It's been said before, but, Does size really matter?

[taolanes]

Imagination, sensitivity, compassion, and affection, are all important elements that make up a good lover.

Awesome, and I can't agree more. It reminds me of the quote I have everything I ever wanted, except I wanted all the wrong things. If you wake up one day with a 9 inch penis will it really matter? You should be more worried about your techniques, creativity, imagination, giving, etc.

 

[VinnieMeatball]

Here is my dick:
My one-eyed beast

I hope it ain't too small.

Where did he go???

 

[Wolfman1982]

Study: Men Overestimate Average Penis Size
Reuters Health (June 29)
Men worried about having a small penis are usually pretty average, but have a false idea of what the normal size is, according to a report in the medical journal Urology. This best way to reassure men with penile concerns is to educate them, the author of the report says. Men should know that a normal-sized penis is 1.6 inches or more when flaccid or 2.76 inches when stretched out. The findings are based on a study of 92 patients who went to the andrology department at Cairo University Hospital in Egypt over a two-year period complaining of a small penis. Each subject provided a sexual history and completed a standard erectile function questionnaire. Penile length and girth were assessed with a tape measure in both flaccid and fully stretched states. The men were asked what they considered a normal-size penis and then were informed about the actual normal size

 

[Frankie678]

The only one I have ever had orally, so far(hehe) was about 6 inches and not overly think, but I found it both enjoyable and satisfying. Bigger, hmmmm, I don't know. As far as otherwise, my only other experience with a man wasn't by choice, can't tell you how big or small he was, only that for my unwillingness, at any size he was TOO big. Guys, quit worrying so much about size, there are plenty of other ways you please a partner.
Gabi

I,ve had 9 inches... UMMM.. hard to give good head tho

 

[apb]

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[bi_asian_guy]

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[bi_asian_guy]

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[Hooper_X]

Size definitely matters to me. The only same sex encounters I've had have been with men who were very well hung. I have a realistic latex dong (with a very unrealistic suction cup). It's 9" long very thick. If a guy's dick wasn't at least in the same ball park, I'd say why bother.

 

[Wolfman1982]

does it matter or not ???

i don´t know really, i made a woman cum over webcam, and i don´t have a big one , neither in inches or for that matter in the metric system.

i don´t really give a fuck.

if the only way of pleasing a woman was giving her the time of her life with a 12 inch cock.

I would say that the world was crazy.

but heck i would rather have a very passionate lover who liked me for who i was, than some one who was so size oriented and a bitch.

(sorry if i have offended any one since it is just how i feel about it)

It is NOT the size that matters, it is what you can do with it , that matters.

But ok if you like them big, then go a head do it with a big one.

And this is just my sorry arse humble opinion.

Peace.

 

[Stella_Omega]

There was a love of my life, that had a really small dick- about 4 inches. And it was absolutely fantastic, and I''ll tell you why;
A woman's "G" spot is really the same thing as a man's prostate gland- big mystery solved, huh?
and it sits at the front of her vagina, just about fingertip deep.
His little dick would hit it over and over and over, never missing.... whoo boy.
This guy was gay (except for me), and his men would tell me the same thing about him-
and he was never really confident in his size, sadly, even though everyone fought over him all the time!

 

[taolanes]

this shows why sooooo many guys worry about their size.....



The ridiculous thing about all this was that all of these men had a perfectly normal male organ. Each one just thought he was very small compared with other men.

The trouble is that every man sees his own phallus in a foreshortened view - the angle at which he looks down on it inevitably makes it seem shorter than it is. Of course, when he glances at another man's organ in a changing room, there's no such foreshortening effect, so very often it'll look as though the other guy is slightly better endowed than him. A lifetime of comparison of this sort (and virtually every male does a quick mental check on each naked man he comes across) can very easily make a man feel a bit inadequate.




Basically, stop wasting your thoughts on this. Your size is perfectly fine!

 

[taolanes]

Kinsey said average is 6". Only problem is that everyone measured himself, meaning everyone lied!


In the spring of 2001, Lifestyle Condoms ran their own study. In Cancun, Mexico, Lifestyles assembled a total of 301 volunteers who were over 18 years old. More men were recruited, but approximately 25 percent weren't "up" to the task. They were mainly U.S. college students, so again, not a great way to evaluate racial and ethnic variations. The guys got to go into a private tent outside a nightclub, where they found magazines and other items to put them in the mood. It is important to note that two nurses individually measured each penis.

