How to: Make a move

[SweetErika]

I don't know why people don't understand, I am not going to kiss her. I highly doubt I would, only because a) I never have kissed someone and b) she has told me before, she hates me when people try and kiss her for no reason.

We are suppose to talk this weekend. We shall see how it goes.


Ravin

I'm guessing most of us didn't understand because we can't recall your assertion that kissing was not an option before now. In general, when people have chemistry and a lot of physical contact, the next step is a kiss if they want the relationship to progress in some way. I suppose you could do the "I really like you" thing, but even with that, it's likely she'll expect a kiss sometime soon.

It might be wise to ask her about the "kissing for no reason" idea...I think you're probably misinterpreting it. Tell her you were talking to friends or saw an article and remember her mentioning it and would like to hear more of her thoughts (you'll get bonus points for remembering and valuing her ideas). Of course talking about it could possibly lead to her kissing you, so...

 

[Ravin the Poet]

UPDATE



Last night we hanged out and today, well my arm is destoryed. She decided to go WAY TO FAR in the play fighting IMO, and I think it's gone far enough. I am telling her I need to talk and figuring this out. Because as much as I don't mind the small scratching and playing, I don't need deep cuts on my arms and if this is flirting, I DON'T WANT PART IN IT!

I am starting to think it would be best if I moved on.


Ravin

 

[Mad101Dan]

I don't know why people don't understand, I am not going to kiss her. I highly doubt I would, only because a) I never have kissed someone and b) she has told me before, she hates me when people try and kiss her for no reason.

We are suppose to talk this weekend. We shall see how it goes.


Ravin

A. All the more reason to.

B. You do have a reason, you like her.

A kiss is the only way you are going to change from your friendship, to where you want to be. Its very exciting as well, nothing like getting your heart beating for a few mins.

As the saying goes (and I mean this nicely) its time to shit or get off of the pot.



Dan