Husbands - How many men is too many?

[yyml]

May be it depending on how many woman I had done before

 

[nutoseen]

I’ve thought about this… why? It seems like it makes sense at first, but as I think about it some more, it’s kind of a weird standard, isn’t it?

Am I missing something? Why are small town women restricted?

i think i get it. in a town of a million if she fucked 100 how many people will be aware your wife's past. v. a town of 1000; how many will know her number. its not her, its how husband feels. the topic is how many is too many right? maybe i get it, maybe i dont.

 

[Yarglenurp]

i think i get it. in a town of a million if she fucked 100 how many people will be aware your wife's past. v. a town of 1000; how many will know her number. its not her, its how husband feels. the topic is how many is too many right? maybe i get it, maybe i dont.

Ohhhh… that makes sense now.

Well, if you’re into humiliation as a fetish, you might find it hot that your wife is the town bike.

 

[Easypeter]

We had guy and his date come over one night. And we had sex swapping partners. The guy came prematurely and left but his date stayed. The wife and I enjoyed ourselves withe her at one point with me eating her ass and the wife licking her pussy. We continued for hours. Alot of fun.

I know you stayed hard for hours ,knowing that you and your wife were licking another’s wife

 

[phil1955]

I know my retirement has been better than before. My girlfriend loves to share

If they are willing to be shared, it just opens up so many fun possibilities. It is so much fun watching a woman that truly enjoys sex and fucking.

 

[LookN2Talk]

"So husbands - how many past lovers is too many? Or is there no such thing as too many?"

I do not believe there can ever be to many. I love that she had experience and knew a great deal about sex when i met her. She absolutely blew my mind!

"Do you maybe wish your wife threw it around more than she did? Or maybe less?"

The amount she did was pretty good, she had done pretty much all you can do with guys by the time I met her, or so I thought... I had no idea there was more, oh so much more.

"Now that you’re married, is your wife having too much extras marital sex?"

No extra sex.

"Or none at all and you’d like for her to take that plunge?"

No reason for her (or me) to take that plunge, we plunge (smile) daily in our marriage and thus far do not need others. We are still learning and growing with each other. If she ever wanted to have sex with others, she is her own person and of course may do whatever she wishes. I am certain we would work out whatever is best for our marriage. I do know I would rather be an active part of it.

 

[jd_sw]

Q: So husbands - how many past lovers is too many? Or is there no such thing as too many?

A: For me there is no number too many. If she fucked 1000 men but all of them only know missionary won't make a difference.

Q: Do you maybe wish your wife threw it around more than she did? Or maybe less?

A: I wish she was thrown around more. My ideal sex partner would be someone who was has exposure to as many different types of fetishes as possible.

Q: Now that you’re married, is your wife having too much extras marital sex? Or none at all and you’d like for her to take that plunge?

A: she has a decent amount of extra marital sex.

 

[Easypeter]

If they are willing to be shared, it just opens up so many fun possibilities. It is so much fun watching a woman that truly enjoys sex and fucking.

My wife loves other guys flirting with her. She’ll give that pussy away then deny it. Proof is her stretch out goods

 

[phil1955]

My wife loves other guys flirting with her. She’ll give that pussy away then deny it. Proof is her stretch out goods

Some women embrace their sexuality. Personally I prefer a woman who admits she needs cock and wants to sample as many as she can. Nothing better than sloppy seconds or licking her freshly fucked pussy clean.

 

[Easypeter]

I know my wife teases me about how guys always ask her if she’s married

 

[pace_purr]

If you don’t ask and she doesn’t tell it doesn’t matter, if it’s going to bother you how many partners either don’t ask or find another partner.

 

[MrETnman]

My wife is Korean and came here after her husband died to go to college. Always a good girl,but during her freshman year she was approached by more guys than she could imagine resulting in approximately 25 before we met two years later. A lot of them were one nighters and being younger broke her heart. We are very happy and doesn’t bother me at all

 

[Hitchiker69]

I shared with her my bisexual past and she participated with me and another man/men several times. I have enjoyed watching her with women also. Very hot! She plays with women just to excite me.

Sounds like an ideal relationship. You're both bisexual and enjoy watching each other enjoy same sex relations. Perfect. I'm jealous. I wish my wife would play like that. I would glady suck cock for her to watch, and I'd love to see her eat pussy and/or get eaten by another woman. I know she'd love it and learn to crave pussy, just as I crave cock.

 

[Anythinggoesslutt]

I'm a prude, the higher the number the worst i feel. I can't help it either. I'm all for women doing whatever they want but i don't know. I don't want to know that she's had a lot of partners, but i also know it'll eventually come up in conversation and i'll be turned off if she says she's had a lot of partners. My girl was with 2 guys before me and that's cool. No issue.

Maybe you’d feel better if your girl was okay with you having a high number too.

 

[Greytruck]

My wife confessed to 5 guys before me..
She was married once before.. and we got married she was 26
I know three of the guys very well..

 

[TemptationTango]

There is no such thing as too many from my point of view. When I was younger I might not have said that, but even then I tended to be attracted to sluts.

I suppose I can see why it matters to some guys, especially if it is rooted in a religious belief system and assuming they also live their life according to that belief system.

But I have never understood the guys who associate promiscuity with the likelihood of betrayal. The promiscuous women I have known have been those most likely to know their own selves. They did not mislead me in terms of where I stood even if did take me a while to catch on to why they weren't prepared to enter into a committed relationship. And they seem to be more clear headed about their trade-offs if and when they do become monogamous.

Meanwhile of the women that I know who have cheated most had entered into marriage with limited sexual experience and their lack of self awareness and perspective is part of what led them to cheat.