Simon Joseph, a spokesman for Lifestyles, said, "Our results show that about three-quarters of men fall under the average quoted by Kinsey."



Maybe this could finally end this penis madness. If you are under 3" you should see a doctor. Otherwise be happy with what God gave you

 

[fun4all6969]

size

I myself am 7" and fairly thick and I have been told several times that I am large and one girl I dated wouldn't let me put it in her and then another girl I dated thought that I was small as her only experiences were with men that were larger than me.

I believe that it is not your size but what you do with it for most women and a small percentage need to feel a large cock to feel filled and satisfied.

As a bi sexual male, I prefer to suck on cocks that are 6-8". Any bigger than that and I can't get my mouth around it and there is no way I could give a great blowjob. I have enjoyed cocks smaller than 6" immensly but just don't prefer them.

 

[Pni4UrThghts]

Size Doesn't Matter!!

I am a single 38 year old, grandmother of 2. I should know what it is like to be judge by the appearances rather then the experiences. I use to weigh in at close to 500lbs, GGG size bra and in a 7-8X clothing. Very few and far between men, saw through all that fat to even take the time to get to know me. No-one realy knew what was the real me inside physically, mentally & definitely sexually. But after a very embarrassing incident, at a local resturaunt, ((the waiter came to our table shortly we had just gotten our dinner serve, and looked right at me and said, "don't you think you have had enough to eat???" all the time making cow moos, and pig sounds). I was out to prove to myself that not only Knock-Out, Drop-Dead Gorgeious woman could ge all the action, but so could I. A few years later, (after losing over 350lbs) I revisited that same resturaunt & the same gentleman was working there. I was dressed to kill and with an an attitude of all that. He and his buddies sat at the next table as my friend and I and they were making catcalls and perverse suggestions to us throughout our whole dinner, just making silly fools of themselves flirting. I played my role right until we left and when he asked me out for a date that evening, I looked at him and told him I would never go out with a hypacrit such as himself, he was flabbergasted to say the least. He asked how I could prejudge him and I took out the Fat Picture of myself and handed it over to him. He could have said he didn't recognize the woman or something, but instead he started making the same cow sounds and inuendos that he did years before. I just looked at him and said, "thats my proof you are a judgemental hypacrit, that woman you make fun of out of digust and vulgar language is none other then myself!!!" To say the least his freinds started giving him hell on it all. I walked away feeling good about myself, like I hadnt in years!!! And all the long knowing inside, that maybe his outlook will change on his expectations or prejudgmental attitude, but mine will not. I am and forever that same woman, that very same fat woman, with feelings and experiences to offer, but never had the chance to until now. I may have lost the weight and regained some self-esteem in myself, but I am that same woman!!!
So see I truley know that size doesn't matter, unless it hurts someone. It doesn't matter if you are small or big, thick or thin, fat or skinny, all that matters is you take pride in what you do have to offer someone. If you put your best efforts forward, you will reep the rewards in the end. I SURE DID!!!

 

[brw02]

I think size probably matters, but I don't believe that bigger is necessarily better. I am a little longer than average, but I am also quite thick. That has been problematic at times. My lovers and I have had to be patient or the initial entry can be painful. That is not a very good way to start intercourse. My opinion is that average size is probably ideal. I believe the vagina can accomodate any size if given enough time, but I doubt many women would complain about 6" and half-dollar diameter. I haven't seen any benefit from being any larger.

 

[Jayzzzy]

size doesn't matter to me

just a comment on the question of size - My SO is quite well endowed and I very much enjoy deepthroating his long fat dick. And the fucking...well I love it. BUT......we also have a hot young male in our sex life and he is much smaller in length and girth than my SO. BUT that makes absolutly no difference to me. I enjoy sucking the smaller dick just as much. It is easier to deepthroat him anyway. He fucks me like crazy. So I guess I would say that to use an old saying it is not the size of the tool but how it is used.

 

[Raimondin]

Well, I suppose one of the "biggest" advantages of being small, is you can probably fit in just about anywhere!

 

[CuriousNiceGuy]

Well, I suppose one of the "biggest" advantages of being small, is you can probably fit in just about anywhere!

eheheh good one

Anyway I'm one of those guys that worry about their penis size.How many centimetres is an inch? cause here in Greece we don't count by inches too much and I dont know the analogy..

