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95sunsets said:
I agree with the hiding it, worse case you can just grab it but I wouldn't be able to not go get it in the heat of our sessions. With the candle at any point I know if one of us give in to our own desires its still two hours out if we light all the candles!

After this many years of marriage while he is locked, it's like our first month together. It's almost for him he has endless energy to please me. Last night again after I came he stayed up for who knows how long as I fell sleep with him running his hands over my lower back/ butt.

He mentioned how he's waking up around three times a night just from the pressure and tightness of the cage which I don't notice but I know I wake up to his arms wrapped around me and I feel safe and secure again in our relationship. I wonder how long he can go before he begs to be released or if he even would knowing my needs are being overly met.
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This so unbelievably hot and erotic!! Omg I can’t breathe how strong I’m responding to this!! I love it and may have to ask my wife is she’d be up for it. Hot af!
 
Thank you for that! I haven't thought about writing a story as so far I'm just sort of blogging about it, possibly after I could consider it. Each time he is locked up could really just become a chapter in a series...
 
95sunsets said:
Thank you for that! I haven't thought about writing a story as so far I'm just sort of blogging about it, possibly after I could consider it. Each time he is locked up could really just become a chapter in a series...
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Make him light the candle….. imagine his disappointment when he finds out he lit the wrong one and has to delay his release once again 😵‍💫
 
95sunsets said:
Thank you for that! I haven't thought about writing a story as so far I'm just sort of blogging about it, possibly after I could consider it. Each time he is locked up could really just become a chapter in a series...
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Or ….. send him a video while he is at work showing you lighting all three candles and them blowing them out
 
95sunsets said:
Finally gathered the courage to make a post about my husband and I playing with a chastity cage. We have done several days at a time and each time I get more into the idea of him being caged!

It's only day one of this time locking him and I have been soo wet all day waiting for him to get home! The amount of attention emotionally as well as sexually when he is locked up is like a dream. We have three of the exact same candles and lit them and let them melt for over 3 hours before dropping in the keys to his cage this morning. The second he said he dropped them in I started thinking of tonight!

I will pick one at random and only light one each day. They are all black so you cant see the key in it. Once he comes to bed to feel my dripping pussy I'll let him go down on me to taste my wetness from today before checking if the candle has melted enough yet to expose the key or determine if I picked the wrong one. If the key isn't exposed yet I'll have him use a toy and I will have an amazing orgasm from the whole day of thoughts.
While I feel so bad the anticipation of checking for the key is so erotic and just builds up to a possible release for him or a complete tease! I love the feeling of all the attention and getting an orgasm while I can see his cock dripping out of the cage.

Now I'm wondering as I write if I pick the wrong candle tonight should I mix all three up again or each day leave it out to increase his odds of release.
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That's an interesting idea; I may try that. I usually wear them around my neck and taunt them, but I like your method better. I don't allow my submissives to masturbate, though; I like them to build up tension. I use a rewards point system; if they perform tasks, they earn points that they can use for me to unlock their cage. For example, they earn 25 points for toe sucking (to suck my toes I mean). It takes 500 points for them to earn the key and they can choose what to do. I may mix it up and try this out.
 
I told him he is in charge of picking the candle tonight and checking on it just so he builds up more and more to see if it reveals itself or not. I like that idea if it's not in there, he'll get his anticipation crushed on his way back to the bed to please me for the night.

I'll have to look into wax play and possibly toe sucking. Never done either!

I can't imagine how he's feeling, I'm only writing about it as well as getting multiple releases and I'm checking the clock wondering is it time for bed yet...
 
Fabulous "blogging"! Thank you for sharing your journey.

Let me start out by saying that male chastity in specific and male training in general, is not my "area of expertise" as it were. So take the following with a grain of salt.

It seems to me that you are over the first "hurdle" of establishing a power dynamic between the two of you. He has accepted the cage and your control over the key. You are both turned on by it. You have introduced the element of chance in the unlocking process, and it has gone well. So now what?

If this was me and a female submissive, the next step in her training would be to leverage the cage, the chastity; to slowly increase the power dynamic between us. In your case, for you to slowly become even more Dominant, and for him to become even more submissive to you. For you to take more "advantage" of his desire for release.

What does that mean? Well, it depends on what turns you on of course.

