Husbands denial
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good to hear that, we cant wait to hear about when you do.
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Its always hard with real life to fit in good play and D/s sessions, let alone write about them. Im sure when @95sunsets gets going again she will, once more share inspiring writing.
Life's been so busy, sorry for no updates!
While far from mundane or normal life, we have done a couple short "candle games." While extremely pleasurable for me, not much new or far off the normal night routines as he is denied for several days at a time, until last night....
I had an idea to spice up his night and go out to a local spot for dinner. Knowing he's four days into denial and dripping like crazy, I knew I wouldn't hear "No." As he was showering after work, I laid his prostate massager under his towel with a note to turn it on ( its controlled by my phone) and to please wear to dinner.
As we sat at our table I turned it on to see his startled reaction and myself began getting very aroused. From time to time I'd give him a little break, than turn it on knowing he is filling his underwear full of his sweet cum. I couldn't help but think about how much I wish I could reach into his pants to feel it all. Time went and we finished our dinner, and carried on with the play when we got home.
I laid down beside him so he could begin feeling how wet I was. As I checked the candle if the key has shown itself yet I grabbed the hand restraints for him to wear. I put a pillow under him to hold the massager in even tighter and strapped his hands behind his back. I couldn't have even imagined a man dripping so much! As I kept teasing him I climbed over him so he could taste me. I began explaining to him how Once he gets the cage off he is to sit inside me as the massager is on to fill me completely from that while then I want him to cum in me and fill me so full that it'll drip out of me the rest of the evening.
After he makes me orgasm I thankfully get the key and make him stay still so I can just ride his throbbing cock. He was so hard and I could feel him slowly filling me until I made him go. It was the longest lasting orgasm I think he's ever had. Normally its just the build up, then done. This one kept going for him so I rode him until I was exhausted and needed a break.
I now need to decide what to do as I have a work trip coming up.. I'm not sure if he deserves a break or not....
While far from mundane or normal life, we have done a couple short "candle games." While extremely pleasurable for me, not much new or far off the normal night routines as he is denied for several days at a time, until last night....
I had an idea to spice up his night and go out to a local spot for dinner. Knowing he's four days into denial and dripping like crazy, I knew I wouldn't hear "No." As he was showering after work, I laid his prostate massager under his towel with a note to turn it on ( its controlled by my phone) and to please wear to dinner.
As we sat at our table I turned it on to see his startled reaction and myself began getting very aroused. From time to time I'd give him a little break, than turn it on knowing he is filling his underwear full of his sweet cum. I couldn't help but think about how much I wish I could reach into his pants to feel it all. Time went and we finished our dinner, and carried on with the play when we got home.
I laid down beside him so he could begin feeling how wet I was. As I checked the candle if the key has shown itself yet I grabbed the hand restraints for him to wear. I put a pillow under him to hold the massager in even tighter and strapped his hands behind his back. I couldn't have even imagined a man dripping so much! As I kept teasing him I climbed over him so he could taste me. I began explaining to him how Once he gets the cage off he is to sit inside me as the massager is on to fill me completely from that while then I want him to cum in me and fill me so full that it'll drip out of me the rest of the evening.
After he makes me orgasm I thankfully get the key and make him stay still so I can just ride his throbbing cock. He was so hard and I could feel him slowly filling me until I made him go. It was the longest lasting orgasm I think he's ever had. Normally its just the build up, then done. This one kept going for him so I rode him until I was exhausted and needed a break.
I now need to decide what to do as I have a work trip coming up.. I'm not sure if he deserves a break or not....
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Yo, I don’t even like the idea of the cage thing…
Except I’m not gonna lie that candle part has me almost sold completely so holy shit lady you get it girl! Lol
I just found this thread this morning, and I’m completely hooked! Please, you have to tell us what happens with your work trip! I’m getting hard thinking about it.
Have you ever thought about doing a prostate massage and milking him that way instead of allowing him to have a real orgasm? That’s been one of my fantasies for a while, that unfortunately I haven’t been able to live out in real life.
