How should I finish a handjob?

[Bletdown2020]

When any of my exs did that it was they were really into it but of course if you didn't cum another time it would have been hot

Yes definitely I have had a lot of exs that thought cumming once, was enough. Sometimes it was but most of the time it would be hot to cum again or at least for them to try and make me cum again.

 

[Nellie60]

Yes definitely I have had a lot of exs that thought cumming once, was enough. Sometimes it was but most of the time it would be hot to cum again or at least for them to try and make me cum again.

Did you encourage it or did they wanted to try?

 

[Bletdown2020]

Did you encourage it or did they wanted to try?

i would tell them they could keep going but the thing is, to keep going they need to do more than give a hj and most of them didn’t want to be covered in cum and keep going, they didn’t like how it felt and were eager to get it off.

 

[AchtungNight]

Pretty typical- keep going till completion, smile throughout, tender tension. Clean up with tongue or warm wet cloth, you decide.

 

[Nellie60]

Pretty typical- keep going till completion, smile throughout, tender tension. Clean up with tongue or warm wet cloth, you decide.

Definitely use your tongue

 

[Deleted member 6666935]

Given how long it seems to take me to orgasm lately, I suspect that anyone who wants to try with me should get additional help!

Not that realistically that’s going to happen even in pert.

 

[Bigspurt]

With may men the hood becomes extremely ticklish at and immediately after an orgasm. That said, I would prefer stroking the shaft when I'm throbbing and maybe a lick or three of the cum as it cums out. Prior to that the head loves the swirling hand. Polishing the knob technique with sensual strokes in a rhythm maybe stopping to squeeze hard and stroke to bring out more precum.

 

[bondandmoneypenny]

My all time favorite.

BJ finish or Deep throating just as I start to cum.

Most definitely. Bond loves when I do that.

 

[Digrow4]

I think it’s obviously different for different men. But in my experience the thing they care the most about is that you keep pressure throughout the orgasm (don’t let go of it). Either keep stroking him or hold him tight. Men like when we make a big deal about their orgasm. Act exited and tell him how much he is cumming and what a good boy he is being. Then if you are comfortable with it, it’s polite to clean them off with your tounge.

 

[liftsupmyballsforu]

Play with behind his balls works every time

 

[Briant23232323]

I think it’s obviously different for different men. But in my experience the thing they care the most about is that you keep pressure throughout the orgasm (don’t let go of it). Either keep stroking him or hold him tight. Men like when we make a big deal about their orgasm. Act exited and tell him how much he is cumming and what a good boy he is being. Then if you are comfortable with it, it’s polite to clean them off with your tounge.

Seeing that tongue clean me up is so hot

 

[CuttingEdge]

My ex-wife used to give me a handjob, and after I erupted in cum, she used to lick it off my shaft and belly.

After about the third time, I asked her why, as I had gotten off already, and for me, the moment I do, I lose interest in sex for a while. She said it was not for that moment, but rather for the next time she gave me a hand job, I would know what she would do for a finish, and it would turn me on more.

Trust me, that made sense because when she gave me another one later, I was thinking of her licking it up, and that was a super turn-on!

 

[Nellie60]

My ex-wife used to give me a handjob, and after I erupted in cum, she used to lick it off my shaft and belly.

After about the third time, I asked her why, as I had gotten off already, and for me, the moment I do, I lose interest in sex for a while. She said it was not for that moment, but rather for the next time she gave me a hand job, I would know what she would do for a finish, and it would turn me on more.

Trust me, that made sense because when she gave me another one later, I was thinking of her licking it up, and that was a super turn-on!

Years ago I had a brief relationship with a woman who was sort of in a on and off relationship with her boyfriend. When it was my turn she also the same thing after a handjob. Pretty hot to watch.

 

[liftsupmyballsforu]

Do you enjoy jerking his cock off?

 

[Nellie60]

Do you enjoy jerking his cock off?

Oh no she performed the hj on me when it "was my turn with her" and licked my cum off my front just like she did with him says tells me. It was pretty erotic.

 

[fma20fma]

when you feel the penis getting stiffer and vibrating to indicate ejaculation starting, quickly take the penis tip in mouth and receive the semen in mouth, and when finished suck out the last drop, and swirl it in mouth enjoy the flavor and pulpy feel before swallowing slowly to thrill the guy.

 

[easyoff]

Finish with a snowball

 

[curioustxn]

I have been lurking on these forums for a while, but this is my first time posting here. Anyways I am curious, how do most guys like to be finished off when getting a handjob? And do most guys want you to stop right when they start to ejaculate, or keep going until it stops shooting out?

In my last relationship, I only did handjobs. Right after he would start to ejaculate, he would make me stop moving my hand completely, and just hold his penis near the bottom while he was cumming. I know that in porn though, most guys seem to keep masturbating their penis until they finish ejaculating. I tried a few times to keep stroking my ex like that while he was cumming but he would always grab my hand to keep it still, and said guys really don't need or want to be stimulated while they're ejaculating.

So, I thought I would ask here to see what most guys prefer (or what your partners prefer, for my fellow women), so that next time I do give a guy a handjob I'll be a bit better prepared lol. Appreciate the advice!

It depends entirely on the man. When some men ejaculate, it becomes extremely sensitive, to the point of almost being painful, and they want you to stop. Other men love the sensation, and want you to continue. You have to determine what the individual likes, and the best way to do that is ask him! No one here knows your man, or what he likes. Communication is the foundation of every male/female relationship. Ask your man. Most likely, if he is a good man, he will be impressed that you are taking an interest in what he likes.

 

[Mike_05]

How to if you were at a nude beach?

 

[jehoram]

How to if you were at a nude beach?

Under water, where nobody can see.

 

[Nellie60]

With may men the hood becomes extremely ticklish at and immediately after an orgasm. That said, I would prefer stroking the shaft when I'm throbbing and maybe a lick or three of the cum as it cums out. Prior to that the head loves the swirling hand. Polishing the knob technique with sensual strokes in a rhythm maybe stopping to squeeze hard and stroke to bring out more precum.

I agree with the twisting hand just after you cum hard alternating with slow strokes but for me she must finish very fast and continue as I cum for a few seconds before commencing that twisting motion....it draws out exquisite pleasure...

 

[Pad_Foot]

Get him close then work out how to finger him and stroke his prostate
Milk him dry

 

[bestkeptsecret678]

Call me a hopeless romantic… but,…
Beyond what ever physical technique is being applied “down below”, you should consider snuggling up close, holding his twitching body next to yours, breathing warm and hot on his neck, and saying softly, “ cum baby… cum for me.”

 

[Nellie60]

Call me a hopeless romantic… but,…
Beyond what ever physical technique is being applied “down below”, you should consider snuggling up close, holding his twitching body next to yours, breathing warm and hot on his neck, and saying softly, “ cum baby… cum for me.”

Perfect...love your thinking...and add kissing

 

[van_delay]

Perfect...love your thinking...and add kissing

Yes. The soft encouragement in my ear always sends me over the edge.