It might mean more actively orgasm torturing him - e.g. unlocking and teasing him and then locking him back up without release. Unlocking him, making him hard, ruining his orgasm and the locking him back up. Unlocking him, milking him without sexual release, and then locking him back up. And so on.

It might mean driving the psychological elements of Domination. In my case, I want my submissive begging. Literally. If that would turn you on, then use his desire to be unlocked or allowed to cum to move him towards being more psychologically submissive to you. Make him crawl to you. Tie him lying down and ride his face in a way where you are completely in control.

It might mean physical punishment, or impact play, if that turns you on. You might require him to take a certain number of spanks or lashes before he is unlocked, or allowed to touch you, or allowed to service you, or allowed to cum.

All of this depends on the direction that you want to go - on what turns you (and him) on. You have already learned the most important lesson - that experimentation leads to joy and pleasure - the only question now is what direction to you want your experimentation to go in?
 
Thank you for the fun ideas to add! Last night was very interesting yet has changed a little of my perspective.

Since he picked the candle last night I checked the candle multiple times secretly so he wouldn't see, finally the key started showing. So of course I grab a tweezer and dig a little and pull it out, knowing he's going to check it right away before bed. Just the thought of his excitement to get to release in him and having it be a let down turns me on and I know he releases a big drip on the frustration.

So I'm laying in bed and he comes in immediately and starts kissing me. Like kissing me like were teen agers who snuck away from prom! Head to toe, every inch of my body teasing me by not once touching my pussy lips. This goes on for what felt forever as I was beyond wet and ready for him to touch me.

He finally pauses and says let me check the candle. He goes and looks and comes back with his cock squeezing out of every little space and dripping pre cum. I start feeling so guilty as I have the key right under my pillow but before I could even decide should I tell him he lays onto his back and pulls me over him. He inches me up as he slides down lower into the bed as he pulls me over his face he begins licking my swollen pussy. I control the pressure sitting above him until I come to my orgasm while he keeps until I lay down next to him exhausted from the orgasm.

As he pulls me in tight to hold me I reach behind to fill my hands with his cum dripping cock and decide I have to unlock it. After I unlock it he pulls a pillow under his butt and pulls me on top of him ( I hate being on top) He's rock hard almost instantly and I just had an orgasm so I'm satisfied but know he deserves this. Once I start I can't believe how full his cock has me feeling and every time I try to slow down he says "fuck me harder" I'm riding his cock as fast and hard as I can and can see his facial expressions change and almost simultaneously we both cum together.

I'm beyond exhausted but felt so satisfied as we came together which rarely happens. He mentioned how I'm finally fucking him like I should be being his wife and how he appreciated it so much. I start cleaning him up, putting the bed back together and after he holds me tight again and rubs my back until I almost fall asleep. I ask when would you like to be locked up again? As he says maybe after a couple day break, possibly Sunday.

This morning before we started the day I handed him back the cage already and told him I will put the key in a candle today but this time each night you'll pick a candle at random. He tried bringing up maybe Sunday again, yet I pretending not to hear and asked is it on, I need the keys. ( I know he wanted to wait until Sunday, as Saturday we have a dinner we committed to)

What he isn't going to know is I'm not putting the key in any candle, I don't want the chance he gets it off before our Saturday dinner! Having him caged and dripping is making me more submissive to him it feels. Everything he says I can't say no to just knowing while he may not be getting to release he's still in control. Making me climb on top and fucking him last as a good example. We rarely dress up to go out, while it's not in my comfort zone to surprise him and show how much I appreciate him I'm planning to wear the dress he bought me years ago that's just to revealing to me.

I can't wait to feel his locked cock dripping while he finally gets to watch me walk around in the dress. All just to please him and make him desire my body more!
 
I forgot we changed dinner to tonight so thankfully the neighbor messaged and said meet at her house and they'll drive! So I need to work fast today! Planning to get all done up to go with the flattering dress and put the key into a candle before my husband got home.

To get an idea of the dress I think they're called "plunge mini dress" if you're intrigued to get an idea of what it is. Very short length, wide flowing deep "V" cut top.

You can't help but feel sexy in this dress as I don't know if my breasts or the bottom of the butt will show first!

Can't wait for what he's going to do to me after seeing me wearing it!
 
