It's been said before, but, Does size really matter?

bisexplicit said:
Average is around 5.25 inches.

Now, guys, learn to stop obsessing over your penis size; because seriously, girls don't care half as much as you do.


I couldn't have said it better Bisexplicit! I actually love a cock thats 5-6 inches...fits sooo much better in the mouth! ;)
 
The "right" size is a relative thing. People will look for the size they like. I am average 6 but very thick. While my bo is an 8 but not as thick as I. The wife enjoys both of us but not because of the width or thickness of our penises (although I am sure that is part of it) but for our different styles of love making.

The best thing you can do is just roll like you own the place. Its the confidence that you show that will make or break you.
 
LOL, Ric,
I do believe you're a bigger smarta** than I am. You make me wish I was more your type, you're kinda cute.
 
sweetsyn said:
LOL, Ric,
I do believe you're a bigger smarta** than I am. You make me wish I was more your type, you're kinda cute.
Awww thanks, I kinda like you too ;)
 
i'm 8" uncut,but...............let's say a couple things first:

I'm very happy with what i have,so do my partners-and,it seems,many people from lit too! I think it looks cute!And that's what really matters,to me.

i love the way it looks..I wouldn't change anything.
And luckily,i did get rid of the size problem very early on.Never been an issue for me.


Listen to your partners.TONS of fringe benefits-for everyone.That will make you stop worryng about size-and make you a better lover


Inches have never created great lovers.Following your instincts and pleasing your partners has.So? ;)
 
YOUR SIZE IS FINE!!!!

Be happy with it


Anything between 3 inches and 8 inches will create pleasure. That is where 99% of people fall, so unless you are the 1% out of that range then you really should be happy with what you have. Put your effort into improving your physique. Go to the gym, learn better oral, read the "try this and report back" thread. Just get over the size thing and you will be better off. OK I vented, I feel better now
 
Right now, my husband is 7 3/4 inches. He's got a perfect cock, but if he were bigger, I'd be fine with that. Smaller, I wouldn't.

There's nothing better then feeling that thing filling you up and stretching the walls of your vagina till it's damned near to the hilt.

I absolutely love it, and I have to be honest, I'd be disappointed if someone dropped the drawers and I had a 5 inch fully erect penis looking back at me. It wouldn't do much for me at all.
 
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It's not the size that matters, it's what you do with it.

Think about it, every woman is made different. Some women can't take large dicks without discomfort. Not pleasure/pain type, but real pain. In that case, a large dick is not desirable.

If guys worried about their technique as much as they worry about their size, they would amazing lovers.

Besides, there are other ways to make your lover scream, not just filling them up till you can barely move.

If you feel down about your size (which you shouldn't), then perfect a bedroom skill that will bring your confidence back up. :)
 
Well, I think I know how to please a woman and/or guy. I think I be good with oral, especially women. Of course, I don't have alot of experience with sex, since, I am a virgin, so, you can see my problem.
 
Ricwilly said:
I'm not concerned with penis size, I drive an S-10.
Oh wow I have the S-10 also , so I guess my penis size doesn't matter what a relief . :cool:
 
These kinds of discussions really go to show how fragile the male ego is. It's kind of sad in a way that a man's self confidence could be derived from his penis, and that a mere inch here or there could be the difference in a stud or a submissive.

There are men out there with 9" cocks that don't know what to do with them, and men out there with 4" that can rock your world. Being a good lover is an attitude, and a skill. It's more about putting your partner's pleasure before you own - than it is a game of inches.

S.
 
Hi Stefani,
Since it's of a rather personal nature, I thought I would ask first. Would it be ok to PM you?
Gabi
 
Stefani said:
These kinds of discussions really go to show how fragile the male ego is. It's kind of sad in a way that a man's self confidence could be derived from his penis, and that a mere inch here or there could be the difference in a stud or a submissive.

There are men out there with 9" cocks that don't know what to do with them, and men out there with 4" that can rock your world. Being a good lover is an attitude, and a skill. It's more about putting your partner's pleasure before you own - than it is a game of inches.

S.

So, what are you saying? That I am weak.
 
