How old were you when....?

[Stella_Omega]

Apparently, I was way behind the learning curve, because I don't remember even masturbating until I was somewhere around 15. I didn't have sex with anyone until college. I think I've made up for lost time well, though.

You, actually-- have a really fascinating story.

 

[kinky_caligirl]

You, actually-- have a really fascinating story.

I agree.

 

[Soumis]

I was masturbating before I really knew what it was. I had a lot of bondage fantasies as a kid, though I didn't recognize them as a stimulant; I just knew that I thought about it, a lot. I don't think I managed an orgasm until I was 12 or so.

I had my first experiences with a girl at 10-11, she was 13-14. It actually wasn't really a milestone for me because I didn't think we were doing anything bad. I knew we weren't telling anyone what we were doing, but since we didn't tell "grown ups" any of our imaginary plots this one didn't stand out for a long time. Also the first girl I watched porn with when we were out of school for the summer. I'm sure our parents would be appalled, but it still seems very innocent in my mind. I do wonder sometimes how much of my naiveté she shared.

I lost my virginity at 17 with a guy who was nearly twice my age. He was the one to later suggest lit to me and eventually found a local bdsm group for me when I thought this stuff was something people surely didn't actually do. I thought BDSM was fiction, like sci fi, until then. He was decidedly vanilla and my inclinations this direction were a turn off for him, though I'll be eternally grateful for him pointing me in the right direction.

Went to my first munch at all of 18 and two weeks because it was the first occurring after I was legally allowed to attend. Found myself properly beat a few weeks later and the rest is history.

 

[Tiffany87]

18. I don't think I was really interested in sex before then. I lost my v-card at age 22.

 

[Sir_Winston54]

I have to go a little out of order, either the order the questions were asked or the chronological order of occurrence. I guess I'll go chronological...

BDSM (Sensual S/m): Age ... 3? One of my first memories is spanking a neighbor girl's bare bottom, pink panties dangling off her ankle. I don't remember her name, but I *do* remember MY ass getting a belt whippin' when we got caught.

Masturbation: Pre-teen... 11, 12? I know it was after going to Europe, 4 months after my 10th birthday, but before we returned from Europe, which happened two months after my 13th birthday.

First sexual kiss (e.g., with at least emotional arousal, if not an erection): 10, with my true love of the year. We used to walk home after school together (she was an older woman, 11.5 {I skipped a grade, so was always a year to a year and a half younger than my classmates.}), and stop and sit and talk about halfway home, in the untended - and unvisited by anyone else - half-block garden of the local Catholic church, and occasionally kiss one another on the cheek or lightly peck lips. We ended up this particular day, for some unremembered reason, kneeling facing one another and *kissed.* Her arms slid up around my neck, my arms around her torso, and my hands - of their own free will, I swear! - slid down and cupped her butt cheeks and pulled her tightly to me. We were both blushing when we broke, and didn't speak of that kiss until some 5 years later when we happened to run into one another after I got back from Europe. She still blushed, especially when I started to apologize for "grabbing" her... but said, "Don't apologize; I liked it."

First oral sex (receiving): 18 (and I hate to admit it), from a Tijuana whore.

First oral sex (giving): 19, with my true love of the year. She was one of four that year. :: blink ::

First intercourse: 19, with the true love of the year following the above true love of the year (1 month later).

First anal intercourse (giving): 22, with the true love of the year (and wife number 1). (No, I didn't marry her because the butt-secks was so hot; I married her because I lurved her, she lurved getting a belt across her ass and a dick in her ass or pussy. One of the reasons {a minor one, really} for divorcing her was that she couldn't/wouldn't learn to do even a half-decent blow job. There were a number of much more important reasons.)

 

[TallMan60]

I was 12 for first orgasm and masturbation, they were both at the same time. Around that time I read the book "Everything you wanted to know about sex but were afraid of asking".

I lost my virginity at 13 to a woman who was 31.

It was delightful.

We recently got back in touch.

 

[Stella_Omega]

I was 12 for first orgasm and masturbation, they were both at the same time. Around that time I read the book "Everything you wanted to know about sex but were afraid of asking".

I lost my virginity at 13 to a woman who was 31.

It was delightful.

We recently got back in touch.

Gotta love facebook!

 

[Lizzie_Borden]

Apparently, I was way behind the learning curve, because I don't remember even masturbating until I was somewhere around 15. I didn't have sex with anyone until college. I think I've made up for lost time well, though.

