I miss cybersex...
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vibes
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I tried it once and it looked so fast and cahotic
MarcusUK
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Very hit and miss!
It makes me wonder what the IT department was really doing! Someone got caught for peeping in on your conversations! You must tell more about how you went from being a very very bad girl to being a goodgirl, Lin. What exactly are you good at now? Please do tell... (and let me know when you are ready to fire up that camera again!)Ohhhh. I started chatting on this site ‘thenakedtruth’ it was amazing. I had a temp office job which wasn’t very busy and I chatted so much on there that the IT department sent me a message to chat less
Made some lovely connections and it was so much fun. It felt sexy and freeing. Also ICQ and messengerI was a very very bad girl
Live4themoments
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Good old AOL and Yahoo chats, miss it much. Lit comes close to the aol chats but can't really compare. I met many friends there, still keep in touch with a couple. Majority of my chats never started out or was intended to be cybersex, role playing, or things similar. I may be in the minority but I enjoyed getting to know them first, to see if similarities in thoughts, actions, desires, and where they currently are in life. If it led to a developed relationship then cybersex, phone sex carried a greater impact for me, as if we have been dating for months and know each others intimate details. On a few it developed from there to real meetings with intimacy. It takes time but it is worth the wait and effort.
I went to look for it and it seems to be completely gone. Oh well....where do people go now? I've tried some of the chat apps, but it's really hard to meet people that are wanting something similar.
I know what you mean. It's nice sharing stimulating topics and sexuality with other adults.
I'm with you, but I'm going to keep trying. PM me and maybe we can set up a time to meet. That would make it a lot more fun!
i find the chat area a bit noisy. I also don't appreciate getting booted if inactive for any length of time
That's so true about starting with more of a relationship. It was always, "get to know the person first." That is how I like to approach things here too, but it's hard to find someone who really wants to connect. But, I'm sure it will happen.
I just reread this and realized, that once I realized I could meet women there that might also be hungry for both relationship and something more sexual, I always looked for "SAHM". Ha, what a memory!
ThePullOutKing
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It's a shame so many women will say they don't want to go to another site. I don't understand that. Lit is very unstable. I've tired various things. I'm always on a laptop. I use a Mac with Firefox or Chrome VPN'd.
I find when you have the chat window in its own window with no other tabs and you don't make other tabs it keeps focus and is more stable. I had an RP go about an hour and a half before I got booted. If I'm in a tab and switch to other tabs it boots like every 5 or 10 minutes. People do get discouraged when they get booted and may not want to/or be able to get back in right away if Lit is being difficult and may not rejoin your RP which really sucks. I see lots of people saying that in DRP. And it usually boots right at the critical moment where someone would assume you got what you needed and left. Ugh.
I'm not linking but there is a site Chatzy that's no sign up needed and the chat room is stable. I've done like eight hour chats in those with no hiccups. It's just a plain old website. You don't have to download anything. It's like Talky but that's for voice.
The best RP's are the ones that always start with getting to know someone and just talking and if you have things in common, oh that's so good. That leads to seeing them again and again and again. I want strong connection and meaning.
I find when you have the chat window in its own window with no other tabs and you don't make other tabs it keeps focus and is more stable. I had an RP go about an hour and a half before I got booted. If I'm in a tab and switch to other tabs it boots like every 5 or 10 minutes. People do get discouraged when they get booted and may not want to/or be able to get back in right away if Lit is being difficult and may not rejoin your RP which really sucks. I see lots of people saying that in DRP. And it usually boots right at the critical moment where someone would assume you got what you needed and left. Ugh.
I'm not linking but there is a site Chatzy that's no sign up needed and the chat room is stable. I've done like eight hour chats in those with no hiccups. It's just a plain old website. You don't have to download anything. It's like Talky but that's for voice.
The best RP's are the ones that always start with getting to know someone and just talking and if you have things in common, oh that's so good. That leads to seeing them again and again and again. I want strong connection and meaning.
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goodgirlLin
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Haha, webcam early days
I remember charting with a guy who said he was single and when he switched his cam on he was naked in front of his wedding pic and baby crib in the background
I think both can exist in the same person, fun to be both bad and good. All depends on what end result I want…
ThePullOutKing
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I'm curious which rooms? What did you post to let people know you were there? Do you have a profile and did those PM'ing bother to read it or was it all just "hi how are you?"
