How old were you when....?

[kinky_caligirl]

Why would you come here thinking that things here work differently than elsewhere in the world? What kind of prejudgment is that?

I didn't come here thinking that. some sites are run differently, I am just getting a feel for the land.

 

[kinky_caligirl]

Etoile will fuss about lit rules if she sees this thread. But I won't tell.

whats wrong with it?

 

[FloggingMolly]

I'm guessing the fact that almost all of us were under 18? Lit has rules regarding no descrptions of sex wth minors IIRC

 

[satindesire]

I'm guessing the fact that almost all of us were under 18? Lit has rules regarding no descrptions of sex wth minors IIRC

And that's the SECOND reason why I didn't mention my story.

I didn't want to get into boo boo with Etoile.

 

[coastal-boy]

And that's the SECOND reason why I didn't mention my story.

I didn't want to get into boo boo with Etoile.

but you can always PM me your story

 

[kinky_caligirl]

I have read the rules, and what I originally wanted, asked for was ages not stories depicting how it went down. not that I mind that.

 

[satindesire]

I have read the rules, and what I originally wanted, asked for was ages not stories depicting how it went down. not that I mind that.

Even MENTIONING the fact that underage sex happened is against site rules.

but you can always PM me your story

My stories are interesting, but hardly erotic. Especially seeing as how my first three sexual partners didn't even know what a clitoris was and didn't bother listening to me when I explained what I needed sexually. *shrugs*

 

[infinity706]

Even MENTIONING the fact that underage sex happened is against site rules.



My stories are interesting, but hardly erotic. Especially seeing as how my first three sexual partners didn't even know what a clitoris was and didn't bother listening to me when I explained what I needed sexually. *shrugs*

It's actually not much of a violation of the spirit of the rules, though. It's not glorifying adults having sex with minors. It's not encouraging anyone to do so, either. It's just a historical chronology of things that happened years ago. It doesn't even go as far as a scientific study, which would interview minors, for accuracy, as well, as to identify current trends. The results of said studies are published in journals, as well as magazines, news papers, blogs, news channels, and publically discussed.

2. You may not post sexually explicit pictures or stories featuring anyone under 18 years old. Literotica does not allow the posting of underage or animal sex pictures - or links to such - on the forum. Please Click Here for our full photo posting guidelines.

This is actually the only rule I could find now, anyway. I guess the rules have changed since I joined years ago, because hardcore porn used to be banned as well as closeup genital shots.

As for your negative experiences, though, I think you might be pleasantly surprised when the younger generation starts emerging on lit. All the research indicates that oral for both boys and girls is becoming a prerequisite for dating/hookups, nevermind a relationship. Of course, it's also gravitated to the Clinton standard that oral doesn't even count as sex anymore. Nowdays, your clit would probably get more attention from a guy (or woman) you hooked up with in the bathroom than you got years ago. Who knows, if you ever got divorced sometime this decade, you could probably pick up some 18 year old guy that's never had 'sex' and get quite a clit licking.

 

[kinky_caligirl]

It's actually not much of a violation of the spirit of the rules, though. It's not glorifying adults having sex with minors. It's not encouraging anyone to do so, either. It's just a historical chronology of things that happened years ago. It doesn't even go as far as a scientific study, which would interview minors, for accuracy, as well, as to identify current trends. The results of said studies are published in journals, as well as magazines, news papers, blogs, news channels, and publically discussed.


This is actually the only rule I could find now, anyway. I guess the rules have changed since I joined years ago, because hardcore porn used to be banned as well as closeup genital shots.

As for your negative experiences, though, I think you might be pleasantly surprised when the younger generation starts emerging on lit. All the research indicates that oral for both boys and girls is becoming a prerequisite for dating/hookups, nevermind a relationship. Of course, it's also gravitated to the Clinton standard that oral doesn't even count as sex anymore. Nowdays, your clit would probably get more attention from a guy (or woman) you hooked up with in the bathroom than you got years ago. Who knows, if you ever got divorced sometime this decade, you could probably pick up some 18 year old guy that's never had 'sex' and get quite a clit licking.

Thank you.

 

[satindesire]

As for your negative experiences, though, I think you might be pleasantly surprised when the younger generation starts emerging on lit. All the research indicates that oral for both boys and girls is becoming a prerequisite for dating/hookups, nevermind a relationship. Of course, it's also gravitated to the Clinton standard that oral doesn't even count as sex anymore. Nowdays, your clit would probably get more attention from a guy (or woman) you hooked up with in the bathroom than you got years ago. Who knows, if you ever got divorced sometime this decade, you could probably pick up some 18 year old guy that's never had 'sex' and get quite a clit licking.

Umm...yeah. :/

I'm not really sure why, but that made me super uncomfortable and I'd really like it if you never said that to me again.

 

[infinity706]

Ok, that's fine with me. Of course, it was hypothetical, anyway. I actually doubt you're at much of a risk of a divorce. I'm not sure why the 18 year old part would make you uncomfortable, though. I'm pretty sure you were the one that mentioned if you weren't married, you wouldn't mind showing young guys how to handle women, so I sort of assumed it would involve live demonstration, not just some kind of lecture session.

 

[Kikori]

Can't remember my first orgasm... It was a wet dream, I remember that much. Happened quite often, since I didn't start masturbation until about 17.