Yeah, I think I would have been about 16 or 17 or so.

I would have had my first real kiss at about 18.

And 20 when I lost my virginity. It was alright. It didn't hurt, I'd already popped my own cherry during my 'let's see what I can fit in my pussy and how it feels' phase.

It would have been nearly 2 years before I had sex again. I had a couple of random hookups, then entered a 5 year, essentially sexless relationship, that included a few random adventures along the way.

When I met Mr, I think I could count all my actual sex experiences on both hands, and I was 28 years old.

 

[fuckmeat]

This OP has been on all the forums asking the same leading questions to get people's experiences, with no attempt made at any kind of discussion. £10 says it's really a guy trolling for wank fodder.

 

[JMaxwell69]

It may matter how you define masturbation. I think I periodically yanked on it from a very young age (perhaps infancy but I don't remember back that far), but the first session I can remember is when it first went off, which was when I was about 12.

I just kept tugging at it with my hand stuck into my tighty-whities. I remember it feeling better and better (not just my dick but a generally full-body sense of tingling warm pleasure), but not having any preconceptions of outcome. I was a little surprised when my little guy wretched up a white slug of jizm onto the inside of my underwear and my shirt. I think I was nervous about putting the soiled garments in the laundry lest my naughty behavior be discovered, and I may have hid them. (I know, in hipster lingo, TMI.)

First sex, both receiving oral and vaginal, was at 18. First giving oral was a few year's later.

 

[infinity706]

You, actually-- have a really fascinating story.

Yeah, but it gets more fascinating when you get into the why of how things ended up that way.

Yeah, I think I would have been about 16 or 17 or so.

I would have had my first real kiss at about 18.

And 20 when I lost my virginity. It was alright. It didn't hurt, I'd already popped my own cherry during my 'let's see what I can fit in my pussy and how it feels' phase.

It would have been nearly 2 years before I had sex again. I had a couple of random hookups, then entered a 5 year, essentially sexless relationship, that included a few random adventures along the way.

When I met Mr, I think I could count all my actual sex experiences on both hands, and I was 28 years old.

My first kiss was actually at 5. We're talking full on french kissing. (it's too bad she moved away) Sadly, I only had one other female friend until highschool. A lot of that was due to health problems that got me a rediculous amount of teasing and turned me into the the class hermit. I also had growth problems due to all the medicines I had to take. I ended up smaller than my youngest brother (6 years younger) and had to be developed with steroids. Of course, things didn't really get straightened out until my junior and senior year of highschool. By then, I developed and serveral of the girls that had treated me like shit for years started asking me out. I turned them all down, though. Of course, I did have one female friend in highschool, but we were sort of 'girlfriends.' Besides, she was after my younger brother who told her "he wouldn't date her if she was the last woman on the planet" since she was bisexual and polyamorous. I also found some of my mom's erotic novels my senior year, as well. She's 'anti porn,' yet has books about women going to sex clubs, fucking other women (sometimes multiple at once), doing BDSM, fucking dogs, bananas, vibrators, dildos, being split-roasted, deep throating, getting double penetrated, having sex on drugs, getting raped, and becoming top dollar pornstars. (Of course, I found out years later, that my parents are polyamorous and knew a ton about sex, despite the fact that they pretended not to) I actually wasn't that intimidated by the exposure to that much kink at once, though. The only thing that bothered me was oral, since it involved putting your mouth on someone's pisser. Needless to say, though, it led me to start researching sex as soon as I went to college and had access to the internet. I also watched porn for the first time. I really jumped into everything but gay porn, since gays/lesbians were gross. That and the oral sex went straight out the window when I, for some reason, decided to accept a proposition from a guy, though. That really changed my perception of guys, as well, and I started looking at them the same way I'd looked at women for a couple years before that. Over the next few years, though, things kind of snowballed. It wasn't long before I started cruising for cock/cunt, having glory hole experiences, doing BDSM, and just about anything you can think of. I can only imagine what might have happened in all those wasted years. It might be for the better, though, because I didn't turn into a slutcicle until I could be responsible for birth control and condom use.