I like detailed role play, the lobby is good for just chit chatting (although many rooms may have that going on too), con non con isn't always as it seems lotsa vanilla there too. Younger for older is usually quite lively. I will say room theme names do not necessarily dictate what heppens in there.
A secret about chat is to immediately click the display status message icon in the lower right so it has a slash through it. What that does is turn off all the user X has joined the room or has left the room announcements. That will massively slow down the scroll speed.
Live4themoments
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People lie and "stretch the truth" often in chats and online. It all depends on the situation and topic at hand, and how much of the lie will impact future decisions. For example, is someone claims to be 50 and is really 52 then not really that big of a deal. However, if as above they claim to be single yet are married then you possibly just dug your grave on the early conversation. I've met rt a few who claimed something and it was false, not a good way to start out a trusting encounter, and now you want me to believe my personal info/situation will be held in confidence with you? Needless to say there was no further contact after that meeting, grateful it was just coffee and snack!
I agree. honesty in chat makes for a better connection for sure
That's so true. I work in tech and the tech on Lit is archaic! If you think about it, it is worse that what we had in AOL in 1995. Let that sink in. And it's no less secure than many other platforms or apps. Just go to another app, ladies. Build trust here, and if you trust someone, its ok to go to another app.
Mmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm, but don't most people on here have another persona? I love your answer, and I embrace the good and bad. What are you tonight?Haha, webcam early days
I remember charting with a guy who said he was single and when he switched his cam on he was naked in front of his wedding pic and baby crib in the background
I think both can exist in the same person, fun to be both bad and good. All depends on what end result I want…
goodgirlLin
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Tired. Tonight I am too tired for any persona
That means you are a good girl tonight, resting up until you can be a bad girl again. P-)Tired. Tonight I am too tired for any persona
wild9445
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I'm 46 and hard of hearing so yes I remember AOL and Yahoo very fondly...was very exciting as it made communicating easier as a hard of hearing young man at the time and having fun and hot chats on there was a lot of fun....simpler times then....ah I miss it...but the tech these days are so much better now and still love chatting on the tech we have. But yea I have seen communications for the deaf and hard of hearing evolve so much over the years that it was a fun time and still is now with new tech coming out often. Was especially exciting when the first iPhone came out....and when FaceTime became a big thing....well I love chatting with people 25+ in age....mainly looking for ladies to chat with but will chat with anyone in that age range!
HoneyedLips
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Lit chat works for me but your mileage may vary. A typical night for me on the site - I've found that I like to edge first so maybe start with 3 to 4 consecutive text chats, with the back and forth steamy exchange, ending when they cum hard. My next chat usually ends with voice so I can go handsfree, the guy never lasts very long but I usually can orgasm with my partner so win - win. The cerebral connection with chat first and then the aural stimulation is so intoxicating, I've had some partners cum twice which is amazing. You'll find what works for you I'm sure. Again, for me, I'm just a regular gal and I don't want to be treated like a subscription or service...I usually don't chat again with folks who do treat me like I have to provide "good customer service" if you know what I mean.
elizaloo
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This is exactly how I approach it; I’m more interested in you as a person. Once that level of interest/conversation/connection is established, then I’m happy to segue into flirting, exchanging pictures (audios are my specialty) etc.
I’ve had many, many lovely connections here over the years (even married one), so it’s definitely possible.
The ghosting, though, that’s become a nuisance lately. Sadly.
lauramilf
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The trouble is nobody wants to take the time to get to know you. All they want is a quick fix to their current horny state. I remember when I first joined lit the quality of conversations were much better, I used to have so many long term connections now that seems impossible. I spend most of my time reading trash PMs most of which don't even start with a hello and introduction.
Zolitair
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Yeah most people looking for a quick fix and nothing more. I perosnaly looking for some connection and not necessary sexting from the begining, but most people i have talked to in here just need that quick fix. Who knows, maybe in time this will be fixed.
I have been talking and texting with a woman for the past 2 years in google chat and works fine with me.
Personaly i am open to any kind of chat with women.
