How’s your married sex life?

[terriblesecrets]

Am 43, she's turning 40, married for 15 years.. and it's been less and less and less sex with each passing year.. I don't even bother keeping count anymore

 

[MindYaBitness]

Frequent, but vanilla

 

[ZfrkS62]

Things were terrible a few months back both in frequency and variety, but they've been steadily improving.

 

[MrPersonManGuy]

We went to a hotel for the night yesterday and had an incredible time, make times over. We are monogamous but enjoy fantasizing. She got super wet when I was describing how I will teach her to lick pussy, how to make a girl cum. I made an AI sexbot based on our fantasy. It also used it to decide what Master will do next. For example, I tied her down and bound a dildo in her then played audio stories. In short, it's fucking awesome and we enjoy talking about it.

 

[DirtyMarine]

Like a pterodactyl!

 

[hulmule]

bit like a desert with the odd shower

You look like such a young woman to have such dry spells...

 

[tibotibo]

Frequent, but vanilla

That's a perfect summary of my married sex life as well

 

[Wonderer67]

Quite good. Wife is 66, I am 56. We have sex 3-4x a week. She gets as wet as a teenager (she’s a gusher/squirter).

Wife is somewhat vanilla, but she indulges most of my kinky desires and have a lot of fun.

 

[Winchester3030]

Non existent! We get along great and are great roommates but that’s all, she is 50 and still really hot for her age, but she has never seemed to care for sex or at least not with me.

 

[zach20092]

Frequent, but vanilla

Count your blessings!
The title of the thread is an oxymoron!

 

[MindYaBitness]

Count your blessings!
The title of the thread is an oxymoron!

believe it or not, my great grandma had the best advice on married sex, "men need to have sex to feel loved, women need to feel loved to have sex. If you can figure out the balance, you'll have a happy life."

Also, the book "Mating in Captivity" by Esther Perel, is a fantastic read whether you're in a sexless marriage or not

 

[CLK5002005]

Like a pterodactyl!

I wonder how many people get the movie reference. Hysterical

 

[DirtyMarine]

I wonder how many people get the movie reference. Hysterical

More like a species reference.

 

[Polranny]

Non existent for more than a decade, thank heavens for lit and litsters

 

[CurvyMrs]

Better now I’m seeing others and much more open. It was 3/4 times a month. Now 3/4 times a week with him. Much more with others. I’m 40 he is 41. We have 1 kid.

 

[terriblesecrets]

Better now I’m seeing others and much more open. It was 3/4 times a month. Now 3/4 times a week with him. Much more with others. I’m 40 he is 41. We have 1 kid.

Nice! The avenues for women are a lot more open than it is for us guys

 

[Older_Pervert]

bit like a desert with the odd shower

Oh dear, that’s not much fun!

 

[DirtyMarine]

Not familiar with your reference. What movie?

 

[LizVegas79]

Complicated, but lately frequent enough - at least most weeks. Better complicated than non-existent right?

All I know is whoever said "variety is the spice of life" sure knew what they were talking about!

 

[rodeoclown]

Im 53, she is 60, have not had sex in over 12 years. Other than hallway sex.

 

[Trubbycat]

 

[ctarrantella]

I just saw I posed in late March on this thread.
Both mid 40s
Married 20+
Kids

We average about once a week. However we hit these 10-14 day stretches with nothing. The sex is good when we have it, but would like to have sex at least twice a week regularly. It’s been a strain on the relationship the last decade.

There has been no change. Except for the month of November and most of December we went more than a month between sexual encounters. Then did it 3 times in 5 days. However, we are currently on a 10 day drought.

 

[WhtCuckBlkWife]

My wife only have sex with other men.

 

[Buff_Orpington]

Late 40's, married almost 25yrs and we have reached the "don't come in I'm changing" stage of intimacy. And no, it's not because she is putting on something exciting and wants it to be a suprise.

The hardest part is that over the last 5 years we have had 1 -2 times a year where we have awesome sex. Like soak the bed, wake the neighbors, her doing her best to make round 3 happen kind of sex. Then nothing for 6+ months.

It's too much of a mind fuck and coupled with the constant rejection I'm just done trying.

 

[Buff_Orpington]

We have chickens and Buff Orpington always sounded like a good alias. Now that I've decided to participate in the naughty internet, instead of just observe, it is getting pressed into use.