How to Enslave Women

[spyro1123]

Marketing isn't necessary'
Your attributes are obvious to those who see and understand

not to butt in, but i will, that could be the nicest thing i have seen said tonight

 

[Olivia_Yearns]

I don't know why someone would want to learn from an amateur like marquis when we have a proffessional right here on lit. Quoting from another thread:

Originally Posted by Olivia_Yearns
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From the day I got the kit, I've been humping up to two internet cocksluts a day. If it worked for me, it can work for you too.

 

[Freya]

SS has all the cool tricks.

 

[MechaBlade]

I think guys like that tend to scare some women, because at one time or another we've all fallen for that "Just really don't give a fuck about you" guy, and we all know that as painful as it might have been, it was also just a little bit exciting - and as much as we are strong, independent, confident creatures (heh), can we be totally sure that if another guy like that crossed our paths, he wouldn't get our motors running, just a wee bit?

I think you have the wrong idea about what he's trying to say. Maybe I'm wrong but it's not that he doesn't give a fuck about you; he's playing the game that you're playing, and he's making sure he stays ahead.

It is easy to enslave women, all you have to do is date them before me. Then when we break up they will go running back to you no matter what fucked up shit you did to them

Ouch, man. Let it all out.

Marketing isn't necessary'
Your attributes are obvious to those who see and understand

I wish that were true.

not to butt in, but i will, that could be the nicest thing i have seen said tonight

It is nice, isn't it?

 

[spyro1123]

Ouch, man. Let it all out.

Eh, I actually only said it because i am sure everyone has at least one of those in their past.

 

[Marquis]

And some women are the equivalent of mercury- you can't hold them, and attempting to consume them will poison you in a a most beautiful way.

I have met these as well, and I am learning better how to avoid them.

 

[Marquis]

I read the first post, and nothing else, so excuse me if it's been asked and answered but...

What exactly was the purpose, Marquis, of you posting this thread? Helping your fellow man? Showing you know all about women? I'm curious.

I'm curious as to why I'm constantly having to defend myself against having ulterior motives.

I have no agenda.

I wanted to share. That's all.

People keep asking me questions that were answered in the first post, like the answer is going to change.

 

[MechaBlade]

Eh, I actually only said it because i am sure everyone has at least one of those in their past.

Not me.

 

[Marquis]

Truth in advertising is my guess.

As someone said earlier, there's a certain type of woman that's attracted to him. With this thread, he lets out a little truth and women who are attracted to his type of personality contact him. Win win, really.

You're right, there are certain women who find my way of thinking appealing. I enjoy being close to these women, as much as anyone enjoys the company of someone who can appreciate their true self. There are more than a few women in this category on Lit, but if you think I spent all the time writing this to make new contacts you are misguided.

I'm often accused of trawling for chicks on lit, but nothing could be further from the truth. Lit is one of the shittiest environments for meeting women imaginable. MySpace on the other hand is my hunting ground, rich with game.

 

[Marquis]

Powerful stuff. I enjoyed the read, though it was not completely new to me. Your philosophies are a subset of the philosophies I use in my life. I am still on a more basic level, though. I'm learning how to dress well (fuckably) and be charming, skills that are new to me.

Although I appreciate the post and I anticipated some backlash, I didn't expect the flood of angry pissiness that immediately followed the post (well, not Luxey). Maybe I should have. Any guide to women--especially one that follows a domly model--will upset women who think they can not be grouped together, vanilla'ers who are shocked at D/s sexual preferences, romantics who don't realize it's but one strategy for dating, and pussified Lit men that either balk to show what "nice guys" they are or because they violently detest any show of masculine thought. I'm not sure about the last one; still figuring those guys out.

Anyway, thanks for the good post.

Thank you for your words as well.

 

[Marquis]

I think guys like that tend to scare some women, because at one time or another we've all fallen for that "Just really don't give a fuck about you" guy, and we all know that as painful as it might have been, it was also just a little bit exciting - and as much as we are strong, independent, confident creatures (heh), can we be totally sure that if another guy like that crossed our paths, he wouldn't get our motors running, just a wee bit?

I compensate for this.

 

[Marquis]

Thank you.

I like to think of myself as a good product, but I never knew how to market myself. You're hesitant to buy it, but if you do, you're happy with what you get. A bit of a sleeper hit, really.

I concentrate on improving my packaging. Wrapping myself in shiny, colorful paper. If nothing else, it will give me the confidence to continue advertising myself even when I'm continually passed over.

Marketing isn't necessary'
Your attributes are obvious to those who see and understand

Mecha, you know I have much respect for you. I was hoping I would be able to give out some advice in this thread, but I don't want you to feel like I am trying to be superior to you or anything like that. I appreciate our friendship and I know how annoying it can be to deal with someone like that, especially when you are a dominant personality.

We talked about this before, so I won't say any more on that.

You seem to have your ego well in check. This is going to be a tremendous asset to you. Realizing that you are not perfect, that you do need to change is the first step and you are obviously well on your way. Your description of having to market yourself well shows a lot of understanding of the fundamentals of the game.

In addition, I want to point out that the advice just pet is giving you is the worst possible advice imaginable. This is the crucial difference between what my mother would tell me and what other boys' mothers would tell them.