Furthermore, if you want a sexually exciting and adventurous woman doesn't it make sense to choose one with experience. I mean you wouldn't draft players to a sports team on the basis of which ones had the least experience.

Bingo

 

[van_delay]

My wife confessed to 5 guys before me..
She was married once before.. and we got married she was 26
I know three of the guys very well..

I love knowing men who were inside my wife before me

 

[Agmundr]

Depends. I once went on a date with a woman who had 3 ex husbands. Turns out they all died leaving her a widow.

Being widowed 3 times seems excessive and also scary AF

 

[GECuck]

Question for the husbands here. Everybody has a past. And some people’s sexual past can be a bit off putting to their spouses. Most men would prefer that their wives have had limited experiences with other men before him. While some actually like that their wives were promiscuous before they met.

So husbands - how many past lovers is too many? Or is there no such thing as too many? Do you maybe wish your wife threw it around more than she did? Or maybe less?

Now that you’re married, is your wife having too much extras marital sex? Or none at all and you’d like for her to take that plunge?

the more the merrier for me. I love hearing about my wife's exploits when she was younger. THe more detail the better too!

 

[CanadianCuckold]

In some ways, if your wife has had many ( I mean 20+ ) lovers, then it becomes a bit of a blur and seems to indicate that none of them were that important or meaningful.
If, on the other hand, she's had perhaps 4 previous boyfriends, then it may well be that not only was the sex good for her but that she still pines for one or two of them. Maybe more than pines; craves.
It's certainly true in my case.

 

[Justfantasies]

In some ways, if your wife has had many ( I mean 20+ ) lovers, then it becomes a bit of a blur and seems to indicate that none of them were that important or meaningful.
If, on the other hand, she's had perhaps 4 previous boyfriends, then it may well be that not only was the sex good for her but that she still pines for one or two of them. Maybe more than pines; craves.
It's certainly true in my case.

That is a very good point and one that my first wife -- who had been with about 70 guys -- made often.

 

[luckyseven]

Isn't that why casual sex is so popular these days?

 

[verseandworse2]

Question for the husbands here. Everybody has a past. And some people’s sexual past can be a bit off putting to their spouses. Most men would prefer that their wives have had limited experiences with other men before him. While some actually like that their wives were promiscuous before they met.

So husbands - how many past lovers is too many? Or is there no such thing as too many? Do you maybe wish your wife threw it around more than she did? Or maybe less?

Now that you’re married, is your wife having too much extras marital sex? Or none at all and you’d like for her to take that plunge?

Extremely politically incorrect answer to follow: too many past affairs is a red flag, clearly saying, "This is one hell of a difficult woman or a singularly unlucky one, the former option being much more likely. Or else why did the previous affairs end? Most women do not look for rapid turnover in boyfriends, just the opposite, they are very much into "commitment", and usually try their best to prevent relationships from ending. Too many past affairs means, "What you see is not what you are going to get, right now she is on her best behaviour." But what do I mean by "too many"? It's subjective, every prospective husband will need to set that limit himself.

 

[Lucy_Lastic]

Extremely politically incorrect answer to follow: too many past affairs is a red flag, clearly saying, "This is one hell of a difficult woman or a singularly unlucky one, the former option being much more likely. Or else why did the previous affairs end? Most women do not look for rapid turnover in boyfriends, just the opposite, they are very much into "commitment", and usually try their best to prevent relationships from ending. Too many past affairs means, "What you see is not what you are going to get, right now she is on her best behaviour." But what do I mean by "too many"? It's subjective, every prospective husband will need to set that limit himself.

That's not politically incorrect, it's just stupid and prejudiced. You're making broad judgements based on your own misguided opinion. Fuck you with your 'most women' bullshit. Many women feel the pressure by a male led society to conform to men's expectations.

Life isn't like that. Women are sexual beings as much as men are. Nobody's questioning if men should be limited by their number of conquests to make them good husband material.

Single men get to 'sow their wild oats' and are encouraged to fuck around. Women get called sluts for the same behaviour. We're still being judged by Victorian standards.

If I choose to marry in the future I'll be totally honest with the man about my sexual past. I'll even give him a blow-by-blow of the highlights if that floats his boat. But if he disapproves, or passes judgement, he's not good husband material for me and will be cast aside.

 

[SPARTAN047]

Extremely politically incorrect answer to follow: too many past affairs is a red flag, clearly saying, "This is one hell of a difficult woman or a singularly unlucky one, the former option being much more likely. Or else why did the previous affairs end? Most women do not look for rapid turnover in boyfriends, just the opposite, they are very much into "commitment", and usually try their best to prevent relationships from ending. Too many past affairs means, "What you see is not what you are going to get, right now she is on her best behaviour." But what do I mean by "too many"? It's subjective, every prospective husband will need to set that limit himself.

I fully agree. I wouldn't commit to someone like that either. Too many relationships or hookups is a very big red flag.

I don't agree that women generally want to commit though - I used to think that and then I realized that, by their own confessions, women are much better at pretending to want commitment from the guy who looks like he might be stable by being innocent and not being 'that' type of girl, but will open her legs all the time for the guy who simply doesn't care that much except for sex. When she already knows he won't commit, who cares?

Guys are just very bad at committing openly and keep stammering out stupid replies if they're asked about commitment. And they're terrible at communicating what they might want or give in a relationship, though they're not all the same. Women are great at talking the talk about commitment, and they'll never walk the walk. They'll get gangbanged every single day or week if they could and state loss of sexual privileges if anyone exposes them, so other guys will especially keep their mouths closed. They're also very good at pretending to want something to change other people's opinions of them.

It's usually the 0.000000...1% of good men and women who actually want to commit but get screwed over.