Update!! I'm currently out of town while my husband is locked up at home. I knew this 5 day trip was coming up so I made a little plan in my head before hand. We have a little lock box that you can lock and have to have them send you a private code to get into if you can't make the whole time you set. There's a serial number to enter and they just send the code, which would be no fun at all if I was still away from home... So, of course I scratched the serial number so its unable to be read!
The morning I left I had the cage waiting and slipped it on my husband the second my alarm went off. I can't imagine what he thought waking up to that instead of a "good-bye release."
I told him I was setting the lock box for when I get back so he can't stop thinking of touching my wetness the entire time!
What I didn't mention was while I am gone for 5 days, I set it for 7!! I figured since I did the planning ahead of time, once I get home he can please me a little extra while he's denied and listening to my orgasms!!
I left the box in my home office with a prostate massager on top and a note covering the count down screen that said call me before opening. ( I wanted to hear his moan or excitement when he seen I added the two days...And that he did)
I actually felt bad when he moved the note and seen the count down was actually longer than expected. I probably should not have done that to him... I said I left that massager so you can text me when it's on and I have control of the motions from my phone.
I'm building with excitement waiting for the text today saying its ready for me to take even more control of him but am feeling quilt about making him wait another two days after I get home from the airport tomorrow!
I don't know if letting him get release from the prostate massage is cheating our chastity for the week or if it really wont affect his level of excitement for me... Thoughts?
The morning I left I had the cage waiting and slipped it on my husband the second my alarm went off. I can't imagine what he thought waking up to that instead of a "good-bye release."
I told him I was setting the lock box for when I get back so he can't stop thinking of touching my wetness the entire time!
What I didn't mention was while I am gone for 5 days, I set it for 7!! I figured since I did the planning ahead of time, once I get home he can please me a little extra while he's denied and listening to my orgasms!!
I left the box in my home office with a prostate massager on top and a note covering the count down screen that said call me before opening. ( I wanted to hear his moan or excitement when he seen I added the two days...And that he did)
I actually felt bad when he moved the note and seen the count down was actually longer than expected. I probably should not have done that to him... I said I left that massager so you can text me when it's on and I have control of the motions from my phone.
I'm building with excitement waiting for the text today saying its ready for me to take even more control of him but am feeling quilt about making him wait another two days after I get home from the airport tomorrow!
I don't know if letting him get release from the prostate massage is cheating our chastity for the week or if it really wont affect his level of excitement for me... Thoughts?
I hope so!I’m guessing a prostate release isn’t the same as a regular orgasm, so I think he will still be VERY excited to have you home and be given an opportunity to please you.
So glad you’re back with an update!
I agree that it’s not cheating if you left the massager for him. All he’ll get is tons of sensation ending in a ruin, and unable to even get a full erection. I’d say he’ll be out of his mind for a real release and totally compliant for you.
If you’re controlling the massager while you’re still away, make a video call so you can watch his face while he uses it.
Here’s a thought: next time you’re locking him up for a few days, let us know at the beginning so your admirers can play along at home.
While my times finally coming closer to an end with him not being able to please me , you can still "play along at home" as he'll be begging for release still!
Finally received the text he was waiting. I instantly got wet and began controlling it. I called him and did a video call but all I asked to watch was his throbbing cock in the cage. I could not believe how much he began to drip. Like a lot! I know fully understand why some call it "milking the prostate"
I could not help myself and before I knew it as I was touching myself I had an incredible full body orgasm while watching him touch just the tiny tip that pokes through his cage and all the fluid dripping out! I stopped the massager from running with a moan of "whhhhhhyyyy, Keep it on!!"
I told him he will need to wait for a couple more days, I don't need to waste any of your cum without me home to feel it!! He seemed like a ruined orgasm times two!!! I loved it, I can't imagine what I'm in store for tomorrow when I get home.