Are you just going to sit around and wait for those that "see and understand" to run into you randomly?!

Truly, those are the ones worthy of having your heart, but don't be afraid to let your dick make some friends in the mean time.

 

[MechaBlade]

Mecha, you know I have much respect for you. I was hoping I would be able to give out some advice in this thread, but I don't want you to feel like I am trying to be superior to you or anything like that. I appreciate our friendship and I know how annoying it can be to deal with someone like that, especially when you are a dominant personality.

We talked about this before, so I won't say any more on that.

You don't need to preface your words like this. I feel I know you well enough to know where you're coming from when you give advice/speak of dominance and dating.

In addition...

I already responded to pet, though I appreciate her kind words.

 

[siren319]

This post made me want to be a lesbian. I love dominant men, but I would happily challenge this idea that men are socially stronger. Maybe 50 years ago, but women are sick of your shit, pretty soon we're gonna have to lay down the law. We've always known we were better and stronger. So what if you can lift the sofa, we can crush you without lifting a finger, hell all we have to do is deny sex and you cave. Smarter, that's good too. Has anyone seen any women on Jackass?

 

[Marquis]

I already responded to pet, though I appreciate her kind words.

Yeah, I saw that after I posted.

In any case, I think you are doing the right thing getting your gear together.

I like to think of running game in three basic phases.

The audition phase, the negotiation phase and the closing phase.

Things like appearances count for a lot in the audition phase. You will not receive an audition if you cannot spark a female's interest. However, I personally know lots and lots of good looking and well dressed guys who cannot get past the negotiation phase. I also know a few very average guys who close with every audition they receive.

You are above average in the looks department, in my opinion. If you find you have a hard time getting auditions, I would think you might want to spend some time analyzing the way you walk, your posture, things like that. Women are excellent at picking up subtle clues like that. A Cavali shirt is a poor substitute for having your chin held high.

Personally, I feel more confident when I'm dressed better and that is reflected in all of my actions. However I have noticed that if I can conjure up the right confidence, what I'm wearing really doesn't matter at all. This becomes apparent when you go to pajama parties or white parties or flash parties or things like that where your wardrobe selection may be limited.

 

[gman23]

Anyone who has 40 condiments in their fridge is alright by me.

 

[Marquis]

Anyone who has 40 condiments in their fridge is alright by me.

Thanks.

Now that you mention it, I just bought a Thai Ginger and Coconut salad dressing that I've been dying to try. I think I shall make a romaine salad with bell pepper and shallots.

 

[gman23]

Thanks.

Now that you mention it, I just bought a Thai Ginger and Coconut salad dressing that I've been dying to try. I think I shall make a romaine salad with bell pepper and shallots.

I love Thai, I do a lot thai cooking, as well as indian, One of my fave meals is garlic naan with rice and about 7 indian condiments. Not much coking involved but tasty none the less.

 

[MechaBlade]

You are above average in the looks department, in my opinion.

Thanks.

Personally, I feel more confident when I'm dressed better and that is reflected in all of my actions.

Me too, very much so.

I got picked on a lot as a kid and half of the time, kids were picking on my clothes. One of the great pleasures of being a adult with a car and some money is I can pick out clothes that fit comfortably and pleasing to the eye.

Anyone who has 40 condiments in their fridge is alright by me.

Agreed.

 

[Marquis]

Me too, very much so.

I got picked on a lot as a kid and half of the time, kids were picking on my clothes.

This was me in high school, big time. My family was poor as fuck. My mom had a shitty job at the time and raising three kids is not easy, even with gov assistance. I had a job at McDonald's but I gave it to my mom to help pay bills.

No cds, no video games and no clothes.

I think I had 4 shirts at one point, literally, so one shirt would always have to be repeated at least once a week.

That shit was hard on the old self esteem.

One of the great pleasures of being a adult with a car and some money is I can pick out clothes that fit comfortably and pleasing to the eye.

It's a beautiful thing.

 

[MechaBlade]

This was me in high school, big time. My family was poor as fuck. My mom had a shitty job at the time and raising three kids is not easy, even with gov assistance. I had a job at McDonald's but I gave it to my mom to help pay bills.

No cds, no video games and no clothes.

I think I had 4 shirts at one point, literally, so one shirt would always have to be repeated at least once a week.

That shit was hard on the old self esteem.

Got-damn, I imagine so. Sounds like you were "salt soup" poor.

"This is good soup! Needs a little more salt, though." -D.L. Hughley

 

[gman23]

I need a list of the condiments though.That would really get me hot.

 

[Hester]

M certainly doesn't lack in the ego department, but i'd say overall he's a good guy. as much as people here like to criticize him, if it's ad hom stuff it will likely roll off his back and if it's genuine constructive criticism i'd bet you he'll look seriously at it (a trait most of us could use to emulate).

i wouldn't do well with a man like him in a romantic sense, and i don't think i'm alone in that assessment, but that doesn't mean i can't appreciate his posts and have no problem owning to a friendship of sorts with him. like all of my other friends (and me, too), he has his faults but he also has characteristics of value. and like him or not, he's an interesting character and knows how to stir himself some shit.

 

[Recidiva]

I have met these as well, and I am learning better how to avoid them.

*starts to giggle*

 

[Freya]

I compensate for this.

For what? Not caring?