Being locked up rut yes, but not general intimacy. Not really any more stressful than normal.. I just really like the cage on because it adds such a high level of awareness to everything, while I can't even imagine what it feels like to be denied orgasm for days and the only release he gets is just the slow dripping and constant pressure from restraint but I'm selfish and get sooo much pleasure from it!!Is he is stuck in a rut in general?
Are things stressful out of the bedroom?
Does the knowledge of how he is pleasing you encourage him?
Do you need to just play less seriously?
I'm just complaining for my own selfish desires I know...