Finally received the text he was waiting. I instantly got wet and began controlling it. I called him and did a video call but all I asked to watch was his throbbing cock in the cage. I could not believe how much he began to drip. Like a lot! I know fully understand why some call it "milking the prostate"
I could not help myself and before I knew it as I was touching myself I had an incredible full body orgasm while watching him touch just the tiny tip that pokes through his cage and all the fluid dripping out! I stopped the massager from running with a moan of "whhhhhhyyyy, Keep it on!!"
I told him he will need to wait for a couple more days, I don't need to waste any of your cum without me home to feel it!! He seemed like a ruined orgasm times two!!! I loved it, I can't imagine what I'm in store for tomorrow when I get home.
Last night was a turn in events... Part of the project that was supposed to be completed in 5 days fell apart and were currently working on schedule to see if I just stay longer or what to do!!
Late last night when I informed my husband (I'm supposed to fly out in a couple hours) about it he sent me a picture of his cage and cock squeezing so tight I said well what's a few added days of denial and in his voice I could tell he didn't like that comment but also I think did...
We weren't in a rush so I started asking how he was doing, sleeping... dripping... etc...(basically making sure he's not in any pain)because it got me thinking once I hear back on if I'm staying or flying home should I add days to the timer so when I get there he still has two days of being caged or just let the timer run out without me home.... I know how horny he is right now, and when I mentioned what's a few more days he said while he's almost out of his mind thinking of release he just wants to please me...
Thoughts... Add more days from my phone or just let timer run out??!!
Late last night when I informed my husband (I'm supposed to fly out in a couple hours) about it he sent me a picture of his cage and cock squeezing so tight I said well what's a few added days of denial and in his voice I could tell he didn't like that comment but also I think did...
We weren't in a rush so I started asking how he was doing, sleeping... dripping... etc...(basically making sure he's not in any pain)because it got me thinking once I hear back on if I'm staying or flying home should I add days to the timer so when I get there he still has two days of being caged or just let the timer run out without me home.... I know how horny he is right now, and when I mentioned what's a few more days he said while he's almost out of his mind thinking of release he just wants to please me...
Thoughts... Add more days from my phone or just let timer run out??!!
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Let him suffer; tease him with an upskirt panty pic.
There's plenty of teasing and short video being sent on my end.... and release!
He seems fine mentally with it, yet also I know how horny he is I don't know if he could tell me "no" to anything I suggest right now! I just sent him a text update that I haven't heard back on the plan yet but if it changes would you like me to tell you or the timer tell you?
He responded "I'll start checking the timer for updates." ( with a smile face)
He seems fine with it... From a husband stand point or any women who's done play like this what are your thoughts? I'm thinking add it as I'm not being denied and he didn't say "no" and I know how much he just wants to satisfy my desires..
Is there a "poll" I could make so you guys help? So far only one vote to add.. well and mine so two.. Help please!
He seems fine mentally with it, yet also I know how horny he is I don't know if he could tell me "no" to anything I suggest right now! I just sent him a text update that I haven't heard back on the plan yet but if it changes would you like me to tell you or the timer tell you?
He responded "I'll start checking the timer for updates." ( with a smile face)
He seems fine with it... From a husband stand point or any women who's done play like this what are your thoughts? I'm thinking add it as I'm not being denied and he didn't say "no" and I know how much he just wants to satisfy my desires..
Is there a "poll" I could make so you guys help? So far only one vote to add.. well and mine so two.. Help please!
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Who needs a cage when your wife loses her sex drive!
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doesn't stop you from doing yourself when not caged. if my wife does not make me cum I dont cumWho needs a cage when your wife loses her sex drive!
Agree.. maybe if i get stuck here I'll just say I'll confirm what day later and I won't update the timer until it almost runs out!
I 100% couldn't disagree more.Who needs a cage when your wife loses her sex drive!
Not saying she hasn't lost her sex drive, but have you lost the early years "attention" you gave her?
We have a standard, day-to-day marriage until his cock is locked up. He's not even the same person with it on and the attention he gives me and seeing him edging for DAYS has me wetter than I ever was growing up!
Life gets in the way, don't blame her for lack of sex drive when it may be deeper than that. Try it for a couple days, if it doesn't help you please her and add touching throughout the day your not really out anything!
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