Jailbait, were you ever?

[bustyblondebombshell]

I made the mistake of going to the shopping mall on a Saturday to go to the bookstore a few months ago. I knew that the instant I walked in I was in trouble. The teen girls around here are pretty mature looking. They are also dressed to advertise what they've got. Seems like they are trying really hard to grow up fast.

yup... I'd agree with that.

I spend my life telling my goddaughter she can't go out at the age of 10 wearing heels and a short skirt - there are some sick people out there! But she isn't going to understand at her age.

When I was 15, I wanted to be treated credibly as an adult. In hindsight I wasn't... but I so wanted to be.

 

[northwoods_sub]

I was jailbait back in the day. I was probably about 16 and he was 20 I think. He wasn't my first and was definately not my last.
I don't think it affected my in a bad way at all. He was not forcing himself on me and I knew what I was getting into and for the most part it was just sex so whatever. It wasn't until I was over 18 that I started doing major age jumps. My first girlfriend was 35 and I was 18. Learned a lot from that woman and I have never regretted it!

 

[lushlucid]

Statutory Rape mean nothing?

 

[lushlucid]

I made the mistake of going to the shopping mall on a Saturday to go to the bookstore a few months ago. I knew that the instant I walked in I was in trouble. The teen girls around here are pretty mature looking. They are also dressed to advertise what they've got. Seems like they are trying really hard to grow up fast.

But you noticed that they were teenagers?
Unforunately it doesn't matter how they dress it is up to you how you behave. A girl isn't asking for it just because she's got tits.

 

[Betticus]

But you noticed that they were teenagers?
Unforunately it doesn't matter how they dress it is up to you how you behave. A girl isn't asking for it just because she's got tits.

Oh I didn't care, those little sluts were dressed for it so I basically just started at one end of the mall and violently raped my way through all of those teenagers until I'd had them all.

I'm surprised you didn't hear about a couple of hundred teens being gang raped by one guy in a mall on a Saturday.

 

[lushlucid]

Oh I didn't care, those little sluts were dressed for it so I basically just started at one end of the mall and violently raped my way through all of those teenagers until I'd had them all.

I'm surprised you didn't hear about a couple of hundred teens being gang raped by one guy in a mall on a Saturday.

I don't find that funny.

 

[Betticus]

I don't find that funny.

I was merely pointing out what it felt your accusatory tone was implying.

 

[Homburg]

I don't find that funny.

That's probably because you're just a little more emotionally invested in this topic than the people around you.

I thought it was worth a snort.

 

[ownedsubgal]

Statutory Rape mean nothing?

honestly it doesn't mean much. statutory rape is about numerical age, not lack of consent. unless a girl's parents know and threaten to press charges, or there's a nasty break-up and the teen girl is trying to get payback, there isn't much to worry about. where i grew up it was commonplace for girls to be with men ten or more years older than themselves...it was a sign of "coolness" believe it or not.

 

[HB1965]

Yes when I was 16. I lied about my age to someone

 

[BiBunny]

My first "real" relationship was when I was 17. He was 26. Doesn't sound like a big deal, but it sure raised some eyebrows. The first time we had sex was exactly one month from my 18th birthday (which is the only reason I can still remember the date, LOL). We stayed together for about a year, and when we broke up, he was 27, and I was 18. It happened the week before I moved away to start college, and I was heartbroken because he was my first love and all that. I spent my freshman year basically locked up in my dorm, hiding from the world.

He'd been fucking another (really nasty-looking) girl behind my back and got her pregnant. They got married about two months after we broke up. They're still together, but I got my revenge because a couple of years ago, he called me, and we spent some "quality time" together while wifey was gone. Yes, I know I'm evil and flame away if you must, but I think in that situation, what goes around comes around.

Now, I hardly ever talk to him. I wouldn't sleep with him again, but I can finally consider him a friend after all the stuff that's happened. I know I could probably call him if I ever needed anything, but I have no reason to venture any closer than, "Hi, how are you?" every now and then. *Shrug*

 

[graceanne]

No, but barely. K and I started dating shortly after my 18th birthday - he was 27. *shrugs*

 

[Betticus]

My first "real" relationship was when I was 17. He was 26. Doesn't sound like a big deal, but it sure raised some eyebrows. The first time we had sex was exactly one month from my 18th birthday (which is the only reason I can still remember the date, LOL). We stayed together for about a year, and when we broke up, he was 27, and I was 18. It happened the week before I moved away to start college, and I was heartbroken because he was my first love and all that. I spent my freshman year basically locked up in my dorm, hiding from the world.

He'd been fucking another (really nasty-looking) girl behind my back and got her pregnant. They got married about two months after we broke up. They're still together, but I got my revenge because a couple of years ago, he called me, and we spent some "quality time" together while wifey was gone. Yes, I know I'm evil and flame away if you must, but I think in that situation, what goes around comes around.

Now, I hardly ever talk to him. I wouldn't sleep with him again, but I can finally consider him a friend after all the stuff that's happened. I know I could probably call him if I ever needed anything, but I have no reason to venture any closer than, "Hi, how are you?" every now and then. *Shrug*

Vengeance! Of course you rewarded him with sex in order to put one over on the other girl. If you wanted to really make him sting you would have fucked his dad.

