PoeticMusings53 said:
although you are entitled to your opinion and i do believe you have alot of truth in your statement, its not quite that simple. I doubt she would be thrilled if i was merely tried to have sex with her, not that i wouldnt mind, but our friendship would be LONG gone if she didnt feel the same way, and i dont want to lose a friendship over something like that.
Obviously our relationship is complex, maybe too complex, but what good relationship isnt? I think that merely letting her know how i feel is a good first step, and not just jumping into "hey let's have sex!". But that is the perogative of some, so i wont discredit it.
I think its merely a point of perspective, if you look through my eyes you would understand.
Plus, although i do enjoy alchohol to relax and veg out, i hardly think it is the good basis of a relationship, nor do i think roofies are.... but once again, to each his own, as it were.