Im sure he will love it. got my wife a dress like that once and I could not keep my eyes off her and her legs
you will drive him wild I hope
 
When my husband saw me he was almost speechless and praised me for how good I looked. It was so flattering and such a confidence boost!

We head to the neighbors and I'm greeted instantly with compliments. We get to the restaurant and as we walk up to our table my husband grabs the hair on my neck and whispers "Hand me your underwear." I'm taken back and shocked. I'm almost positive the slightest move the wrong way anyone watching close is guaranteed a look at my pussy!

So he sits down first and says "You can go ahead to the bathroom I'll order your drink"

Now I'm almost forced to go to the bathroom, which I do and remove them. The walk back I could swear everyone was looking at me, I loved it. Once back at the table I hand them to him all balled up and wet.

As earlier mentioned I should flirt with the waiter, which I was planning to do. Ends up being a younger, beautiful brunette. So I changed my plan. After she takes the drink order I mention to the table how beautiful her eyes were and complimented her youthful body. Everyone agreed. She gets back with our drinks when I look at my husband and say "Well she's back why don't you tell her?" With a blank confused stare, I say how you think she's so pretty and adored her body." He finishes up complimenting her and she eats up every word from an older man hitting on her. They flirt the rest of the night, our dinner is amazing then it's time to pay and leave.

She dropped the tip my husband left as she collected it. Almost intentionally it looked. As I watched her she slowly went down to pick it up, pushing her breasts almost to the top of her tank top all while holding eye contact with my husband. I'm physically wet, no undies to catch any of it and now finding myself extremely jealous of what I started! I reach into his pants to remind him, hello I have your control. His boxers are wet, and I can feel the puddle of cum dripping from his cock.

We get home, head to light the candle for him and decide to bring all three down. I light all three as we begin teasing each other and adoring my body in the dress. There's no need for me to undress as everything is hardly covered anyway. As he easily inserts his fingers into me I mention the waitress. I can see his cock dripping so I slowly stand up from him and blow out one of the three candles, just for agreeing how pretty and youthful her body looked while you have your wife next to you.

As he's stumbling for words, he has no apologies and says she really was though. ( I agreed, and while jealous of how the night continued I liked it more than I can admit to him!)

Some time had passed, so I got up to check on the last two candles. As I stood over them I bent down in the exact way the waitress did while pushing both my breasts out of the dress, holding eye contact. I pretended to inspect each candle to look for any sign of the key I said, I noticed you didn't break eye contact at any moment while she picked up the tip. You had her pussy wet as well as mine talking to her like that. I bet she was envisioning sucking you off as much as I was!! My husband's melting, begging for me to come back. I blew out another candle, to punish not breaking eye contact and watching for her breast to show.

We're down to one random candle left and I'm driving him wild! He finishes up with me with an amazing orgasm from all tonight's highlights. I'm exhausted and really just want to go to sleep, so I hesitantly move away from under him to check the last candle. Before I do, I reach down to get a good grip on his cage and tell him you were dripping more sitting in the booth watching the waitress cock tease you!! ( I really have no clue, he was still very covered at this point!)

Just so the denial wouldn't end for him tonight , I stood up and said I'm going to bed so I quickly blew out the last candle, grabbed all three and headed upstairs saying "When you can drip for me like you can her, I'll re-light them!"

( I absolutely was aroused/ jealous of her but knew it's all in the fun. After four drinks and an amazing orgasm I just needed sleep so I thought I would "punish" him instead! For all understanding, that's what keeps the game exciting. )
 
95sunsets said:
When my husband saw me he was almost speechless and praised me for how good I looked. It was so flattering and such a confidence boost!

We head to the neighbors and I'm greeted instantly with compliments. We get to the restaurant and as we walk up to our table my husband grabs the hair on my neck and whispers "Hand me your underwear." I'm taken back and shocked. I'm almost positive the slightest move the wrong way anyone watching close is guaranteed a look at my pussy!

So he sits down first and says "You can go ahead to the bathroom I'll order your drink"

Now I'm almost forced to go to the bathroom, which I do and remove them. The walk back I could swear everyone was looking at me, I loved it. Once back at the table I hand them to him all balled up and wet.

