Isolated BDSM Blurts: Facehugger Fetish

I double bag my girls when I go to the gym. Sports bras are not all created equal.

Double bagging sounds awful (so much sweat). Sports bras are usually pretty shite. I have three awesome sports bras with underwire and a very firm but comfortable hold. I recommend avoiding S, M, L, XL sizing. This brand is more affordable than others. Granted, I’m working with 32 D so that may also make a difference.
 
Thanks, I saved it. 36DD.
I hate the sausage tits look that tank sports bras give me.

Indeed, I was so tired of just having things mashed down and still not actually staying in place. Quadro-boob was an issue. Ugh, not fun. The full coverage is excellent and padded thick straps for comfy shoulders ٩(^‿^)۶
 
I burned my finger nail lighting a candle. I do not recommend it. Smells awful.

Ugh! My sympathies. I have done that before. It seems to take forever and a day for the pain to stop because every finger movement moves the nail just a tiny bit.
 
I double bag my girls when I go to the gym. Sports bras are not all created equal.

Double bagging sounds awful (so much sweat). Sports bras are usually pretty shite. I have three awesome sports bras with underwire and a very firm but comfortable hold. I recommend avoiding S, M, L, XL sizing. This brand is more affordable than others. Granted, I’m working with 32 D so that may also make a difference.

I'm team Freya for sports bras (also for other bras, I have so many from them).

Is this some kind of dark ritual, or just a really vile smelling scented candle??

Literally just lighting a candle and the flame burning my nail. Smells so, so bad.

Ugh! My sympathies. I have done that before. It seems to take forever and a day for the pain to stop because every finger movement moves the nail just a tiny bit.

It didn't hurt, it was just the tip of my nail. I trimmed my nails to get rid of the brown and the horrible smell the nail itself had after the incident. No bueno.
 
I've been talking with someone on and off for a while now. We get along rather well, we're interested in similar (non-sexual) things, it's been generally pleasant to have those chats. There's some potential in the BDSM sphere as well. Not OMG-Best-Ever, but all things considered, pretty good.

Now there's been talk of getting together and getting some BDSM on, because lord knows I need certain things. And today he said that he's really looking forward to it, because he's "crazy for curvy women" and he "can't wait to get his hands on [my] curves".

My interest pretty much immediately died. I hate the thought of being someone's fat fetish object. I called the meeting off at least for now, but I have my doubts about how to get over this.

It's like I live to self sabotage, just can't get enough of it. This can't be that big a deal, right?

At this rate, I'll be without certain kinky things for a very, very long time.

(Let's treat this as an isolated blurt, okay? I just needed to get this out of my chest.)
 
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^^^ seela - I get this way when someone brings up age. Whether it's a guy asking if I'd enjoy being with an older daddy and he's only a year or two older than me. Or a younger guy brings up my age like it's part of his kink.

No thanks.

As I'm typing this, I started thinking about creepy but hot sadist ways someone could use this to get inside my head. Haha. Play oldies and make me watch Golden Girls as he chokes me on his cock.

Anyways. Some things just bug us. Not sure if it's in the realm of self sabotage?? Are you finding reasons to not meet most people for which you might have a glimmer of connection?

/end of therapy questions
 
Meet in a vanilla setting and watch his reactions to curvy women around you.

See if it appears to be a fetish or just an awkward way of telling you he's excited to meet you.
 
I like tall brunettes. That's not a fetish, just a preference. Nobody need be offended by that, and I needn't apologize for it.
 
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I like tall brunettes. That's not a fetish, just a preference. Nobody need be offended by that, and I needn't apologize for it.

Do you tell them that you're looking forward to meeting them because they're tall and have brown hair and that you can't wait to touch their tall body and brown hair?
 
Do you tell them that you're looking forward to meeting them because they're tall and have brown hair and that you can't wait to touch their tall body and brown hair?

Never have, but I might...how tall are you? ;)

I'm kidding, of course, your point is taken.
 
Since the whole covid mayhem started, the HR have been pestering people to put a face pic in the intranet profile and outlook. I'm the only one in my department who hasn't done it, they're sending me reminders every day now.

I'm thinking about caving and using the pic where I'm wearing the white overalls and my head looks like an egg. Serves them right.
 
Since the whole covid mayhem started, the HR have been pestering people to put a face pic in the intranet profile and outlook. I'm the only one in my department who hasn't done it, they're sending me reminders every day now.

I'm thinking about caving and using the pic where I'm wearing the white overalls and my head looks like an egg. Serves them right.

Or you could just say:"No, thanks. I'm exercising my GDPR rights to not participate in personal data sharing for this one."
 
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