How often do you have sex with your spouse/SO?

[SherlockianMan]

I have to confess that it's been a lot more than usual this week, which has made for a nice change.

 

[QSco]

This poll is kinda depressing. I've been married 10 years and 1-2/month I have been enjoying lately is a recent and dramatic improvement over the 2-3/year I was suffering through previously.

 

[7inchglory]

Once, maybe twice a week with my S/O. We both have busy schedules.. but will drop in here and there to fuck each others brains out. This weekend was a nice little treat as we were both off. We had sex from Thursday morning, until this Sunday.

I do enjoy randomly walking into a room and bending her over to fuck her... or waking her up to me between her legs as a nice little start to the morning.

 

[kelloveslit]

Once or twice a week with my husband; about once a week with my girlfriend; and about twice a month with her man. So, I have it pretty good .

 

[MadRose]

Yeah, um, zero sex in over 5 years with my husband, and few and far between before then! No words for how to rate that.

 

[azco15]

Yeah, um, zero sex in over 5 years with my husband, and few and far between before then! No words for how to rate that.

...That... That is just depressing! Unfair and not right and rude and disrespectful and a whole list of other things!

 

[Turtlelincoln]

I was reduced to keeping track in my day planner last year just to make sure I wasn't crazy. I wanted evidence of frequency, times dismissed and rejected, etc. so final results for 2014 were 12 times total, with an extended drought from sept to December. Rejected 67 times (that I counted) between jan 2014 to June (then I lost interest in trying). And the kicker of it all...when I asked her last week "how many times do you think we had sex in 2014?" She paused, thought a bit and then said "maybe 10? I tried to get you in once month until the end of the year." So here I thought I was going to blow her mind with the infrequency and she already knew. And guessed less. So when I told her she says "oh good, that's more than I thought." 12 times. :-/ and I wonder why I come here....

 

[vibes]

You didn't answer. You can't ask for more info before you answer the post too. THEN you can ask, and then I might tell.

Sorry, I voted (7-12 times a month) but didn't say it ... now shoot!

 

[coacheric]

Wife told me last night that we are fucking on Friday. Period will be done, kids will be gone for the night. She went so far as to say that we will fuck before dinner then probably after also. I figure it won't happen but was nice to hear that she at least still thinks about it at times.

 

[vidiman]

Wife told me last night that we are fucking on Friday. Period will be done, kids will be gone for the night. She went so far as to say that we will fuck before dinner then probably after also. I figure it won't happen but was nice to hear that she at least still thinks about it at times.

Go for it - let us know the details I hope you both get lost (in a great way) in the occasion.

 

[suckonsimon]

Once, maybe twice a week with my S/O. We both have busy schedules.. but will drop in here and there to fuck each others brains out. This weekend was a nice little treat as we were both off. We had sex from Thursday morning, until this Sunday.

I do enjoy randomly walking into a room and bending her over to fuck her... or waking her up to me between her legs as a nice little start to the morning.

Hey, 7inch, your approach is fucking grand. I love it you stuffed so much into those four days.

 

[desiwife16]

As much as I can.

 

[vibes]

As much as I can.

LOL

That probably goes for everyone here

 

[InTheFade]

I want to ask a follow up question, because I think it's pertinent...

How many of you who show are dissatisfied with your sexual relations, have children?

I'm interested in finding the common denominator, and I think children is it. It's not getting married or being with somebody for x amount of years.

I'm interested.

 

[dave_anon]

Less than once a month. To be precise, it was about 5 times in 2014. We've been married almost 10 years and for each of those 10 years, every single time was initiated by me. So sick of being turned down that I have stopped asking.

 

[justits]

Don't even have an SO.

 

[taylor415ce]

Several times per week. Sometimes every day. Been together 19 years. It hasn't always been like that for sure. It takes two sides to make it work and if one person is not interested, then it's rough. We have had more issues than I care to mention, but sex has continued to get better and more frequent through the years. I can't explain it, but I'm not complaining.

 

[suckonsimon]

Several times per week. Sometimes every day. Been together 19 years. It hasn't always been like that for sure. It takes two sides to make it work and if one person is not interested, then it's rough. We have had more issues than I care to mention, but sex has continued to get better and more frequent through the years. I can't explain it, but I'm not complaining.

Lovely to read this, Taylor. Good on you both!

 

[ffdan]

Married 22 years, maybe once a month. Thank god for lit.

 

[aussiegeekygal]

Married 6 years. We normally sneak in about 2 shags a week. The frequency is actually increasing, which we're both thrilled about. Shame it took me 6 years to let go, sexually, but at least it happened! I was such a prude when I was first married, but that has certainly turned around

 

[suckonsimon]

Married 6 years. We normally sneak in about 2 shags a week. The frequency is actually increasing, which we're both thrilled about. Shame it took me 6 years to let go, sexually, but at least it happened! I was such a prude when I was first married, but that has certainly turned around

The beauty of the freedom and the joy! Good on you both!

 

[L8tnIt]

Not often enough for either of us.

 

[suckonsimon]

I want to ask a follow up question, because I think it's pertinent...

How many of you who show are dissatisfied with your sexual relations, have children?

I'm interested in finding the common denominator, and I think children is it. It's not getting married or being with somebody for x amount of years.

I'm interested.

InTheFade, this is a key suggestion. My hunch is that it works both ways for a number of reasons and some of them really subtle. There are couples whose sex life took a dive and stayed so when they got the family way, but I know there are other couples who discover a whole new zest for life through their parenting and it has positive spin-offs for their sex life.

Huge subject. wanna start a thread about that?

One absolutely key factor: the man's esteem for his woman while she is pregnant and in the initial months / years of her being a mother. There are men who as lovers fail their women psychologically during that profoundly changing time for the woman, and the consequences may never be recovered from. The result: the man's desire for sexual relations become 'just another demand' on the woman's energies and patience.

Guys who have yet to make babies, take note. Reflect back to her her sexual radiance through every step of pregnancy, post natal, lactation, and all the new and demanding routines of having a little one. She needs your delight in her desirability when you can't have her as much as when you can.

A thread? Ney a book!

 

[Voxx]

Wow...I am glad to see I am not alone. Well glad may not be the word, but you get my drift.

Our sex life crashed after a hysterectomy. We have it 1-2 a month, but I am always the initiator.

 

[JuanVato]

oh my...

Yeah, um, zero sex in over 5 years with my husband, and few and far between before then! No words for how to rate that.

I am so terribly sorry.
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