I miss cybersex...

[NightOfPassion2]

The trouble is nobody wants to take the time to get to know you. All they want is a quick fix to their current horny state. I remember when I first joined lit the quality of conversations were much better, I used to have so many long term connections now that seems impossible. I spend most of my time reading trash PMs most of which don't even start with a hello and introduction.

I enjoy the long chats...I couldn't imagine less.

 

[lauramilf]

I enjoy the long chats...I couldn't imagine less.

But sadly they are few and far between I mean I get time can be a factor and lots of people are here without there other halves knowing but the quality compared to what it used to be has gone down hill. I see very few long term members. 99.9% of all pms I get are from accounts made in the last few months.

 

[ThePullOutKing]

The people who want the quick fix really perplex me. If all they want to do is get off quick why not go to whatever website and watch a video or look at still images? You could get right to the point and be done in however many minutes it takes you. Why waste all the time trying to find some anonymous woman in chat, that you can't even see, and then just read text on a screen. To me that PALES in comparison. I see no point in that.

Not only is getting to know someone important, but also having commonality (views, tastes, interests etc.) because now (at least for me) you're really starting to like this person and vibe with them. If it was real life you'd be asking them out at this point. Then when you do go next level (could even be the same night) it's so much more satisfying even if it is just text on the screen. And then you want to see them again.

 

[HoneyedLips]

Aw, I've only been on lit chat for about a month and a half and have really clicked with some guys (and gals) to the point where I chat with them almost nightly and have really fun banter. Just like irl, you just have to find someone who you really get along with. I try to participate in the lobby/room group chats when I can with their light chit chat...that's when the pm's go crazy. I get booted quicker if the pm's run off the screen so having to keep closing them out...I know, first world problems.

 

[ItaloMan]

Aw, I've only been on lit chat for about a month and a half and have really clicked with some guys (and gals) to the point where I chat with them almost nightly and have really fun banter. Just like irl, you just have to find someone who you really get along with. I try to participate in the lobby/room group chats when I can with their light chit chat...that's when the pm's go crazy. I get booted quicker if the pm's run off the screen so having to keep closing them out...I know, first world problems.

That is wonderful, and maybe a first world, female problem. The number of private messages I have received is zero.
I did try the rooms last night, that was better. I also found someone that was really engaging via messages right here. There is a little delay, but she was quite intriguing. We spent about an hour in the "get to know" and I think more will come of it. It's funny, that I get turned on even getting to know each other, knowing she is on the other end, sharing our experiences and fantasies, along with more about us as people. It is a powerful mix and a big turn on, knowing that she is sharing her heart, and not just her fantasies, and I get to do the same.

 

[elizaloo]

The trouble is nobody wants to take the time to get to know you. All they want is a quick fix to their current horny state. I remember when I first joined lit the quality of conversations were much better, I used to have so many long term connections now that seems impossible. I spend most of my time reading trash PMs most of which don't even start with a hello and introduction.

You are absolutely correct. It has become a matter of sorting the wheat from the chaff.

If a PM shows up and says, ‘hi wanna hit me up?’ My assumption is that it was written by a teenage boy or someone only looking for ME to entertain them. Immediate pass.

I’ve received many, though, that quote a line from one of my stories, or asking me how I came to publish on Lit or even about my audios. Express an interest in ME, and I will answer you. From there it depends upon the quality of the convo.

Descend into ‘how about you write and record an audio about how you’d do me’ and I’m immediately done.

Thankfully, there ARE quality conversations to be had. My HUGE issue is having a wonderful relationship develop, both participants happy for MONTHS….and suddenly the other person ghosts. Be a fucking adult and leave properly, because all you do is make ME more hesitant to take up a new chat.

 

[Live4themoments]

The trouble is nobody wants to take the time to get to know you. All they want is a quick fix to their current horny state. I remember when I first joined lit the quality of conversations were much better, I used to have so many long term connections now that seems impossible. I spend most of my time reading trash PMs most of which don't even start with a hello and introduction.

Kinda like finding a needle in a haystack huh? Once you get "stuck" you found a winner. Then again, there are "pricks" along the way.. Unfortunately nothing comes easily these days.

 

[ThePullOutKing]

Us guys would kill to receive a bunch of PM's to contend with in chat. I understand why some men masquerade as women. At least if the room is talking and it's a fun conversation that's something to pass the time.

 

[pm4321]

For me, it was phone sex, and a little bit of sexting. My problem with lit is that I'm not on it enough and so timing conversations can be hard. That's why text and phone calls were always so fantastic.

 

[milfylata]

Ah, brings back some great memories. MSN and Yahoo messenger.

