Humiliation?

[SissyBJBitch]

She looks incredibly sexy

Indeed, so hot!

 

[humiliatemepiggy]

Love this thread,,,bump

 

[petes478]

Anyone into humiliation as their primary fetish? Don't get me wrong I love so many things, but nothing puts me over the edge like being degraded and humiliated in the most cruel and mean ways. Am I alone?

I like putting the girl upside down on the edge of the bed throat fucking her making her choke on my cum and watch her saliva and my seed drip out her mouth rolling up her face to her hair to the floor taking off her mascara etc seeing her a mess. My mess. My fucktoy an cum depository.

 

[MeganFachs]

Seems wildly off topic…

 

[babygirl4u1966]

I like putting the girl upside down on the edge of the bed throat fucking her making her choke on my cum and watch her saliva and my seed drip out her mouth rolling up her face to her hair to the floor taking off her mascara etc seeing her a mess. My mess. My fucktoy an cum depository.

This could be humiliating if done in front of friends and I was obviously enjoying it and craving the abuse

 

[MeganFachs]

Once I was getting ready to suck my wife’s strapon. She was wearing baggy sweatpants and a wifebeater. Shes standing up in front of her chair recording me with her phone and I was on my knees. I rub the large bulge that is protruding from under her sweatpants. I pull them down and pull out the biggest most realistic strapon I’ve ever seen. I was taken back. She then sits in her chair. I didn’t know what to do until she told me to blow her. When she showed me the video my face turned bright red and I didn’t look her in the eye like I normally do.

You know how something that is otherwise rather erotic can be ruined by choosing a hate word? Why is “wifebeater” an apparently acceptable term especially used in such a stunningly casual way? It’s a “tank top”. You didn’t need “wife eater.” Is it just a symptom of Lit’s high male to female ratio? No excuse.

 

[IrisAlthea]

You know how something that is otherwise rather erotic can be ruined by choosing a hate word? Why is “wifebeater” an apparently acceptable term especially used in such a stunningly casual way? It’s a “tank top”. You didn’t need “wife eater.” Is it just a symptom of Lit’s high male to female ratio? No excuse.

”Wifebeater” was not something people decided to call it to imply that beating your wife.
If hateful, then actually more toward men who would lounge around in their undershirt and pants, in a time when that was not something to wear in polite company.

It might possibly be an indication of the age ratio, but it would never have entered my mind as a woman to be offended by someone using that word.

 

[Dapperguy]

I like putting the girl upside down on the edge of the bed throat fucking her making her choke on my cum and watch her saliva and my seed drip out her mouth rolling up her face to her hair to the floor taking off her mascara etc seeing her a mess. My mess. My fucktoy a cum depository.

Calm down, Old Chum, we get your drift.

 

[Goldenfinger]

You know how something that is otherwise rather erotic can be ruined by choosing a hate word? Why is “wifebeater” an apparently acceptable term especially used in such a stunningly casual way? It’s a “tank top”. You didn’t need “wife eater.” Is it just a symptom of Lit’s high male to female ratio? No excuse.

My wife calls it a wifebeater. I’m sorry you don’t like the slang name of a shirt. My terminology for that particular garment isn’t a symptom of the male to female ratio it’s more of a sign of age. A slang word that is still used but was popular in the late 80s and 90s.

 

[Goldenfinger]

”Wifebeater” was not something people decided to call it to imply that beating your wife.
If hateful, then actually more toward men who would lounge around in their undershirt and pants, in a time when that was not something to wear in polite company.

It might possibly be an indication of the age ratio, but it would never have entered my mind as a woman to be offended by someone using that word.

Thank You.

 

[lowcollar]

I love a lot of things that would be considered humiliating: being urinated on and in, spit on, farted on, called riduculing names, forced to walk like a girl, required to wear panties to work under my work clothes, licking her spit off the floor etc. All of it is exhilirating.

 

[Bettytheboo]

You know how something that is otherwise rather erotic can be ruined by choosing a hate word? Why is “wifebeater” an apparently acceptable term especially used in such a stunningly casual way? It’s a “tank top”. You didn’t need “wife eater.” Is it just a symptom of Lit’s high male to female ratio? No excuse.

Just because you cancel a name of a garment because it's not acceptable doesn't make the act of violence disappear. Wife beating will be a thing long after I'm gone and forgotten, a wifebeater top doesn't infer the person wearing it abuses his, or her wife.

Personally, I'd like to keep the term as it happens and shouldn't be swept under the carpet, also; lets not forget while we're on the subject, women who beat and mentally abuse their husbands as well. It happens, making the term offensive is like trying to cure cancer by cancelling it's name.

In the context inside literorica, I find the menace erotic, I like roleplay and being dominated and degraded. If the term was used outside these boundaries I would have a problem.

 

[Darkrhytm]

Just because you cancel a name of a garment because it's not acceptable doesn't make the act of violence disappear. Wife beating will be a thing long after I'm gone and forgotten, a wifebeater top doesn't infer the person wearing it abuses his, or her wife.

