Is 39 too old for a choker?

[COCK_STAR]

First, I just wanted to thank you for explaining the difference between fact and opinion... I was genuinely confused. I am going to go out in a limb and assume that you are a pissed off 39+ year old that doesn't want to be reminded of her age or declining looks. For that I am truly sorry.

 

[GrrlFriday]

I like the idea of the choker, though I'm not sure of the effect of wearing it with two anklets. Could you please describe the anklets? I'd consider that a bit over the top if I saw that on someone in the street and noticed it, but I wouldn't think any more on it.

The pendant sounds lovely, and if you're happy about how it looks on you, you should wear it. Every day, if that's what you want - it sounds like you're comfy in it.

 

[fire_breeze]

Stella, I think you are doing this poor woman a disservice. The woman asked a question, and ten people before me gave a sugar coated bullshit answer. The truth is the neck ages rather quickly. Is 39 old? Absolutely not. Have a great day.

You obviously do not know me, as I do not sugar coat nor do I bull-shit. You most certainly do not know Stella, as bullshit and sugar-coating is definitely not in her vocabulary.The next you will be saying that people with 'old'-looking hands should not be wearing wedding bands because it attracts attention? It's the same thing.

That said, I'd like to repeat that until her death at 87, my grandmother wore chokers and she had a neck that rivalled mine - and not to be immodest, I know I have a good-looking neck. Kim feels confident in her wearing a choker, she's would like to wear a delicate, almost inconspicuous, piece of jewelry which would hardly attract any attention. The OP was asking that, as chokers are coming back into style, would she look like she's trying to imitate the young. The resounding answer, from the context she has given us, is no.

Most women, I might add, will also include their necks if not their décolletage, in their everyday skin-care routine, making judging the neck as an indication of age a very difficult activity. The photo you have shown is of a woman who is probably older than 39 and unless I miss my mark, probably also had some work done.

She's not out to imitate Abby from NCIS. She's out to show her devotion and her love, much like a religious person would wear an innocuous pendant as a symbol of his/her faith.

 

[COCK_STAR]

Thanks sugar tits. You really put me in my place.

 

[daddie]

I don't want to make too big of a fashion faux pas. Some guidance on chokers, thumb rings and ankle bracelets would be appreciated.

As far as committing a fashion faux pas it depends on who are you trying to impress.

As long as you look neat and presentable most men don't really care or notice what fashion blunders women commit.

Though generally speaking imo a majority of ladies do not dress to impress guys, they seem to be more focused on looking fashionable in front of other females.

 

[SassySheDevil]

I'm 41, I wear them all the time and never has one person ever told me I'm too old or trying to look younger then I am.
If you like it, wear it.

 

[Eilan]

Cawk Star would trip over his dick if he thought he could get even a hint of cyberpussy from any of the women on this thread.

 

[Spikile]

Any jewelry can be obvious and contrived if you mess it up, IMHO...
I'm sure your neck is one of your many great assets, but hell, what has it done to deserve all the attention?
I'm incredibly partial to sexy necks- oh ffs! I'm partial to sexy ANYTHING! Anything you dress up is going to attract attention, and who gives a toss if you're 39 or 69? The question is: are you resolute enough to beat off the adulant crowds? If you're even thinking about non-mainstream jewelry, then you're not eligible for assesment in terms of "appropriateness"! Give it horns! Go big! And send us pics!