Btw someone said his/her mate had a 6' long and 6' wide cock?
Wtf?It was square?

 

[Raimondin]

eheheh good one

Anyway I'm one of those guys that worry about their penis size.How many centimetres is an inch? cause here in Greece we don't count by inches too much and I dont know the analogy..

Btw someone said his/her mate had a 6' long and 6' wide cock?
Wtf?It was square?

Well, I doubt it was THAT long, but I think 6 inches = 15 centimeters.
Yeah, hey, besides, "15" sounds much better than 6. Hehehehe!
So, stick to the centimeters scale!
At least it looks good on paper, or on the computer monitor!

I wouldn't worry, though

 

[CuriousNiceGuy]

Raimondin when you come to Greece I'll make sure you learn to count with centimetres and that you don't forget it

 

[aconsenter]

Size does matter in some cases. I recently met a guy and we decided to get it on. As I am primarily a bottom, I was excited as he advertised himself as being 7" and cut. Good size. When I pulled his cock out, it was quite small. I thought, well, shrinkage, you know? So I started to suck him and lick his balls, but, as he got hard, he only grew to about 4" and maaaaaaaaybe 1" diameter. I wanted to make the best of it so I sucked him and as I enjoy deep throating, I could get him down no problem, but it really didn't do much for me, as he couldn't reach my gag-reflex spot. I kneeled in front of him and he fingered my ass and entered me, yes, safely folks, and big deal, yes pun intended. He was really into finger-fucking my ass, which no one has ever done, and I really enjoyed that. He was good. He has contacted me several times again and I told him the only way I would do him again is if he brings some big-ass toys. So to me, buyer beware. Size does matter. He came a ton, though.

 

[sinnamongyrl]

i think width is more important that length,,and who said about giving?OH YES...that is a major turn on to have man that would be giving in bed......someome who would care if i came or not?wow...even better......forgot this was the GLBT board,,I am a bi girl...sooo i can post here right/lol..ignore my answer if need be,,,,sorry.

 

[taolanes]

I am a single 38 year old, grandmother of 2. I should know what it is like to be judge by the appearances rather then the experiences. I use to weigh in at close to 500lbs, GGG size bra and in a 7-8X clothing. Very few and far between men, saw through all that fat to even take the time to get to know me. No-one realy knew what was the real me inside physically, mentally & definitely sexually. But after a very embarrassing incident, at a local resturaunt, ((the waiter came to our table shortly we had just gotten our dinner serve, and looked right at me and said, "don't you think you have had enough to eat???" all the time making cow moos, and pig sounds). I was out to prove to myself that not only Knock-Out, Drop-Dead Gorgeious woman could ge all the action, but so could I. A few years later, (after losing over 350lbs) I revisited that same resturaunt & the same gentleman was working there. I was dressed to kill and with an an attitude of all that. He and his buddies sat at the next table as my friend and I and they were making catcalls and perverse suggestions to us throughout our whole dinner, just making silly fools of themselves flirting. I played my role right until we left and when he asked me out for a date that evening, I looked at him and told him I would never go out with a hypacrit such as himself, he was flabbergasted to say the least. He asked how I could prejudge him and I took out the Fat Picture of myself and handed it over to him. He could have said he didn't recognize the woman or something, but instead he started making the same cow sounds and inuendos that he did years before. I just looked at him and said, "thats my proof you are a judgemental hypacrit, that woman you make fun of out of digust and vulgar language is none other then myself!!!" To say the least his freinds started giving him hell on it all. I walked away feeling good about myself, like I hadnt in years!!! And all the long knowing inside, that maybe his outlook will change on his expectations or prejudgmental attitude, but mine will not. I am and forever that same woman, that very same fat woman, with feelings and experiences to offer, but never had the chance to until now. I may have lost the weight and regained some self-esteem in myself, but I am that same woman!!!
So see I truley know that size doesn't matter, unless it hurts someone. It doesn't matter if you are small or big, thick or thin, fat or skinny, all that matters is you take pride in what you do have to offer someone. If you put your best efforts forward, you will reep the rewards in the end. I SURE DID!!!

Very inspirational story. Great job, and I'm glad you remembered the lessons from your past

 

[ackjae01]

My god sunny, how many guys have you been with?? I think I'd just like to sit there and watch that!!

the odds of a 9-10 incher is about 1 in 10,000..she gets around