Humiliation?

I have not been sexually humiliated. I have been made fun of all through middle and high school, mostly because I had no or small breasts and was (am) very shy. In my fantasies, humiliation is the number one fetish I have by far. I think lots about being tricked or pressured and stripped or made to strip with a group there. I know I would hate it but i am sure I would be wet!
 
Why not both hehehe
I find that being
Absolutely not.
"Humiliation?" It would get him nowhere with me. I wouldn't tolerate it. Flattery will get him a lot further. Throw in the occasional random "I love you" for no particular reason, and he can pretty much take me "anywhere" he wants to go.
I treat everyone I meet with love and respect, and I expect to be treated the same way in return. I definitely throw in the occasional spontaneous “I love you” — if our relationship reaches that point.
 
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As someone who writes humorous smut, humiliation is a huge part of that. It's usually mild, but it can get very intense if I push it harder and harder. I didn't realize how much it was part of my work until it sort of jumped out at me.
 
No one has the right to humiliate anyone else! Humiliation is a matter of established consent between informed individuals who know what they want and what they are looking for. For some people, humiliation is a major part of their emotions . I wouldn't humiliate someone who has no predisposition or inclination toward it. Finding the right match is the hardest part—after all, there are all kinds of tastes and emotions out there. Never push the issue if your partner isn't into the same things you are; in that case, find an outlet outside the relationship. It’s about knowing how to handle different situations. I have a married submissive who seeks out humiliation and punishment; her husband has never known about it—and he never will.
 
No one has the right to humiliate anyone else!

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I have a married submissive who seeks out humiliation and punishment; her husband has never known about it—and he never will.


Am I reading this right? Does this count as you humiliating the husband since they don't know? I guess if they literally never find out, they will not be humiliated...
 
Am I reading this right? Does this count as you humiliating the husband since they don't know? I guess if they literally never find out, they will not be humiliated...
Why are talking about humiliating the Hubby? he has nothing to do with it!! I never met him , he don't even know his wife is a sub!! YOU DIDN'T READ RIGHT!! YOU NEED TO WATCH ONCE A GAIN THE SITUATION!!
 
Why are talking about humiliating the Hubby? he has nothing to do with it!! I never met him , he don't even know his wife is a sub!! YOU DIDN'T READ RIGHT!! YOU NEED TO WATCH ONCE A GAIN THE SITUATION!!
Oh, please calm down.
 
I go way back to the first man my wife and I shared. He had a ridiculously huge dick and love to just fuck the shit outta my wife whie i watched. They both would laugh at my little dick. Then he would stand over me and grab my head with his huge hand and just use my mouth like a flesh light. My eyes would water and I would struggle to breath. This went on until he came. Then he would make me suck him hard so that he could fuck me. Since he had already came at least 3 times between mrs gorden and myself the ass fucking woud sometimes last 20 minutes or more. The entire time he would call me names and mrs gorden would join in making fun of my dick. I LOVED EVERY SECOND OF IT!
 
I go way back to the first man my wife and I shared. He had a ridiculously huge dick and love to just fuck the shit outta my wife whie i watched. They both would laugh at my little dick. Then he would stand over me and grab my head with his huge hand and just use my mouth like a flesh light. My eyes would water and I would struggle to breath. This went on until he came. Then he would make me suck him hard so that he could fuck me. Since he had already came at least 3 times between mrs gorden and myself the ass fucking woud sometimes last 20 minutes or more. The entire time he would call me names and mrs gorden would join in making fun of my dick. I LOVED EVERY SECOND OF IT!
Sounds a little t̶o̶o̶ ̶g̶o̶o̶d̶ too much like porn to be real...?
 
Sometimes humiliation gets confused with embarrassment. The difference is subtle.
Seems like splitting hairs, but following your line of thought, I'd suggest that humiliation is embarrassment inflicted by another. But some people might argue the difference is only a matter of degree.
 
This is a new one for me that I am still exploring. It started with realizing I often get aroused when embarrassed. Then in chatting with others here, the embarrassment sometimes get pushed into humiliation... and it seems (often times) that more embarrassment = humiliation = more arousal.

But it's still somewhat new to me... and it has to be "in the moment" when things are hot or heating up, not just out of the blue name calling or whatever.
 
This is a new one for me that I am still exploring. It started with realizing I often get aroused when embarrassed. Then in chatting with others here, the embarrassment sometimes get pushed into humiliation... and it seems (often times) that more embarrassment = humiliation = more arousal.

But it's still somewhat new to me... and it has to be "in the moment" when things are hot or heating up, not just out of the blue name calling or whatever.
after reading your profile it seems like the embarrassment, could be hot when exposed what turns you on to others at certain times.
 
I go way back to the first man my wife and I shared. He had a ridiculously huge dick and love to just fuck the shit outta my wife whie i watched. They both would laugh at my little dick. Then he would stand over me and grab my head with his huge hand and just use my mouth like a flesh light. My eyes would water and I would struggle to breath. This went on until he came. Then he would make me suck him hard so that he could fuck me. Since he had already came at least 3 times between mrs gorden and myself the ass fucking woud sometimes last 20 minutes or more. The entire time he would call me names and mrs gorden would join in making fun of my dick. I LOVED EVERY SECOND OF IT!
That is amazingly hot.
 
This is a new one for me that I am still exploring. It started with realizing I often get aroused when embarrassed. Then in chatting with others here, the embarrassment sometimes get pushed into humiliation... and it seems (often times) that more embarrassment = humiliation = more arousal.

But it's still somewhat new to me... and it has to be "in the moment" when things are hot or heating up, not just out of the blue name calling or whatever.
all the best, go and discover, it is a wonder if you let your mind wild open!! their is a lot hided to enjoy and discover!!
 
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