ..till I met the right guy ..he has the gift I guess ..cause I never fake it now. :heart:
 
Ree said:
Never, never, never:devil: have I ever faked an orgasm:devil:
Unfortunately I have faked an orgasm or two in my lifetime. It wasn't to be dishonest, I just wasn't able to get there for one reason or another (and no I am not pointing fingers or casting blame) and instead of hurting their feelings I just pretended I did. Chaulk it up to being an incredible, caring, and self depreciating woman.

Yeah... I know.... and sometimes that's the way it is...

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Yes. Many things can make them not happen for me and I never want to deny him his pleasure (for his pleasure is my pleasure, too) - faking seems the least cruel. Fortunately I have not had to do it often. Thanks for asking.
 
I must admit that, for the first time, I faked it a couple of months ago. I'd been dating a particularly inept lover, who thought that oral sex performed on a woman was something akin to eating sour pickles, chocolate bars and sardines, all at the same time. I've never had trouble getting men to eat my sweet muff in the past, so I think it was this guy's problem. Well, his idea of giving me an orgasm was to reach down with his work-hardened hands, thrum at my clitoris in an aggressive, never-changing manner and hope that I'd have get off in about a minute or two. One night, when I was particularly horny at the near-end of my menstrual period, he was strumming away at my clit and I truly felt like I would much rather be making a grocery list or grading papers. So, I faked it. I breathed rapidly and with an ever-quicker rhythm, I stiffened my legs, curled my toes and sighed in little squeals. I felt rotten while I was doing it, but I just wanted him to stop strumming my clit--it hurt! We're no longer seeing each other--the only sexual contact he wanted was to suck on my breasts and receive blow jobs. No intercourse, no licking my muff, no sex play or foreplay--whatever--just "suck me off, Baby."
Buh-bye! Now I don't regret faking it...:D
 
I lied about it once - didn't fake it, though. I'm none too proud of it, of course. I consider honesty to be terribly important. But, on my behalf, it was Phonesex and she was paying. She told me that she came three times, once she was done, and then she asked me how many times I did - and god, I couldn't bring myself to say, "None at all. Sorry."

I was young, then, and am far more wise now? *Chuckles.*
 
AzureAngel said:
I lied about it once - didn't fake it, though. I'm none too proud of it, of course. I consider honesty to be terribly important. But, on my behalf, it was Phonesex and she was paying. She told me that she came three times, once she was done, and then she asked me how many times I did - and god, I couldn't bring myself to say, "None at all. Sorry."

I was young, then, and am far more wise now? *Chuckles.*

PhoneSex...........i suppose the counts........but i was actually thinking more on the lines of the real thing, but your right its still faking an orgasm.:kiss:
 
Honeygirl said:
I'm ashamed to admit - but yes I have on occassion, faked an orgasm. Mainly because I was taking too long to cum, and felt pressured to hurry along and `finish'...it was some years ago now - I don't think I'd do it now. I'd be more assertive and stroppy "Just bloody wait...I'll get there when I can!"... :D

sounds like the story of my life, however it's much worse when you don't even have to fake it, they just get off on your body and don't give a shit that you got yours....damn
 
Grrrrrrrr...........

alwaysmiranda said:


sounds like the story of my life, however it's much worse when you don't even have to fake it, they just get off on your body and don't give a shit that you got yours....damn

I've had that a couple of times too. Pisses me off!!!
 
yes...i have faked an orgasm...the sad part about it is i was masturbating at the time.....the fake didnt work...i knew i hadnt cum.
 
Unfortunately...

Yes I have. Not too proud of me for that, but, that was then, and this is now!!!
 
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