Personally, I'd like to keep the term as it happens and shouldn't be swept under the carpet, also; lets not forget while we're on the subject, women who beat and mentally abuse their husbands as well. It happens, making the term offensive is like trying to cure cancer by cancelling it's name.

In the context inside literorica, I find the menace erotic, I like roleplay and being dominated and degraded. If the term was used outside these boundaries I would have a problem.

Can you tell me more about the difference within Lit and outside?

 

[KRey32]

I'm just beginning to explore my understanding of humiliation, and what it means for me. For me good sex is all in the mind and I think humiliation can play a part in making it more intense.

Like some previous posters, I wouldn't want to experience any kind of extreme humiliation. However, humiliation can really turn me on in my fantasies, while I know that the reality of those experiences would be quite horrid.

In my experiences, it is exciting when it creeps up unexpected, when he does or says something that suddenly makes me feel just a little bit 'worthless'. But if enjoy it, is it really humiliation!?

This! Good sex is all in the mind. It is so nice to hear someone say that!

 

[Bettytheboo]

Can you tell me more about the difference within Lit and outside?

To me Litorica is mostly fantasy, an exploration of different sexual fetishes and kinks.
Outside Litorica is real and boring to me; here, and in my bedroom is where I can explore my sexuality without being arrested.

 

[Submissivepat]

I am so into being humiliated. If it was in front of a group, that was the best.

 

[Older_Pervert]

To me Litorica is mostly fantasy, an exploration of different sexual fetishes and kinks.
Outside Litorica is real and boring to me; here, and in my bedroom is where I can explore my sexuality without being arrested.

I’m sure there are many other bedrooms where you’d be welcome betty!

 

[Scotchlander]

My wife calls it a wifebeater. I’m sorry you don’t like the slang name of a shirt. My terminology for that particular garment isn’t a symptom of the male to female ratio it’s more of a sign of age. A slang word that is still used but was popular in the late 80s and 90s.

What garment is a ‘wifebeater’?

In the UK a pint of Stella beer is called wifebeater. Simply because it’s stronger than the norm and many guys get very drunk on it.

 

[LustyScribe]

What garment is a ‘wifebeater’?

In the UK a pint of Stella beer is called wifebeater. Simply because it’s stronger than the norm and many guys get very drunk on it.

it's intended to be an undershirt, though in certain circumstances/socio-economic communities, it is seen worn as an outer garment. Used to be kind of a jab at people in that context.

 

[Scotchlander]

it's intended to be an undershirt, though in certain circumstances/socio-economic communities, it is seen worn as an outer garment. Used to be kind of a jab at people in that context.

In the Uk that’s a vest.

 

[LustyScribe]

In the Uk that’s a vest.

A vest here can be a sleeveless item worn under the coat of a 3pc suit, or an outer garment, like a jacket without sleeves. Crazy how language changes, isn't it?

 

[SissySalina]

it's intended to be an undershirt, though in certain circumstances/socio-economic communities, it is seen worn as an outer garment. Used to be kind of a jab at people in that context.

it use to be called a "tank top", started during WW2, worn by tankers for the hot interior f the tank!

 

[LustyScribe]

it use to be called a "tank top", started during WW2, worn by tankers for the hot interior f the tank!

Thank you! I did not know that was the origin of the term.

 

[TheMarksman]

Just because you cancel a name of a garment because it's not acceptable doesn't make the act of violence disappear. Wife beating will be a thing long after I'm gone and forgotten, a wifebeater top doesn't infer the person wearing it abuses his, or her wife.

Personally, I'd like to keep the term as it happens and shouldn't be swept under the carpet, also; lets not forget while we're on the subject, women who beat and mentally abuse their husbands as well. It happens, making the term offensive is like trying to cure cancer by cancelling it's name.

In the context inside literorica, I find the menace erotic, I like roleplay and being dominated and degraded. If the term was used outside these boundaries I would have a problem.

My tuppence worth:

Language matters.

While cancelling any word doesn’t make the act or the offence caused disappear - like cancelling “racism” doesn’t make racism disappear - I think there are some words (like the N-word, the P-word, etc…) that are so inherently offensive that their continued use can only be seen as normalising them or even making them acceptable. (I won’t digress into whether these terms can or should be acceptable to people on the receiving end…)

I’d never heard of the word wife-beater until fairly recently and I was immediately taken aback by it. Looking into its origin didn’t make me feel any more comfortable and I don’t think I’d use it - especially considering there’s a perfectly good alternative.

But that’s just me

 

[MeganFachs]

My tuppence worth:

Language matters.

While cancelling any word doesn’t make the act or the offence caused disappear - like cancelling “racism” doesn’t make racism disappear - I think there are some words (like the N-word, the P-word, etc…) that are so inherently offensive that their continued use can only be seen as normalising them or even making them acceptable. (I won’t digress into whether these terms can or should be acceptable to people on the receiving end…)

I’d never heard of the word wife-beater until fairly recently and I was immediately taken aback by it. Looking into its origin didn’t make me feel any more comfortable and I don’t think I’d use it - especially considering there’s a perfectly good alternative.

But that’s just me

Right on target, Marksman. Use of the term signals acceptance.