How’s your married sex life?

[Deleted member 6666935]

Nonexistent for a long time

 

[Wonderer67]

How’s the ‘ol sex life doing on your marriage? I get every relationship is different and goes through it’s ups and downs. Just curious I guess. Let’s hear your ages, years married and times per week/month. I’ll start
Me 36, her 35
9 years married
I’d say 8-10 times a month.

Ok you go

Excellent. She’s 66, I’m 56. She’s ten years older and three days.

She’s is beautiful, looks 45. Strong sex drive. 3-4 times a week and some fun and kinky practices too.

Married only 3 yrs but together for 13.

before that, I was in a sexless marriage for ages.

 

[zcraft5]

Excellent. She’s 66, I’m 56. She’s ten years older and three days.

She’s is beautiful, looks 45. Strong sex drive. 3-4 times a week and some fun and kinky practices too.

Married only 3 yrs but together for 13.

before that, I was in a sexless marriage for ages.

yes i am in one now

 

[Trubbycat]

My what?

 

[Thom_the_gleeman]

My what?

I was wondering the same thing... what is this "sex life" you speak off?

Love ,
Thom

 

[zcraft5]

sex life is null at the moment but its improving but non existence.thus the reason i am on here to read sex stories and some one is helping me with that

 

[zcraft5]

How’s the ‘ol sex life doing on your marriage? I get every relationship is different and goes through it’s ups and downs. Just curious I guess. Let’s hear your ages, years married and times per week/month. I’ll start
Me 36, her 35
9 years married
I’d say 8-10 times a month.

Ok you go

1 every 6 months sex is dead i masturbate more than i should

 

[aussie_cityboy]

1 every 6 months sex is dead i masturbate more than i should

I think “more than I should” is open to interpretation.

 

[Ttggmmm]

I think my wife has about 10% of my sex drive!
I need it so much more than she does and it's starting to strain!

 

[NoUseForAnyName]

I think my wife has about 10% of my sex drive!
I need it so much more than she does and it's starting to strain!

Well, sorry to hear that. I kinda feel this as my wife has 0%

 

[Deleted member 6666935]

So I’m going to come clean, as it were, with this post. My wife and haven’t had sex in about ten years. A big part of it has to do with kids. We have four, ages 7, 8, 16 and 19, all still living at home. I love my kids (don’t always like them) but I was ready to stop adopting after two. So as with a lot of other decisions, I was asked what I wanted and then my wife did what she’d already decided she was going to do anyway.

I get yelled at by her a lot, most often because she doesn’t like the way I dealt with stuff as a parent, or because she thinks I was yelling, or I shouldn’t get upset by what I was upset by. But god help me if raise my voice at her or if I just stand up during an argument because I get accused of being abusive (she was in an abusive marriage long before we met). But I feel like I’m the one being abused and not just by her, by the kids too, and I’m supposed to just take it.

And then she complains that I won’t initiate sex with her. I can’t tell her it’s because I don’t want to have sex with her because I feel that she has emasculated me and emotionally abused me in so many ways. If something is bothering me I can’t talk to her about it because she turns it back around on me like it’s my fault something upsets me, so I feel worse.

Is it any wonder I am in therapy and taking medications for anxiety and depression? Or that I’m trying to find what desire from someone else?

I know, a lot of you will say I should just get a divorce. Unfortunately she has already decided that I’d have to take the middle two kids with me (the two with the biggest behavioral issues) if we did… I don’t know what else she’s already decided in her head would happen. I might be able to manage a one bedroom apartment on my own, which would be a challenge since I’d need to be able to have my dog and cat with me too, I don’t know about a three bedroom place (plus buying furniture too).

Plus as miserable as I feel sometimes I don’t really want to leave her… maybe I remember the good times too well, and hope someday they’ll be back again. Sometimes when I think about my medical history I wonder just how much longer I’ll be around anyway (my dad passed from a burst aneurysm in his head 14 years ago, I survived mine six years ago but I doubt I’ll survive a second one if it happens). Whenever that does occur, as long as my life insurance is still going there’ll be a decent payout that will let the rest of the family be fairly comfortable.

So how much of all this is my fault? I don’t know honestly. I’ve gotten so used to accepting the blame for various problems that sometimes I think I did bring this all on me.

But that’s the story.

 

[SoCalCouple11]

7-8/10. 9-10/10 when we have it, just isn’t as frequent as we’d like.

 

[Travisspank]

Non-existent, which has brought out the bi side in me. Now I basically just suck and get fucked by a regular instead of fucking my wife.

 

[CEOescape]

Amazing !!!! With long time close friend , married now and live a duel life of Professionals and Conservatives business people vs Liberated individuals >Away from prying eyes WE now enjoy a small group of open minded friends and I set up a special place were we can get together and enjoy sex without judgement and jealousies!

 

[AmandaKellyUK]

I don’t have a married sex life, but I love him to bits - I guess if he was a naughty sex fiend like me he’d tip into the too good to be true category

 

[Gremlin1965]

Pretty good for us, probably 2-3 times a week on average but it really depends on what's going on in life. I'm late 50's and she's 6 years younger and we've no kids at home which helps. We've both discovered a more kinky aspect to our sexuality so we'll occasionally find 3-4 hours at the weekend for some 'experimental playtime' especially if we've not got up to much during the week

 

[hulmule]

Sadly non existent. Had a super hard cock this morning. Slid in behind her, pumping on her, no reaction until i pulled them underwear down and rub on my cock between her ass cheeks...- NO dont rub it on my asshole... i tired to rub on her pussy but menopause it hurts her to bad so i dont want to hurt her. So rolled back and she did nothing to engage... ah morning lit then with coffee. sad...

 

[Ttggmmm]

Well, sorry to hear that. I kinda feel this as my wife has 0%

That sucks.
Are you tempted to look else wear for some fun?

 

[Bisexguy70]

Whats a married Sex life? Someone please tell me.

 

[Bisexguy70]

I am 32 she is also 32. Ours have been healthy with at least once a week but recently it has twindled down to zero as she is pregnant . Don’t know how it is going to be after we have the baby.

I hate to tell you this but your probably going to need to get real acquainted with your hand or something else. Hopefully she’ll recover after and want to have sex again, but just be prepared that things might be a lot different with a young child around.

 

[Purple_Fronds]

Keying of what bisexguy70 said, it’s probably good to try and communicate with her now about how you should both communicate what you need. Everyone is different but for my wife pregnancy completely killed her libido, and because we were so sexual beforehand (one of the reasons I married her) we didn’t know how to address the changes. I would recommend you come from the standpoint of what she needs, how she is feeling not just physically but mentally, is this your first?

 

[NoUseForAnyName]

That sucks.
Are you tempted to look else wear for some fun?

Definitely online.

 

[whatahoot]

We've been married 7 years, together for 9. We've definitely had ups and downs, and lately it's been more on the down. We have sex once or twice a week and it's okay but I definitely crave a lot more especially given our history.

 

[terriblesecrets]

Appallingly
3 times a year

Sounds like mine

 

[terriblesecrets]

Me 46, him 51
in the last 4 months we had 1 quickie

Much more than I've been having. So lucky you