 

[Betticus]

No, but barely. K and I started dating shortly after my 18th birthday - he was 27. *shrugs*

Wanna cookie lil girl?

 

[BiBunny]

Vengeance! Of course you rewarded him with sex in order to put one over on the other girl. If you wanted to really make him sting you would have fucked his dad.

*Shudder* That's a scary thought.

 

[Luvkitty33]

Not really. I was 17 when we first started getting involved with each other. He was one of my bossses, and we hung out in the same group of friends. He was 26, and I was 18 the first time that we slept together, though.

As far as trying to act like an adult when you're only a kid, been there, done that.............and regretted it. I was very innocent in high school, but I had some girl friends that were not. I remember them doing a "makeover" on me.....which meant doing my hair, puttting a ton of makeup on me, and dressing me in inappropriate clothing for my age. Basically trying to look older but probably looking more slutty. That was also the night that I started smoking......all in an attempt to look "cool" and "mature." Took years to quit that bad habit!!

We went out to this miniature golf place, and we were hanging out by the entrance. I was sitting on the wall when this 30-something guy walked by. My friends had been saying flirty comments all night to people while I did not.......until that guy walked by. Scared the crap out of me when he actually stopped, came over and kissed my hand, etc....LOL!! As I said, I was innocent back then.

Anyway, as far as it went was big time making out (how sad that that was my first kiss!), but the scary thing was that I almost got in the car with him. He wanted me to go smoke pot with him in his car, which I also didn't do but was trying to be "adult-like" so went to his car with him. Thank goodness my brain came back at that point, and I told him no, and then rejoined my friends who were watching from the sidelines to make sure he didn't "kidnap" me. Like they could've done anything standing that far away!

The reason I said it was scary how close I came to getting in his car is because of a news report that came out the next day. There was a story about a 30-something guy, that met this guy's description, that had raped a young girl in the same city as the miniature golf place where I had met him. I'm not saying it was the same guy, but it scared me enough to go back to the innocent me for a few more years!!

 

[xPinkxStarsx]

I just need to make sure that whenever any of them come over, I'm either out in the garage lifting, or at my desk cleaning a gun or sharpening a knife. It'll be classic.

"So, how old were you again?"

I never had to be careful with my dad...Its my mother that I would need to hide everything from. Being 18 now and in a relationship with a 21 year old, she freaked out. If she knew about anything else, I am sure she would have killed me and any men I had been seeing or chatting with online.

 

[TheBlackDahlia]

When I had my first relationship, I was 16 and my boyfriend was almost 21. The weird thing is that I didn't even know he was that much older than me until after we broke up.

 

[Luvkitty33]

When I had my first relationship, I was 16 and my boyfriend was almost 21. The weird thing is that I didn't even know he was that much older than me until after we broke up.

That's because guys mature MUCH slower than women.

 

[Betticus]

That's because guys mature MUCH slower than women.

Good point.

 

[the captians wench]

You dated for a month and the subject of age never came up?
I don't think you should have sex with someone if you're underage without telling them.

maybe I'm just weird, but age never is a subject that really comes up for me right away either. Age doesn't bother me one bit, even when I was younger. Infact, it's usually the other person who brings up the subject.

I'm a lot like bb, in that my parents had a massive age difference. I was 3 when my mom and dad split and mom moved us in with another man who was 34 years older than her. The man raised me as his, so I grew up with a massive age gap staring me in the face every day. I think it kind of makes the subject a moot point.

 

[Betticus]

Do you think that the sexual pressure put on girls from a young age is part of that early emotional maturity?

 

[FurryFury]

Do you think that the sexual pressure put on girls from a young age is part of that early emotional maturity?

You mean from media? Yes. I do think it factors in. It sends the message that if you are not considered sexually viable you are not a female.

However, like I said, part of my drive was a desperation to be loved, and touched. I didn't really believe in love but this was a close as I could arrange to get. If they wanted me there was almost a feeling of wholeness and being loved. All of this was subconscious at that time. I treated them with respect and they did the same for me.

 

[Luvkitty33]

Do you think that the sexual pressure put on girls from a young age is part of that early emotional maturity?

I'm not sure that is the reason. Girls have always matured faster than boys, even as real little kids. That's the reason that it's common for boys to have to wait an extra year before entering kindergarden........they need the extra time to mature and be ready.

I do think that as our society has changed with the media, movies, TV, etc. girls are "forced" in some ways to try and grow up faster......or at least appear like they have by the way they dress and act. I just don't think the fact that they are trying to appear more mature means that they are really emotionally mature. Does that make any sense?

 

[FurryFury]

I'm not sure that is the reason. Girls have always matured faster than boys, even as real little kids. That's the reason that it's common for boys to have to wait an extra year before entering kindergarden........they need the extra time to mature and be ready.

I do think that as our society has changed with the media, movies, TV, etc. girls are "forced" in some ways to try and grow up faster......or at least appear like they have by the way they dress and act. I just don't think the fact that they are trying to appear more mature means that they are really emotionally mature. Does that make any sense?

That makes sense to me.