 

[satindesire]

Ok, that's fine with me. Of course, it was hypothetical, anyway. I actually doubt you're at much of a risk of a divorce. I'm not sure why the 18 year old part would make you uncomfortable, though. I'm pretty sure you were the one that mentioned if you weren't married, you wouldn't mind showing young guys how to handle women, so I sort of assumed it would involve live demonstration, not just some kind of lecture session.

It was a combination of things. Not only is the idea of having sex with an 18 year old kid make me want to vomit, but the mention of divorcing my husband makes me incredibly, incredibly sad.

ETA: No big deal, just, you know. Keep that in mind in the future. I'm not mad at you or anything. <3

 

[infinity706]

Yeah, I'll keep that in mind, but you might want to remember that age is just a number. In general, sex with someone that young isn't worth it, but there might be some young stud someday, that might rock your world. I generally go for 35+, so I can see where you're coming from, though.

 

[midwestyankee]

Yeah, I'll keep that in mind, but you might want to remember that age is just a number. In general, sex with someone that young isn't worth it, but there might be some young stud someday, that might rock your world. I generally go for 35+, so I can see where you're coming from, though.

Dude, please take the honorable position here and just let your apology and some silence do your work. The more you hammer on this point the more your apology looks like a used car salesman's promise that the car was only ever driven on Sunday by a church-going grandmother.

 

[infinity706]

Dude, please take the honorable position here and just let your apology and some silence do your work. The more you hammer on this point the more your apology looks like a used car salesman's promise that the car was only ever driven on Sunday by a church-going grandmother.

I don't know why, but that made me laugh harder than anything so far, today.

 

[midwestyankee]

I don't know why, but that made me laugh harder than anything so far, today.

I suppose that it must be hard to imagine the 2,000 year old man using "Dude."

 

[satindesire]

Yeah, I'll keep that in mind, but you might want to remember that age is just a number. In general, sex with someone that young isn't worth it, but there might be some young stud someday, that might rock your world. I generally go for 35+, so I can see where you're coming from, though.

Okay, not everyone believes that age is "just a number". I fully realize that there is a possibility that I might lose the dearest and most wonderful person I know to some tragic circumstances, leaving me single, BUT I DON'T WANT TO THINK ABOUT THAT.

Dude, please take the honorable position here and just let your apology and some silence do your work. The more you hammer on this point the more your apology looks like a used car salesman's promise that the car was only ever driven on Sunday by a church-going grandmother.

.......thank you.

 

[kinky_caligirl]

Okay, not everyone believes that age is "just a number". I fully realize that there is a possibility that I might lose the dearest and most wonderful person I know to some tragic circumstances, leaving me single, BUT I DON'T WANT TO THINK ABOUT THAT.

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I completely agree with you

 

[PolyLvr]

I was always a sensualist.
The earliest I can remember a fascination beyond mere curiosity with other's bodies was around 6.
First real kiss, around 11.
First masturbation, not to completion, around 11.
First cunnilingus, 13.

The following could be considered abuse, since they involved brainwashing and deceit.

First masturbation to completion, 15.
First blowjob (received), 15. About 5 minutes after ^ that.
First intercourse, 15. About 5 minutes after ^ that.
First MMF threesome, 15. About 8 hrs after ^ that.

The list continues.
First public sex (masturbation) 18.
First blowjob (given), 19.
First FFM threesome, 20.

First anal given 25.
First anal received 26.
First swap 28.

 

[infinity706]

Okay, not everyone believes that age is "just a number". I fully realize that there is a possibility that I might lose the dearest and most wonderful person I know to some tragic circumstances, leaving me single, BUT I DON'T WANT TO THINK ABOUT THAT.



.......thank you.

Sorry about that. I didn't mean to traumatize you. *infinity706 tapes mouth shut*

 

[RawHumor]

This OP has been on all the forums asking the same leading questions to get people's experiences, with no attempt made at any kind of discussion. £10 says it's really a guy trolling for wank fodder.

She's got over 20 posts in this thread. If that's not contributing to the discussion, then what is?

 

[Essene]

20 BDSM-I had a revelation that was inspired by a paper I was writing on the themes in "Wuthering Heights".

 

[where]

I was 9 for masterbating, 10 almost 11 for my first orgasm, and I am a virgin.

what about you?

and I am waiting till I get married. but I have gone as far as oral sex then made a promise not too till I get married.

ooh very good add on Cattypuss.
I was 15-ish when I got into BDSM

my first hand job was 14, first gining of head was 18(male) as was my first "official" BDSM experiance.
but at 13 I was rolling in the hay with girls.

my first being a dom was 13, first foursome was 18, and I have never "truely" been a sub as of yet.

soooo you are a 20 yo virgin but you have had oral sex at 15 and then 18 which is when you also had a foursome and BDSM although you were into BDSM at 15?

why do I smell eau du merde?

This OP has been on all the forums asking the same leading questions to get people's experiences, with no attempt made at any kind of discussion. £10 says it's really a guy trolling for wank fodder.

I concur and that is exactly why I have not volunteered my rather interesting story to this thread. :/

Heh... glad it's not just me.

 

[kinky_caligirl]

soooo you are a 20 yo virgin but you have had oral sex at 15 and then 18 which is when you also had a foursome and BDSM although you were into BDSM at 15?

why do I smell eau du merde?

translation?