Humiliation ideas

[Iwillgo]

I like being dressed in black...all they can see is that beautiful body of yours as my silk palmed gloves with white leds on to top of hands carefully caressing your most sensitive non-private parts that only you and I know because we both love having a good time and watching you squirming in pure physiological and physical pleasure. Its our version of the best holiday show ever. Don't forget we've yet to reveal your other new led toy....

Okay honey...enough of the balcony. Our guests are arriving soon and I need to get you in position for some Xmas bdsm party pleasure.

 

[kylie74]

Okay honey...enough of the balcony. Our guests are arriving soon and I need to get you in position for some Xmas bdsm party pleasure.

my eyes light up
GUESTS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

 

[Iwillgo]

Xmas bondage

my eyes light up
GUESTS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

You know you want it, you need it. You specifically asked for this for Xmas for months and i love giving you what you want. You mean the world to me but you can be very hard to shop for and i appreciated the transparency this year.. Now let me get you tied up and ready for our guests.

 

[Iwillgo]

my eyes light up
GUESTS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Last night was fun and your ability to be on display and used for all of our guests pleasure makes us the best party organizers.
We've laid in bed listening to the waves this morning as the sun woke us and laid there watching it come up. Then we had that nice walk on the beach to exersize and get some breakfast. Now its time to relax by the pool, perhaps the hot tub and wear something loose as you will have your new waterproof lelo inserted. Of course I have the remote. Now please go mix us a couple drinks while I gather our towels and sunscreen. I'll will apply your sunscreen down at the pool for all to see. Can never be to safe from those harmful rays.

 

[CFNMhubby]

Submissives should do what they can to serve their Domme. I have made mine hold my purse, tie my shoes, clean my shoes, kneel for other reasons randomly, and all of that is a public and neutral display of his humiliation and service to me. Men can do plenty outside of the societal norm to submit to their Domme. Great suggestions here already, just wanted to add in my two cents.

One of my Ex girlfriends LOVED making me hold her purse in public and she was very much aware of societal norms. She liked that I was publicly displaying that for her and it makes sense after hearing this. Submissive should absolutely hold their woman’s purse in public so everyone can see.

 

[seela]

One of my Ex girlfriends LOVED making me hold her purse in public and she was very much aware of societal norms. She liked that I was publicly displaying that for her and it makes sense after hearing this. Submissive should absolutely hold their woman’s purse in public so everyone can see.

Huh. I've never thought a man holding a woman's purse in public is somehow submissive or humiliating. Is this an American thing or a global thing that I'm just not aware of? Why is it "bad" for a man to hold the purse? What societal norms are there that I'm not in on?

This and women being without a bra being considered slutty are maybe the biggest surprises I've had on Lit.

 

[IrisAlthea]

This is something I've never understood about my fellow males.

Your girlfriend asks you, the boyfriend, to hold her purse while she tries on some clothes in the dept store. She is not physically in your presence and thus you are alone holding a purse.

Many guys I know will whine and gripe (so manly) because it's a giiiiirl's purse. They don't want to carry an overt symbol of femininity for, well, fuck if I can get a rational explanation.

Maybe they worry about other men seeing them and, uh, picking on them? My thoughts on that are "I have a woman that trusts me enough to hold her purse. I rate. Rawr."

Maybe they worry about associating with said overt symbol of the distaff side and thus hampering their male image? Me, I look at myself critically and realise that I do not express any sort of sexual identity other than straight dude, and am comfortable in my sexuality. I don't feel challenged because I hold a purse.

I don't get it. Honestly. There is nothing wrong with women. I rather enjoy them. Whey would I want to avoid some symbol of femininity? Why would I worry about these things if I am solid in my own identity. Makes me wonder about my friends that do gripe about such things.

I have met lots of women who don´t want their man to hold the purse.
Makes me wonder how they look at masculinity and at their man.

Or money!

Huh. I've never thought a man holding a woman's purse in public is somehow submissive or humiliating. Is this an American thing or a global thing that I'm just not aware of? Why is it "bad" for a man to hold the purse? What societal norms are there that I'm not in on?

This and women being without a bra being considered slutty are maybe the biggest surprises I've had on Lit.

Yup, it’s a thing for some. I remember discussing it here before, hence the quotes.
I like Homburgs take on it. I guess the part about being secure in your own identity might be the key.
My husband tends to joke about being proud of being strong enough to hold my purse.

This is one of the things where I think there is a cultural difference in different parts of the world. Another thing here that surprised me was a thread from ages ago about ordering for your date. I was totally confused about how controversial it turned out to be. It wasn’t at all what I would have suspected.

 

[seela]

Yup, it’s a thing for some. I remember discussing it here before, hence the quotes.
I like Homburgs take on it. I guess the part about being secure in your own identity might be the key.
My husband tends to joke about being proud of being strong enough to hold my purse.

This is one of the things where I think there is a cultural difference in different parts of the world. Another thing here that surprised me was a thread from ages ago about ordering for your date. I was totally confused about how controversial it turned out to be. It wasn’t at all what I would have suspected.

Live and learn! What I’d do without Lit, I do not know.

 

[TANSTAAFL58]

Huh. I've never thought a man holding a woman's purse in public is somehow submissive or humiliating. Is this an American thing or a global thing that I'm just not aware of? Why is it "bad" for a man to hold the purse? What societal norms are there that I'm not in on?

This and women being without a bra being considered slutty are maybe the biggest surprises I've had on Lit.

Yup, it’s a thing for some. I remember discussing it here before, hence the quotes.
I like Homburgs take on it. I guess the part about being secure in your own identity might be the key.
My husband tends to joke about being proud of being strong enough to hold my purse.

This is one of the things where I think there is a cultural difference in different parts of the world. Another thing here that surprised me was a thread from ages ago about ordering for your date. I was totally confused about how controversial it turned out to be. It wasn’t at all what I would have suspected.

Live and learn! What I’d do without Lit, I do not know.

A Canadian Distillery used that very idea in a TV commercial a few years back:
https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=DuScm9FZPmQ

 

[seela]

A Canadian Distillery used that very idea in a TV commercial a few years back:
https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=DuScm9FZPmQ

Strange. I asked J and he’s never heard of this before, let alone felt this way about sometimes having to hold my purse when we’re out and about.