 

[JennaMom2022]

Miss the back and forth of ‘how did we meet’ and ‘what did I wear that caught your eye’ the creating a story out of thin air fun of the old days

 

[BrownHornet72]

I miss it too. From Yahoo messenger, Blackplanet, Facebook and other various sites. I made connections with quite a few women from across the US and some internationally. Alot of good times. Flirting would turn into cybersex. Cybersex into phonesex. I recall having a conversation with one friend, in the phone, while having cybersex with them on Yahoo messenger. Which lead to us listening to each other masturbate. The good ole days!!!

 

[EndCreditsPart2]

Anyone who still calls it cybersex needs to do stretches first thing in the morning. I'm implicating myself here too.

 

[ItaloMan]

For me, it was phone sex, and a little bit of sexting. My problem with lit is that I'm not on it enough and so timing conversations can be hard. That's why text and phone calls were always so fantastic.

Oh yes, I remember that, as well. There used to be the phone lines you could call into and find other people. I had some amazing phone sex with several women and even met a few locals.

 

[ItaloMan]

Ah, brings back some great memories. MSN and Yahoo messenger.

Welcome to the conversation, milfy! I'm curious where you do your cybersex now? Have you found a new place?

 

[ItaloMan]

Miss the back and forth of ‘how did we meet’ and ‘what did I wear that caught your eye’ the creating a story out of thin air fun of the old days

There is no reason we can't do that now!

 

[elizaloo]

Exactly! No reason not to start a convo with a polite salvo.

I mean, I’m wearing a men’s dress shirt in my ancient pic over there. I wonder if I still have the whole picture-it used to be my avatar.

 

[Booboobear84]

Actually my only cyber experiences have been here ( and recently in the cesspool called Reddit). Mostly voice notes or a voice app.

 

[goodgirlLin]

For me, it was phone sex, and a little bit of sexting. My problem with lit is that I'm not on it enough and so timing conversations can be hard. That's why text and phone calls were always so fantastic.

Same! I applied for a job at a telemarketing agency when I was in college and after a few weeks they asked if I would be interested to make more money and I would just have to ‘chat’ to men it became addictive, hearing someone’s voice and their arousal, being able to control them with my voice and words. It was magical

 

[Booboobear84]

Same! I applied for a job at a telemarketing agency when I was in college and after a few weeks they asked if I would be interested to make more money and I would just have to ‘chat’ to men it became addictive, hearing someone’s voice and their arousal, being able to control them with my voice and words. It was magical

Exactly. The power and the pleasure you give is like a drug. love doing voice.

 

[pm4321]

Same! I applied for a job at a telemarketing agency when I was in college and after a few weeks they asked if I would be interested to make more money and I would just have to ‘chat’ to men it became addictive, hearing someone’s voice and their arousal, being able to control them with my voice and words. It was magical

Geez that's hot. Imagine being the lucky guy who found the one operator who enjoyed her job

 

[MiaBabe23]

I miss cybersex. My first experiences were all the way back in the AOL days, when it was new to all of us. Beyond that, it was MySpace, and I even met a few people on Craigslist. But all that is past and I miss it. It's been way too long. I'm looking for someone who is willing to build a relationship online, form a real connection, share experiences and fantasies, and eventually enjoy cybersex together. I'm open to many different scenarios and enjoy the part of the relationship where discover where my desires intersect yours and we get to explore openly and comfortably. That said, I have had some online lovers who wanted me to help the explore and discover new pleasures. As for me, I'm Italian, very outgoing, love to laugh and have fun, spontaneous, creative, playful, passionate, romantic, active, athletic, and I love connecting and experiencing new things. Introduce yourself here, or fee free to send me a private message. Tell me more about you and your desires...

You sound fun, I can’t imagine it’ll take long for you to find what you’re after
I’m personally not looking for a relationship or anything like that, but feel free to say hi sometime, I’m sure we could entertain each other

 

[Wisconsin1965]

Some people can't multitask

 

[Mike198042]

I have been trying to find people that love the intimacy of connecting throught chat. I have found it difficult to sift through all the spam bots and flaky people. There is something about taking your time to get to know each other and seducing their minds and using your imagination to please each other. I miss some of the older sites where it was easier to chat.

 

[MiaBabe23]

The people who want the quick fix really perplex me. If all they want to do is get off quick why not go to whatever website and watch a video or look at still images? You could get right to the point and be done in however many minutes it takes you. Why waste all the time trying to find some anonymous woman in chat, that you can't even see, and then just read text on a screen. To me that PALES in comparison. I see no point in that.

Not only is getting to know someone important, but also having commonality (views, tastes, interests etc.) because now (at least for me) you're really starting to like this person and vibe with them. If it was real life you'd be asking them out at this point. Then when you do go next level (could even be the same night) it's so much more satisfying even if it is just text on the screen. And then you want to see them again.

Because getting to know and feel for someone you develop a connection with doesn’t change the fact you sometimes just wanna enjoy something hot and random with someone who’s, well, hot and random