Stefani said:
These kinds of discussions really go to show how fragile the male ego is. It's kind of sad in a way that a man's self confidence could be derived from his penis, and that a mere inch here or there could be the difference in a stud or a submissive.

There are men out there with 9" cocks that don't know what to do with them, and men out there with 4" that can rock your world. Being a good lover is an attitude, and a skill. It's more about putting your partner's pleasure before you own - than it is a game of inches.

S.
Yes, but these types of discussions are important to bring more light or understanding as to why. Male ego is not always the case.

I think if you're not happy with a certain part of your body then you're not happy. Women's obsession with breast size and implants is no different. Why isn't that criticized? Besides I think all of our egos are fragile.

Unfortunately today we live in a world where bigger is considered better, from taller buildings to large amounts of money. The idea that $20 dollars is still more than $10 dollars and so it's how you spend it that counts.
Yes, probably being a good lover, and putting your partner's pleasure before your own is great. All in an ideal world.

If it's a game of inches, then it's a very big game...
 
And I never said I was embarrassed by my dick size. Hell, I say this, "it's what God gave me". I mean, I know how to control it. I'm also a very passionate person, even if I am a virgin, so I know that I will be good in bed, even if my dick isn't the size of a dinosaur or anything.
 
Long enough to reach is long enough

bicuriousosaur said:
I don't know if I reveal this, but, I have a six and a half inched erected penis. Anyway, I been told I got a big thick dick by some people and other people say that I have a small dick. So, I have to ask do you think a 6.5 penis is small..

The only time I ever needed a longer dick, was when I had to piss over the side of my boat. Size only matters in things that have to be settled at the start, like do you want a Lincoln towncar or a Miata. By the time anybody has to make a judgement on dick size, its not going to change their mind about you.
 
definately to some

i found it pretty funny in that i've slept with maybe 15 girls in my life and all had said i was the perfect size for them (6"), until my last girlfriend who was this tiny 5' asian girl who liked them big. it was pretty exciting at first when she'd tell me about past lovers and i agreed to supplement our sex life by doing a threesome with another guy. it was great during sex, seeing her getting it from this huge guy, but i would always regret it after we were done.
 
blackieone said:
i'm 8" uncut,but...............let's say a couple things first:


Thats well over the average size, more in the "large" size bracket. And I also agree that whats big to one person is small to another. I'm 7 1/2 inches-cut and girls have said that I was big, medium, and small. So if 7 1/2 inches is small than what can ya do. I prefer to call it medium.
And this brings up a question about uncut members. I date a ts, she's 9 7/8 inch long, cut and very thick and (trust me I measured). One night she took me to a tranny club where she introduced me to a bunch of her IS Friends. After the club closed me, her, and 7 of her Friends went back to the one girls penthouse and had quite a nasty time of it. But thats not the point. The point I'm trying to make is that I had not only a good look at all of the girls dicks but I also got to orally please all of them as well. Now 4 of them were uncut and 3 were not, 3 out of the 4 uncut girls were quite large, 2 were 8-9 inches long and quite girthy and the other was 6-7 inches and very very thick. The other uncut was 5 inches or so and very flaccid. As for the cut ones, 2 were quite small (to me) 3 or 4 inches erect but the black girl was monstrous! I was completely stupefied when she produced a thick 13 inch rod from her panties. it was quite the choker.
Now with all this said and not being all that experienced with penis size comparisons, my ts girlfriend was my first and we have only been dating for about a year. But viewing pics here and there and the occasional porn flick and with this latest experience it just seems to me that the uncut ones are bigger for some reason.
I'm shure they vary in sizes and shapes like anything else but with my limited experience I have found them to be bigger.
 
bicuriousosaur said:
So, what are you saying? That I am weak.

BC,

No, i'm not saying that you're weak, and I apologize if I inferred that you were. It just never ceases to amaze me how much emphasis all men put on size. Shouldn't whether or not you're a good lover depend on other issues beside size? Imagination, sensitivity, compassion, and affection, are all important elements that make up a good lover.

Also, just to mention it. If you're 6.5", you're bigger than probaby 60% of the men in the world.

Stef
 
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