How should I finish a handjob?

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I like it when the person giving the handjob slows way down and jacks until I can’t take any more. Speed is the keep for me. Also my wife stops too soon. I always have to say please keep going. In 40 years she has never understood. And finally, I think a good handjob is better than sex sometimes.
 
As many answers as there are men it appears!

I like it when the person giving the handjob slows way down and jacks until I can’t take any more. Speed is the keep for me. Also my wife stops too soon. I always have to say please keep going. In 40 years she has never understood. And finally, I think a good handjob is better than sex sometimes.
In a sexless marriage. My wife handjob - when i can get one is like she's wash the dishes...Not sure i agree about a good hand job is better than sex...
 
I have been lurking on these forums for a while, but this is my first time posting here. Anyways I am curious, how do most guys like to be finished off when getting a handjob? And do most guys want you to stop right when they start to ejaculate, or keep going until it stops shooting out?

In my last relationship, I only did handjobs. Right after he would start to ejaculate, he would make me stop moving my hand completely, and just hold his penis near the bottom while he was cumming. I know that in porn though, most guys seem to keep masturbating their penis until they finish ejaculating. I tried a few times to keep stroking my ex like that while he was cumming but he would always grab my hand to keep it still, and said guys really don't need or want to be stimulated while they're ejaculating.

So, I thought I would ask here to see what most guys prefer (or what your partners prefer, for my fellow women), so that next time I do give a guy a handjob I'll be a bit better prepared lol. Appreciate the advice!

I have been lurking on these forums for a while, but this is my first time posting here. Anyways I am curious, how do most guys like to be finished off when getting a handjob? And do most guys want you to stop right when they start to ejaculate, or keep going until it stops shooting out?

In my last relationship, I only did handjobs. Right after he would start to ejaculate, he would make me stop moving my hand completely, and just hold his penis near the bottom while he was cumming. I know that in porn though, most guys seem to keep masturbating their penis until they finish ejaculating. I tried a few times to keep stroking my ex like that while he was cumming but he would always grab my hand to keep it still, and said guys really don't need or want to be stimulated while they're ejaculating.

So, I thought I would ask here to see what most guys prefer (or what your partners prefer, for my fellow women), so that next time I do give a guy a handjob I'll be a bit better prepared lol. Appreciate the advice!
Your last relationship likes his hjobs exactly the same way as my husband. I'm suspicious 😅
 
Finally, the ultimate way to finish a hand job is for her to position herself in a way that allows her to guide my dick into her pussy at the exact second I begin cumming so that as my dick begins to twitch and spurt, it happens inside her.
This.
 
I have been lurking on these forums for a while, but this is my first time posting here. Anyways I am curious, how do most guys like to be finished off when getting a handjob? And do most guys want you to stop right when they start to ejaculate, or keep going until it stops shooting out?

In my last relationship, I only did handjobs. Right after he would start to ejaculate, he would make me stop moving my hand completely, and just hold his penis near the bottom while he was cumming. I know that in porn though, most guys seem to keep masturbating their penis until they finish ejaculating. I tried a few times to keep stroking my ex like that while he was cumming but he would always grab my hand to keep it still, and said guys really don't need or want to be stimulated while they're ejaculating.

So, I thought I would ask here to see what most guys prefer (or what your partners prefer, for my fellow women), so that next time I do give a guy a handjob I'll be a bit better prepared lol. Appreciate the advice!
Keep stroking and doing whatever you’re going with the other hand, playing with his balk etc, and after he cums just slow down but don’t stop, kiss him and ask how he feels, how he likes the hj, smile, be nice and fun.
 
I like her to keep stroking unless I want to cum on her tits. In that case, she can release my cock and I will do the rest. She says that most other men she "serviced" wanted the same thing. Only one wanted her to stop and squeeze the base of his cock.
 
When I was younger I was very sensitive after cumming. I still wanted to be jacked until I finished cumming, but it was uncomfortable afterward. Now, I want to be jacked before, during, and after, until I have finished all convulsions, and even then some more, especially if the other person gets off on cum, and loves seeing it all over my belly, my cock, and enjoys seeing it whipped to a froth. I can enjoy them keeping on until they are happy and ready to stop.
Love your thinking. She must be enthusiastic and love doing her way, way beyond cumming:)
 
If we decide its a handjob kind of night, my wife jacks me off, keeps goong while im cumming and until im hard again. And again. We usually do this until 3 or 4 ejaculations and im on the cusp of begging her to stop 🙂
 
mmm...

it depends but my two personal favourites are:

Long, wet and slow... just a nice constant pace with a little kick up to get over the line and then back to a slower tempo when it's passed the point of no return. Usually kissing my neck once I start to lose control of myself.

If it's a bit faster then stop and grip just before I blow, this creates a nice big cum shot
 
The key is communication. Tell your partner how you like it or ask them how they want it. Dont try to guess. It varies, my tip gets real sensitive after i cum and i hate guys who keep sucking the tip after stroking me until i cum. So i just tell them and wipe off the cum and feed it to them.
 
I like to be stroked slowly while throbbing in her/ his hand. I have only had a hand full of times when they have kept going and tried to get another one out of me. But I have always thought it was very hot when they wanted another load out of me.
 
I like to be stroked slowly while throbbing in her/ his hand. I have only had a hand full of times when they have kept going and tried to get another one out of me. But I have always thought it was very hot when they wanted another load out of me.
When any of my exs did that it was they were really into it but of course if you didn't cum another time it would have been hot
 
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