Kisses

franklyromantic said:
I do so love kisses that are at once romantic and erotic, that are ethereal and yet carnal and sexual all at the same time....
love to give them, receive them, see them, share them

What sane person could pass that up? Or the ones where all you can hear is the sound of your blood rushing in your veins and the heartbeat of the one you're kissing?
 
franklyromantic said:
and how they take on a life of their own, starting slowly and becoming an intimate avenue of communication that grows in sensation and exploration, promising so much more, and yet being complete in and of itself??

Ah, yes, the "time is suspended" kiss... both people are completely in sync and relaxed, but there's sexual tension so palpable that you're both swimming in it.
 
franklyromantic said:
Ah yes--each kiss totally complete in itself, and yet each one a foreshadowing of more, yet to come...
the unbearable tension is the essence of sensual fulfillment, keeping completion suspended and making the kiss itself timeless and eternal
and hey, it's FUN to kiss!

Fun, yes, but also serious. A kiss is how you get some idea of how sensitive that person is going to be as a lover. Does s/he give and take? Does s/he savor you every moment? Is it about her/him or you? Is the kiss only a means to an end? If not, then that's the man I want to kiss for hours and know I'll have earth-shattering sex with later.
 
wow that was a lot of discussion about kissing :)

I am just going to spread a lot of kisses around :kiss:
 
I can't believe that this thread actually needs a bump. We're talking about kissing, people. It is the fundamental act between two people from which all other intimacy grows. It is a simple act that can convey anything from passion to pity, and from love to betrayal. It is the introductory sexual act, and most often the ultimate* sexual act in any tryst.

Have we been so burned out by hardcore pornography that we as posters to Lit have lost all sense of just how substantive an act a kiss is? How did this thread fall back to the third page?

The true mark of how powerful an act the kiss is, is the response I get from a woman when I kiss her in different ways. If I have held her and kissed her lips, she might reach back for me with her lips. If she responds with some of her own "aggression" I may have hit a nerve.

However, she might think that I treat the lip-to-lip kiss as paramount. Nay-nay, I say.

I'll whisper into her ear, "Give me your cheek."

I'll graze it gently with a soft smooch. Then another. Then another, and another still.

"Give me your chin."

She juts out her chin to be greeted by my lips, and I surround it with several soft touches.

"Give me your neck," I whisper again.

She tilts her head aside and brushes back her hair. I have tried to find a woman's pulse with my lips in the past. It is fun. I search and search and search with my mouth trying to find it. Remind you of anyone?

Just when she senses that I am going south, I come back to her ear and whisper anew, "Give me your lips."

So I craddle her face in my hands and kiss her as I mentioned before. By now I know she will follow my lead. If I say, "Give me your breast," certainly she will comply as she is receiving pleasure.

And me? My own pulse is probably beating like a bass drum as I realize the remarkable power of suggestion that two moist lips pressed against another's flesh possess.



*And by 'ultimate' I refer to the classical dictionary definition of 'last.'
 
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i agree that kisses are undervalued.

Part of it I belive is that it is hard to write about kisses. Especially the lip to lip variety. There is so much below the surface of it that to do it justice it takes most of a good post, or half of a story. Even then it doesnt feel like you have really caught the essence of it.

So has anyone else ever broken it off with someone mostly because they were such lousy kissers?
 
I have most definitely broken it off with lousy kissers... more than one of them, too.

On the other hand, I've stayed with men who were terrific kissers for a bit longer just because that particular perk made the ride worth it (and a few of those were men I didn't sleep with, either... I often wonder how they would have been in bed).

For me, the essence of the kiss is in the passion, the sensitivity to what the other person craves. The person who shoves his/her tongue down the throat for a probe isn't the kind of person I can be with. Above all, kissing takes patience... there's no sense in kissing at all if you can't enjoy every second of discovery.
 
Vincent E said:
I can't believe that this thread actually needs a bump. We're talking about kissing, people. It is the fundamental act between two people from which all other intimacy grows. It is a simple act that can convey anything from passion to pity, and from love to betrayal. It is the introductory sexual act, and most often the ultimate* sexual act in any tryst.

Have we been so burned out by hardcore pornography that we as posters to Lit have lost all sense of just how substantive an act a kiss is? How did this thread fall back to the third page?

The true mark of how powerful an act the kiss is, is the response I get from a woman when I kiss her in different ways. If I have held her and kissed her lips, she might reach back for me with her lips. If she responds with some of her own "aggression" I may have hit a nerve.

However, she might think that I treat the lip-to-lip kiss as paramount. Nay-nay, I say.

I'll whisper into her ear, "Give me your cheek."

I'll graze it gently with a soft smooch. Then another. Then another, and another still.

"Give me your chin."

She juts out her chin to be greeted by my lips, and I surround it with several soft touches.

"Give me your neck," I whisper again.

She tilts her head aside and brushes back her hair. I have tried to find a woman's pulse with my lips in the past. It is fun. I search and search and search with my mouth trying to find it. Remind you of anyone?

Just when she senses that I am going south, I come back to her ear and whisper anew, "Give me your lips."

So I craddle her face in my hands and kiss her as I mentioned before. By now I know she will follow my lead. If I say, "Give me your breast," certainly she will comply as she is receiving pleasure.

And me? My own pulse is probably beating like a bass drum as I realize the remarkable power of suggestion that two moist lips pressed against another's flesh possess.



*And by 'ultimate' I refer to the classical dictionary definition of 'last.'

What a wonderful post!!

Kiss me like that and I'm yours

:rose:
 
I come home and find her mid nap on her bed, her hair fanned out like a halo, her satin robe gaping just enough to show one pink nipple.

I lean down and kiss her forehead softly, working my way down her face, her eyelids flutter then close and a slow sleepy smile crosses her lips. I kiss the tops of her eyelids gently.

Her lips are warm under mine, and the small move they make to return my kiss sends a warmpth spreading through my body.
:kiss:
 
MsTexas said:
~Lays a smoldering, toe curling, breath taking kiss on spyro~

:kiss: :rose:

HOT DAMN....feels his head floating away.... drags it back down for another kiss :kiss:
 
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