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lowcollar said:
How many of you have gotten kinkier and more libidinous as you got older? I grew up in strict religion and sex was limited to traditional and oral. Then bondage, spanking, anal. Then in my late 40's, I got into pegging, fisting, occasional crossdressing, etc. Now, at 60, I am kinkier than ever.
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I am certainly getting kinkier as I grow older. So many kinky things have been added to my bucket list.
Open to discuss with others. PM me
 
Like I wrote, I have journeyed into some intense kink in my younger man whoring days.

BDSM, some extreme was a large part of my sex life. Even the less extreme partners submitted on some level.

After 40+ years of marriage I finally gave myself over to my prurient interests. In that, with a sub half my age, I felt revived. Staying hard and cumming multiple times throughout the day.

With her I've definitely shared some dark, intense and very erotic explorations. So as I've intimated before, maybe not actually kinkier but reminded of how much I love it.

So this old man thinks on it more often than I did when I was running through the female population of Texas. In that regard, with more bandwidth set on it, I'm "kinkier".
 
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Hypocrites said:
Like I wrote, I have journeyed into some intense kink in my younger man whoring days.

BDSM, some extreme was a large part of my sex life. Even the less extreme partners submitted on some level.

After 40+ years of marriage I finally gave myself over to my prurient interests. In that, with a sub half my age, I felt revived. Staying hard and cumming multiple times throughout the day.

With her I've definitely shared some dark, intense and very erotic explorations. So as I've intimated before, maybe not actually kinkier but reminded of how much I love it.

So this old man thinks on it more often than I did when I was running through the female population of Texas. In that regard, more bandwidth set on it, I'm "kinkier".
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I've dreamed about being kinky and completely letting go sexually
 
I feel like I have become sluttier and more submissive. I never thought about men at all until I was about 45. Then I got on this fantasy kick (never acted out) of men sucking my cock. More recently, I have explored my submissive self. And in doing so have realized I want cock.
 
TomListens said:
I feel like I have become sluttier and more submissive. I never thought about men at all until I was about 45. Then I got on this fantasy kick (never acted out) of men sucking my cock. More recently, I have explored my submissive self. And in doing so have realized I want cock.
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Very nice honey
 
Scooter58 said:
I second this. All (older) guys remember the early days when all you had to do was think about sex and you’d get hard. Then it progressed to visual stimulation and that lasts a pretty long time. Nowadays, the visual is greatly enhanced by verbal and perhaps more extreme enhancements or kink. The talking especially can really get me going. It’s like laying your soul bare and when your partner reciprocates in kind- well, it’s amazing. I find myself drawn more to “kink”
Now than ever before.
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Vocal has been a big turn on for us for years. We both love hearing accounts of our past experiences while fucking.
 
LittleGreene said:
I Definitely think with age and experience you understand yourself and sex better than when much younger.
I’ve got much more confident in myself and my body, and having a loving partner that gives you the trust and support to experience new things helps massively.
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Trust and support from a loving partner is priceless! That makes so many taboo things/experiences possible!
 
I wouldn’t say it made me more kinkier…

I just realized now that I want to have fun all the time instead of work all the time and all I want is a pretty and funny girl to giggle with the whole time.

At this point, I can just mindfuck women every day to have sex with me, and call myself dominant…

But I don’t wanna do that because I’m trying to find one that just…

Doesn’t want to make bullshit excuses for why we have to stop…

It’s not right to just mind control women to be your personal slave, because they’re human beings that deserve their own dignity and free will.

If you just tell them what they want, then they can never really consent.

And everything they ever want will just be your own sick fantasy.

So I spend a lot more time talking to women and it gets really sexually charged.

And the funny part is is all of these women are so used to dealing with horny little boys that they think offering me a blowjob is gonna turn my crank.

I’m trying to elope with a stripper…

Or just breed fish all day lol

I don’t really give a shit but it’s gonna be a fun time either way.

And I don’t really understand why all of these women are sexually attracted to me, but would rather go work all day then just fuck lol

They’re complaining about the possibility that their bodies are broken because no man can give them an orgasm…

And I just laughed because I’ve never not been able to give a girl an orgasm.

You can feel it when it’s real boys.

I wouldn’t even say I’m kinky anymore. I just don’t care about anything except finding my soulmate right fucking now…

And she better be ready to be the queen of the universe, cause I’m not fucking around lol
 
lowcollar said:
How many of you have gotten kinkier and more libidinous as you got older? I grew up in strict religion and sex was limited to traditional and oral. Then bondage, spanking, anal. Then in my late 40's, I got into pegging, fisting, occasional crossdressing, etc. Now, at 60, I am kinkier than ever.
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Yes. I always had kinky fantasies but I didn't let them out. In my early years I thought they were "bad", so I hid them. Even from my husband. I tried to live up to the "goody goody" expectations of those around me. That, and life was very busy then with kids, jobs, extended family, etc. We have less of all that now; kids are grown; we're semi-retired, live farther away from the older relatives, just less time pressure, expectation, etc. I have become more and more comfortable with myself; who I am, what I need, what I like, what I want. More conscious with each passing year that we really should "make hay while the sun shines" as they say. So I've started bringing up my fantasies & desires with my formerly somewhat vanilla husband (he thought I was vanilla too, lol). He has responded very favorably, and we've been having the time of our lives experimenting! Now if only we could get the last adult child out of the house, lol...
 
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