As earlier mentioned I should flirt with the waiter, which I was planning to do. Ends up being a younger, beautiful brunette. So I changed my plan. After she takes the drink order I mention to the table how beautiful her eyes were and complimented her youthful body. Everyone agreed. She gets back with our drinks when I look at my husband and say "Well she's back why don't you tell her?" With a blank confused stare, I say how you think she's so pretty and adored her body." He finishes up complimenting her and she eats up every word from an older man hitting on her. They flirt the rest of the night, our dinner is amazing then it's time to pay and leave.

She dropped the tip my husband left as she collected it. Almost intentionally it looked. As I watched her she slowly went down to pick it up, pushing her breasts almost to the top of her tank top all while holding eye contact with my husband. I'm physically wet, no undies to catch any of it and now finding myself extremely jealous of what I started! I reach into his pants to remind him, hello I have your control. His boxers are wet, and I can feel the puddle of cum dripping from his cock.

We get home, head to light the candle for him and decide to bring all three down. I light all three as we begin teasing each other and adoring my body in the dress. There's no need for me to undress as everything is hardly covered anyway. As he easily inserts his fingers into me I mention the waitress. I can see his cock dripping so I slowly stand up from him and blow out one of the three candles, just for agreeing how pretty and youthful her body looked while you have your wife next to you.

As he's stumbling for words, he has no apologies and says she really was though. ( I agreed, and while jealous of how the night continued I liked it more than I can admit to him!)

Some time had passed, so I got up to check on the last two candles. As I stood over them I bent down in the exact way the waitress did while pushing both my breasts out of the dress, holding eye contact. I pretended to inspect each candle to look for any sign of the key I said, I noticed you didn't break eye contact at any moment while she picked up the tip. You had her pussy wet as well as mine talking to her like that. I bet she was envisioning sucking you off as much as I was!! My husband's melting, begging for me to come back. I blew out another candle, to punish not breaking eye contact and watching for her breast to show.

We're down to one random candle left and I'm driving him wild! He finishes up with me with an amazing orgasm from all tonight's highlights. I'm exhausted and really just want to go to sleep, so I hesitantly move away from under him to check the last candle. Before I do, I reach down to get a good grip on his cage and tell him you were dripping more sitting in the booth watching the waitress cock tease you!! ( I really have no clue, he was still very covered at this point!)

Just so the denial wouldn't end for him tonight , I stood up and said I'm going to bed so I quickly blew out the last candle, grabbed all three and headed upstairs saying "When you can drip for me like you can her, I'll re-light them!"

( I absolutely was aroused/ jealous of her but knew it's all in the fun. After four drinks and an amazing orgasm I just needed sleep so I thought I would "punish" him instead! For all understanding, that's what keeps the game exciting. )
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So amazing! Sounds so exciting, erotic and fun. So jealous of your husband lol!
 
Thank you all. I really appreciate the positive comments as well as the ideas! I can't stop thinking about his cock inside me giving me all this cum after this!

I feel so guilty walking away from him being that aroused with no release but also so empowered! I have mixed emotions but I just keep telling myself while he's denied and teased we're both enjoying it other one of us would stop it. That would have to be his decision though, as I don't want anything to do go our sex life going back to "normal". Getting treated this way and the focus he puts into my orgasm's is breathtaking!
 
Have you tried fucking with his cage on. seeing how his cage can get into your pussy, or maybe rub off on his cage
 
95sunsets said:
Thank you all. I really appreciate the positive comments as well as the ideas! I can't stop thinking about his cock inside me giving me all this cum after this!

I feel so guilty walking away from him being that aroused with no release but also so empowered! I have mixed emotions but I just keep telling myself while he's denied and teased we're both enjoying it other one of us would stop it. That would have to be his decision though, as I don't want anything to do go our sex life going back to "normal". Getting treated this way and the focus he puts into my orgasm's is breathtaking!
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He’s a lucky man! What a great way to stay connected and keep it exciting
 
Possibly with boxers on I would be nervous and a scratch/ pinching on the cage. It's sensitive down there on a woman!! That I will try though as maybe I'm over worried, that way I can still feel the warmth from him dripping.

There's definitely nothing to penetrate, the cage is to small and angled downward.
 
riding on top of him you can control how much pressure and he might be able to feel your pussy between the bars of his cage
 
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