Kinkier as we get older?

[LeSabreur]

When I was young I was very shy. I was also two years younger than everyone else in my class, which really becomes difficult when the girls suddenly shoot ahead of the boys when puberty kicks in. It wasn't until I was over 40 that I was able to be more comfortable and confident, shaking most of that childhood bashfulness. I will never forget going to my first house party with folks in the swing lifestyle, walking stark naked through the house full of people I had never met...besides having this wild sense of unreality it was such a freeing experience!

That opened the door to exploring with couples in a MMF setting, exploring sexuality with other men, meeting people with different kinks... leading me down paths I would not have imagined when I was younger.

Now, in my early 60s, my desires for a wide range of experiences are running wild!

 

[Unr3pntntHarlot]

i'm more comfortable with myself and admitting the path of depravity I would like to do down

 

[Loyalish1245]

i'm more comfortable with myself and admitting the path of depravity I would like to do down

Preach that one. The older I get the more willing I am to self select.

 

[Dimented]

i'm more comfortable with myself and admitting the path of depravity I would like to do down

I think it’s just us not caring what society deems as good or bad

 

[LittleGreene]

How many of you have gotten kinkier and more libidinous as you got older? I grew up in strict religion and sex was limited to traditional and oral. Then bondage, spanking, anal. Then in my late 40's, I got into pegging, fisting, occasional crossdressing, etc. Now, at 60, I am kinkier than ever.

I Definitely think with age and experience you understand yourself and sex better than when much younger.
I’ve got much more confident in myself and my body, and having a loving partner that gives you the trust and support to experience new things helps massively.

 

[PegMahone]

How many of you have gotten kinkier and more libidinous as you got older? I grew up in strict religion and sex was limited to traditional and oral. Then bondage, spanking, anal. Then in my late 40's, I got into pegging, fisting, occasional crossdressing, etc. Now, at 60, I am kinkier than ever.

100% correct. I remember curiously trying anal with a small candle to see if it hurt and felt good when I was 20 or so. Girls always say it hurts, so I had to find out. It was just a little candle.

Now 30 years later my wife has me lusting after real and massive cocks. I love pegging, large toys, and even fisting. I just posted my fantasy of being raped with a huge cock because I love not being in control.

So yes, things have escalated.

 

[Samantha47]

100% correct. I remember curiously trying anal with a small candle to see if it hurt and felt good when I was 20 or so. Girls always say it hurts, so I had to find out. It was just a little candle.

Now 30 years later my wife has me lusting after real and massive cocks. I love pegging, large toys, and even fisting. I just posted my fantasy of being raped with a huge cock because I love not being in control.

So yes, things have escalated.

I know that's true

 

[Biguy77578]

One thing for sure as I've gotten older it takes more to excite me so the more kinky the better. When in my 20's the site of tits made me crazy and now in my 70' I want to see them tied up and bound and spank them.

 

[Scooter58]

One thing for sure as I've gotten older it takes more to excite me so the more kinky the better. When in my 20's the site of tits made me crazy and now in my 70' I want to see them tied up and bound and spank them.

I second this. All (older) guys remember the early days when all you had to do was think about sex and you’d get hard. Then it progressed to visual stimulation and that lasts a pretty long time. Nowadays, the visual is greatly enhanced by verbal and perhaps more extreme enhancements or kink. The talking especially can really get me going. It’s like laying your soul bare and when your partner reciprocates in kind- well, it’s amazing. I find myself drawn more to “kink”
Now than ever before.

 

[Midnightcaller26]

I'm probably a little tame as far as kinky goes, but as I've gotten older I've definitely gotten more into giving directions, picking out underwear etc... What I like watching has shifted also from the softer side of things to watching things much more rough.

 

[Scooter58]

When my wife hit menopause, I started looking for alternatives. I think as our bodies age, we need to engage our minds to compensate for our declining bodies. That said, I know of many sexless people age 50s+. For myself, I want to stay sexually engaged and relevant for as long as I can. Life is a journey for sure.

My wife and I (65&67)know the window is closing so we go for it as much as possible while we can. We have friends over 70 still having sex. Life is short and we want to have as much sex as possible while we can.

 

[Scooter58]

I'm probably a little tame as far as kinky goes, but as I've gotten older I've definitely gotten more into giving directions, picking out underwear etc... What I like watching has shifted also from the softer side of things to watching things much more rough.

I’m a submissive by nature but my wife wants me to be more dominant. I’m training myself to be more dominant and my wife likes it a little rougher now.

 

[LtxGdss]

I don’t think you become kinkier as you get older, I think you become more aware of your own kinks and more confident and exploratory with them.

Of course with age and development of relationships you become more trusting too, which I personally find key to going deeper into the kink rabbit hole.

 

[Samantha47]

I don’t think you become kinkier as you get older, I think you become more aware of your own kinks and more confident and exploratory with them.

Of course with age and development of relationships you become more trusting too, which I personally find key to going deeper into the kink rabbit hole.

Oh me too

 

[Samantha47]

Oh me too

What would you like to do kinky

 

[gtnlynn]

Our kinkiest times were in our 30's, after our children were born but before they became teenagers. My wife had to start wearing bras and dressing more conservatively around our kids' friends.

 

[pntyhseluvr]

I’ve become far more open to new things as I’ve gotten older. Some of that is kinks so yeah.

 

[Samantha47]

I’ve become far more open to new things as I’ve gotten older. Some of that is kinks so yeah.

That's awesome

 

[Scooter58]

I don’t think you become kinkier as you get older, I think you become more aware of your own kinks and more confident and exploratory with them.

Of course with age and development of relationships you become more trusting too, which I personally find key to going deeper into the kink rabbit hole.

I like this response. On point!

 

[Samantha47]

I like this response. On point!

I agree

 

[tallladiesman]

I definitely think there is something in this
As I have gotten older I have definitely tried and enjoyed more things and stuff that was a hard no in my 20s is a hell yes in my 50s

 

[Samantha47]

I definitely think there is something in this
As I have gotten older I have definitely tried and enjoyed more things and stuff that was a hard no in my 20s is a hell yes in my 50s

Feels so good to just let go

 

[tallladiesman]

Feels so good to just let go

Absolutely, letting go is one of the joys in life

 

[Samantha47]

Absolutely, letting go is one of the joys in life

Yes completely let go

 

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