I so could have had the head cheerleader of the football team, back when I was in the 8th grade, though. (8th grade was the start of highschool) I just didn't know it at the time. I know this because she quite literally asked me to come over to her house and she would ride me like a cowgirl, all night long. Back then, though, I didn't know what that meant and I was highly embarassed that a girl was talking to me. Of course, I'm not sure what would have happened, since I was still prepubescent and had a 3 inch dick that I didn't even know how it worked. (I know I must have had about 3 inches because I did a few years later, when I first started getting developed with steroids) If only I could go back there with what I know now, though... Sadly, I could have had the head cheerleader of my highschool class as well, but I didn't know it until it was too late. (I could have had double digits worth of others in highschool, including the valdedictorian from what I found out, talking to people a couple years later) I actually could have had that same valdedictorian in college, as well, since we went to the same school. I just totally fucked it up because I was just starting my education in matters of sex and relationships. I would also go on to burn a few more opportunities, but serveral of them were because I was worried about crushing someone's feelings.

 

[FurryFury]

My dates / ages on most of these things is hazy at best. I know I was doing things but can't say what ages. I do have a clear memory of self pleasuring in 5th grade due to the house. I know I did things before then too but can't date them.

Around 16 I was dating much older men who loved to make out and give me oral. I'm big into reciprocation so I probably did. Then again I also thought it was gross and horrible so I might not have.

Virginity went to date rape at 21.

Then came love and a baby carriage. LOL.

 

[kinky_caligirl]

This OP has been on all the forums asking the same leading questions to get people's experiences, with no attempt made at any kind of discussion. £10 says it's really a guy trolling for wank fodder.

well first I am new here and just wanted to know, and I am female. I am not getting off on this per say. I find it interesting. but I am not masterbating to this. I am curious.

 

[kinky_caligirl]

This OP has been on all the forums asking the same leading questions to get people's experiences, with no attempt made at any kind of discussion. £10 says it's really a guy trolling for wank fodder.

and how would I make this a discussion.

 

[satindesire]

This OP has been on all the forums asking the same leading questions to get people's experiences, with no attempt made at any kind of discussion. £10 says it's really a guy trolling for wank fodder.

I concur and that is exactly why I have not volunteered my rather interesting story to this thread. :/

 

[infinity706]

I concur and that is exactly why I have not volunteered my rather interesting story to this thread. :/

Well, the OP is possibly a troll, but you could always share it with the people that appreciate you, anyway.

 

[kinky_caligirl]

Well, the OP is possibly a troll, but you could always share it with the people that appreciate you, anyway.

whats an OP?

 

[satindesire]

Well, the OP is possibly a troll, but you could always share it with the people that appreciate you, anyway.

You don't appreciate me! You don't say thank you when I clean the kitchen for you, and you've NEVER gotten me flowers!

*runs off crying*

 

[midwestyankee]

whats an OP?

OP stands for Original Poster of the thread in question (or, alternatively, Original Post). In this case, it's you.

 

[kinky_caligirl]

OP stands for Original Poster of the thread in question (or, alternatively, Original Post). In this case, it's you.

ah. Thank you. not that I am concerned about what people are saying about me or this thread. but is there a way to "confirm" that I am female? and what not.

 

[midwestyankee]

ah. Thank you. not that I am concerned about what people are saying about me or this thread. but is there a way to "confirm" that I am female? and what not.

All we have is your word that what you say and the picture you post in your profile is accurate. I could tell you here that I was the second son of Bob Dylan from his affair with Jackie Kennedy and you would have no more and no less evidence than we have to believe you.

Around here, we earn trust by our behavior with respect to one another. I think you'll find that that's the way the rest of the world works, too.

 

[kinky_caligirl]

All we have is your word that what you say and the picture you post in your profile is accurate. I could tell you here that I was the second son of Bob Dylan from his affair with Jackie Kennedy and you would have no more and no less evidence than we have to believe you.

Around here, we earn trust by our behavior with respect to one another. I think you'll find that that's the way the rest of the world works, too.

well hell I know thats how the rest of the world works. I am new here and am just getting to know how things work around here.

 

[infinity706]

You don't appreciate me! You don't say thank you when I clean the kitchen for you, and you've NEVER gotten me flowers!

*runs off crying*

 

[midwestyankee]

well hell I know thats how the rest of the world works. I am new here and am just getting to know how things work around here.

Why would you come here thinking that things here work differently than elsewhere in the world? What kind of prejudgment is that?

 

[WriterDom]

Etoile will fuss about lit rules if she sees this thread. But I won't tell.